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I've found that creating wish lists can actually be a helpful way of limiting spending and getting the satisfying feeling of having purchased something without actually doing it. Whenever I see something for myself that I have the urge to buy, I look it up online and add it to my wish list (you can use Amazon for global wish lists; I also use evernote, which has the benefit of letting you add photos of things that aren't available online). This way I feel like I've acted on something, but haven't spent money. Every few months I'll check out my wish list and see if I still want any of that stuff; a lot of the time I don't.

I also make gift lists throughout the year for the people that I want to give gifts to -- either for the holidays or birthdays. When I'm with someone and they mention something, or if I just think of something randomly, I'll put it in their gift list. Then when a birthday or holiday comes up I can look over the ideas I've collected and see which one makes the most sense at the time. I find this not only helps me in the spending department (because I'm not doing the frantic "I don't know what to get you so I'm going to just buy a bunch of stuff at the last minute and hope you like something"), but it also means the gifts I give are much more personal.


Curbing the Impulse: How to Resist Buying for Yourself at Christmas
12/14/12 10:48 AM

I've been using the apple wireless keyboard with my ipad to work on my dissertation (another situation where it's all too easy to get distracted with all the multitasking options of a laptop!). I just got the Incase Origami Workstation which is really great. It's both a carrying case for the keyboard and a stand for the keyboard and ipad together (the keyboard snaps in so it mimics typing on a laptop). Plus it's not bulky at all, which is good for travel. http://store.apple.com/us/product/H6353ZM/A/incase-origami-workstation


Back to School: iPad Accessories Every College Student Needs
9/21/12 2:34 PM

Engineergirl - Why not? Maybe you're assuming that her great-great-grandmother was Anglo American? Even if she was, people around the world have been eating those foods for centuries, even thousands of years, so the great-great-grandmothers of entire populations would definitely recognize them as food.

Really cute kitchen, it looks so warm and inviting. And I think that's the same squirrel nut cracker I recently bought for a friend!


Lindsay's Light & Lovely Rental Kitchen
Kitchen Tour

2/14/12 9:30 PM

I have a similar Simple Human dish rack (the one without the bamboo), and have been surprised by how much better it has made my life. We had gone through a couple of those wooden Ikea racks (both ruined within a year), as well as a $20 rack from Target that seemed totally standard and normal, but our dishes would not stack properly or fit in the designated slots - maybe they are just not the standard size dishes, I don't know. My plates would end up resting in the drip tray because of the design of the dish rack, and the drip tray was not high enough to go over the edge of the sink, so there would always be a gross pool of water collecting around it. Doing dishes actually took longer, because I had to carefully and strategically place everything in the tray. It was annoying to deal with multiple times a day.

I had been reading about these Simple Human racks and someone gave us a gift card to Bed Bath and Beyond, so we finally took the plunge. We do SO many dishes (we cook a lot plus I work from home, so there is constantly a stack), and I like that you can quickly customize the inside so that you have different stacking options - i.e. if you're washing a lot of pots and pans versus plates and bowls. It's also easy to take apart and clean, at least in my experience. $80 is a lot to spend, but if you spend a good deal of time doing dishes every day then having the right tools can really make a difference and in my opinion it has been worth it - especially since I ended up spending $50 on three crappy dish racks in three years anyway.


Bamboo Dish Rack from Simplehuman
Product Review

2/14/12 4:31 PM

Two things that have worked for me:
1. Putting pieces of foil over the couch (usually just the arm rests) when we leave. Cats don't like foil and will generally stay away.

2. Getting a tightly woven door mat for the hallway. This was an accidental fix, but I was amazed to discover that my cat stopped scratching the couch and moved on to scratching the door mat, which is still in the living room area, behind the couch. He'll scratch it and then lay down on it, so I think it fulfills the same purpose as the couch did. The doormat only cost $30 and it's sole purpose is to get dirty, so I couldn't be happier with his new behavior.


How To Fix Cat-Claw Marks With A Corkscrew!
7/9/11 11:57 AM

I think it depends on how you define homemaking and what your situation is. Sure, being able to buy beautiful things and decorate your space the way you like it is a (class) privilege, as is owning a home (or renting an apartment) that is not in disrepair, having the free time to take care of it, etc.

However, as many people have pointed out, the less fun, more onerous aspects of homemaking tend to fall on women, even when those women have full-time jobs. I.e. men tend to work on the car or mow the lawn, which is great but doesn't need to be done every day; women tend to shop for food, cook dinner, clean up daily, etc (statistically speaking). So in that case, it can definitely become a burden - and a source of resentment. Even though I love decorating my apartment and actually enjoy some "chores," I hate cleaning the bathroom, doing dishes, and dealing with clutter. Yet, all aspects of homemaking tend to fall to me in my relationship (even with a partner who tries very hard to share equally), and I see some of these as a definite burden and source of frustration.

So, I think it's about whether you get to do what you enjoy doing with your leisure time, or whether you have to spend that time doing things you don't enjoy. I would encourage people to read the book The Second Shift by Arlie Hochshild for a really engaging look at this issue on a societal level.


