NIGHTSTALKER1234's Profile

Relationships consists of a lot of sacrifice. I would say to weigh what is more important. If it's that important to him to keep his stuff up there, then I would say respect his choice (even if its not ideal to you). If the collectables are not that important to you, then you shouldn't mind it so much just because of a few, space discrepencies.

If you had something that you valued a lot, wouldn't you want you're bf to resepect the fact that you value it so much?

I would say its a petty thing to fight over. Make a dealbreaker something a little more serious than collectables and home furniture. At the end of the day just see which means more to you, your bf, or those collectables. It could actually define how serious you are about the relationship and it shows that you respect him for who he is, despite all the kwirks. You are not perfect and neither is he, but you can be perfect FOR EACH OTHER if you both sacrifce certain things because you value the other person more.