Jess from JessOutWest's Profile

In September of last year, we found ourselves in a situation that we could have never imagined. My husband lost his job (he was our main income) due to economic downsizing with his employer and we were faced with the reality of "we will not be able to make our mortgage" for the first time. Ever. It was awful. On top of that, we bought in 2007 which means that our house was devalued by at least $80 - $100k. The only job opening was across country. We had to declare bankruptcy just to get out from under our home, cross the country and get work.

Now, on the other side of the drama, things are very bright. We are renting a lovely home in a great school district and our bills are paid. But at the time, I remember thinking "we have failed." I just wish I could hug everyone that is going through it and tell them that they will be okay and not to judge themselves by their parents and grandparent's standards. Life is messy. Pick up, do better, move on. Don't let it define you.

On a totally different topic ... I adore the little display next to the bed for all the figures! My daughter is 6 and would love to display her little finds in something like that!

I have a similar sad little rescue rack in my guest bedroom. I have been trying to decide what to do with it for years. You have inspired me to give it a new lease on life! I may even make it into a new side table by putting a tray on top. Great job!

Oh! I love the faux-taxidermy with the pinata head! That was the first thing I saw this morning with my cup of coffee and I think it made my day. Such a great idea. I love any room that does not take itself so seriously - it reflects humor and love. Great job and lucky Posey!

Ohmigoodniss. It really is ugly as sin! And yet I can't stop looking. The setting may be influencing my reaction too. Cool yes. Hideous, yes. Do I want it? No. Do I want someone I know to own it so I can try it out? Definitely.

Adorable! My daughter is Parker Lindsay - so I am a big fan of the name (she turns six next month, sigh). This is such a well thought room. Beautiful job.

I used to be 100% against all leash contraptions. My 5 year old and 2.5 year old are both completely aware of how to behave, my expectations are firm and clear. I thought it was my excellent parenting (ha!). That said, I had my whole view shaken when my friend's almost 2 year old turned in to Houdini! That kid not only runs off, he runs off and never looks back. Seriously. Gone. Down the road, around the corner gone. He manages to unlock doors and sneak out of the house on a regular basis. He is so quiet! A room full of adults can't keep up with him. I don't think an electric fence could stop him. So leash? Sure - go ahead!