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This seems very dependent on your office culture.

In the places that I've worked it would have been very odd to receive a personalized or handmade gift.

I don't expect any gifts at the office but do appreciate it if whoever is in charge makes a thank you gesture (regardless of the time of year). Taking the staff to lunch or ordering-in lunch is a thoughtful gesture that people can opt out of if not interested.


Holiday Gift Ideas for Large Group at Work? Good Questions
12/10/12 5:53 PM

I'm a framing novice - only recently have I felt that I can afford it. Now I have a couple of posters and a couple of smaller prints that I'd like to frame.

For those who suggest coupons from AC Moore, Michaels, etc: if you buy off the shelf frames, do those offer UV protection? Or do you have to use their framing shops and specify UV protected?

Thanks for the input!


How To Display Unusually Sized Poster? Good Questions
12/4/12 12:04 PM

@jess13 Are YOU really serious when you say "How is open green space bad for the environment?" While lawns can certainly be the easiest landscaping to maintain, they have significant issues with the inputs/resources they consume. Look into:

Lawns as the US's biggest "crop"
http://www.usnews.com/usnews/culture/articles/050516/16lawn.htm

Water Use - Nationally, outdoor irrigation accounts for 30% of residential water use. http://www.epa.gov/watersense/outdoor/landscaping.html

Fertilizer Use - Homeowners are likely to over fertilize and this fertilizer pollutes the streams/rivers/lakes downstream. http://www.scientificamerican.com/article.cfm?id=how-fertilizers-harm-earth

Air Quality - Gas powered lawn mowers cause air quality problems. http://www.epa.gov/otaq/consumer/19-yard.pdf

Grass Clipping - While many communities don't allow grass clipping to go in the trash, some do and there are still education efforts to get people to stop doing this! http://www.ct.gov/dep/cwp/view.asp?a=2718&q=325364


How To Separate Merged Front Yards? Good Questions
6/19/12 1:52 PM

@ShellyIN and @NDprairiegirl I agree that it's totally possible that the neighbor is doing this to be nice or because it is customary. My neighbor and I do this in the part of our yards that aren't separated. I always support thinking the best of your neighbor and trying a friendly chat first!

Another thing to consider - adding any barrier between your yards will increase the amount of maintenance (weed-whacking, edging, trimming, weeding, etc) that you each have to do. If you are particular about how this border looks, keep in mind that your neighbor may not maintain their side in the manner you want.

My neighbor and I used to have a split rail fence between our yards, but it was a pain to mow under/around and always looked weedy. Now we have a landscape bed between most of our yards. We discussed it and both wanted to have that area - but it does mean that we both have to edge/trim there and weed the beds.


How To Separate Merged Front Yards? Good Questions
6/19/12 1:17 PM

Awesome!

Question Taylor and John- I'm interested in making similar shelves - what brand of hanging standards/brackets did you use? I'm having trouble finding brackets to attach to my own wood.


Taylor & John's Peaceful Echo Park Perch House Tour
6/9/12 11:54 AM

Paint before. And hire the painter. (And refinish your floors if needed.)

I wouldn't have said that a few years ago - I was pro-DIY painting over time. But, I was convinced to get the house painted in the short window between closing and move-in and I it was money well spent.

Here's what I did: I lined/scheduled the contractor in advance. They don't need to know your paint color until the day they start painting. So, on closing day, I went over to the empty house with some paint samples. I painted them on the walls and looked at it in different lights that day and the next. I'm happy with all of my choices that day. There's one room I'd like to repaint now, but I'm so glad I'll be painting over the light color I chose instead of the previous owner's dark color.


Should I Paint Before or After Moving In? Good Questions
5/30/12 1:21 PM

Nice job building in storage and making a space that works. Could you share the overall dimensions of your bathroom and the dimension of the shower? I'm currently planning a remodel and it helps me visualize!

To weigh in on the save the pink bathrooms thread: I can see both sides of this.

I'm a reader of Retro Renovation, and in general I favor saving the pink (or other vintage) bath. I've grown to love my pink bathroom and I am sad when I see remodels just because someone doesn't like the color. That said, as a homeowner I am about to demolish a pink bathroom (pink tile and pink soapdishes etc; white sink/toilet; replacement bland flooring). I've wrestled with saving the pink - it has character and I love me some preservation.

BUT...My bathroom is over 50 years old and has significant plumbing problems that need to be addressed. The tile itself is in okay shape - I wouldn't do anything if I didn't need to do the other work. But, the grout is dirty and stained and a number of tiles are cracked or chipped - this isn't obvious in a before picture but is obvious in person. I could spend chunk of cash to match the tiles that will be damaged by the plumbing work and to regrout the rest. That is...if there is no water damage discovered.

Or, I could live up to the tradition of what Pam on Retro Renovation calls "Mid-Century Modest": I live in a small house with basic, middle-of the road (not premium) finishes from the mid-century. I am going to replace the pink tiles with basic white hex and subway tile. It will retain the character of my modest house, it will make it easier for me to clean my little bathroom, and will be better for resale value. Because people who live in modest houses have to think about that!

To summarize my mega post: I'm going to demo a pink bathroom, but I've considered other options and made the best choice for my home.


Before & After: A Bathroom Goes From Pinky Peach to Sleek and Chic
5/30/12 1:10 PM

I clearly go to worse bars than most of you. I'd never order a mixed drink or a draft beer from a bad bar. Bottled beer, thanks. If it's sketchy and there's more than a few bottled choices, I'll pick the best beer that I can see multiple other people drinking. I've been handed a skunked bottle before!


What Drink Do You Order at a Bad Bar?
25 Food Writers Share Their Safety Drinks

5/10/12 1:51 PM

My parents taught me a lot, but I wish they'd taught me to know when to bring in an expert. Both my parents are super handy and frugal, so they DIY everything - electrical, plumbing, appliance repair, gardening, car repair, tree trimming, bathroom reno, floor installation, cooking (no eating out), all cleaning, investing, etc.

I grew up assuming I would do the same, but I learned that I can't do everything. Sometimes the most cost effective thing is to hire an expert rather than buy special tools, learn skills, and try and fail several times. And sometimes, hiring someone to finish a task in a timely way is better for relationship harmony!


8 Things That Would've Made Adulthood Easier
8/3/11 1:04 PM

I love it. It makes me feel at home. The wall color is not my taste, but the colors in the furniture and accents do it for me.


Apartment Therapy San Francisco | Jenn's San Francisco Dreams Living Room Room for Color - West #1
10/1/09 5:37 PM

Ack! I just saw this post. I bought a home with fake brick throughout the kitchen. Rather than repainting to change the look of the kitchen, I'm going to have to rip this stuff off and hang new drywall. If you want interesting walls, spare the future homeowner and use something that is easy to remove.


Apartment Therapy New York | Best Product: Vacuform Faux Brick panels from Rose Brand
7/29/09 11:44 PM