Is Homemaking a Burden or a Privilege?
6/3/11 2:36 PM

I have lived in the bay area for about nine years now, including SF, Berkeley and Oakland. I agree with others who suggested subletting first. If you really know nothing about the various neighborhoods in the city then you will want to explore a little and figure out what suits you before committing to a lease. Each neighborhood has it's own vibe and character (sometimes *too* much character), and even more importantly, each has it's own weather!

I lived in the Inner Sunset, which I loved for a number of reasons (great food, laid back/small town feel, tons of muni lines, right next to GG park, easy access to Marin which is where I worked), but it is *quite* cold and foggy there, and if you have any tendency toward seasonal affect disorder I would not recommend it. This neighborhood also has strong working class roots, and even though it's gentrifying it definitely feels less posh than some other neighborhoods in the city. I'm a big fan of that, but if you're looking for a more upscale experience then you probably will want to look in the Northern parts of the city (Marina, Russian Hill, Nob Hill, etc).

I would think about what things are important to you in terms of weather, outdoor activities, nightlife, commute/transportation, etc. There are so many amazing and diverse neighborhoods in SF... I'm sure you'll find one you love, but you will just have to explore a bit first.


What's The Best Neighborhood To Live In San Francisco?
Good Questions

3/12/11 9:51 PM

This seems like a great idea for those of us in disaster areas. My only question is what do you do about water for cooking? If you have all these dried grains and beans, but no basic services because of a disaster, then won't you also need to stockpile extra water for cooking everything? How do you know how much to store? And if the electricity/gas isn't working, then wouldn't you have to store lots of extra propane for your camp stove? Taking these factors into consideration makes this seem doable for a few weeks, but I'm not sure how it would work for longer than that.

Also, I think a lot of the "this is crazy" comments were in reference to the fact that the post does not say that this is being done to prepare for a natural disaster, but is more about personal economic hardship. I think that's where the "save the ten dollars" comment came from - obviously in a natural disaster that affects the entire community money is not going to get you very far, stores will be empty, prices will be exorbitant, etc. While it's the author's prerogative to prepare for personal hardship by storing a year's worth of food, I can also see how it would make sense to save the money (and potentially avoid *wasting* lots of food) as a financial security strategy. So, no one is "crazy" either way.


How To Start a Food Storage Plan On $10 A Week
2/10/11 9:51 PM

We have the LG WM3987HW and so far it has been amazing. This is the bigger model, which I would also recommend. It has about the same capacity as a regular washer (4.2 cubic ft), and we can do a full week's worth of darks or lights (for two people) at a time, with everything coming out perfectly clean and dry. Really - no drying rack necessary. It does take longer to dry than a vented machine, but the actual number of minutes or hours depends on a number of factors - how big of a load you put in, the type of fabric you're washing, whether you wash on warm or cold, and how dry you want things (i.e. bone dry, a tiny bit damp, or very damp). It also has a number of spin speeds, and putting it on the highest speed will significantly reduce drying time. We've been pleasantly surprised to find that our clothes are actually cleaner and dryer than what we were getting at the laundromat, and the expense of this particular model was worth it to us given that we were already spending a few hundred dollars a year on coin-operated machines (not to mention the time and hassle of going to the laundromat every week).

From what I have heard and read, brand DOES matter, and some brands/models might really not be worth it. I have a friend who has a smaller Haier and she's found that it doesn't do a great job at either cleaning or drying her clothes.


Recommendations for a Good Washer Ventless Dryer Combo?
Good Questions

2/5/11 2:58 PM

Wow, this looks great! How long did it take you to stencil? Seems like it would take a ton of patience.


Bathroom Revamp Using A Stencil Mini Tour | Apartment Therapy Los Angeles
3/26/10 12:43 PM

I definitely did NOT miss anything - your home is fantastic! So much personality and warmth - it looks like a place one would feel immediately comfortable in as a guest.


SkinnyLaminx Studio: Heather Paul's Welcoming Nest House Tour | Apartment Therapy New York
3/9/10 10:17 PM

I really like the retro look of toasters, but when it comes down to it I'm all about the multi-use toaster oven. As others have said, toaster ovens are indispensable for heating small things up with the same results as a full oven, but without all the wasted energy and excess heat. Plus our full-size oven takes forever to heat up, so the toaster oven is just much quicker. I really can't imagine using a toaster instead (or using both, since I think toaster ovens do a good job with toast - although maybe I have low toast standards!)

Our toaster oven is pretty small (it's about 10-15 years old, so came out before these new monstrosities came onto the scene), so takes up minimal counter space. We don't own a microwave, so mostly use it for heating up leftovers, which we store in little pyrex tupperware - fridge to toaster oven, and ten minutes later you have lunch! I also make and freeze a lot of slice and bake cookie dough, so if we want to eat just a couple of cookies we don't have to heat up the entire gas oven just to do it.


Toaster or Toaster Oven: Which Do You Prefer? | Apartment Therapy The Kitchn
3/3/10 7:45 PM

I think some of the naysayers here are just not understanding how the bake sales work. Bakers (professional or non) donate bake goods. Those baked goods are then sold to the community, usually for a suggested donation. Generally what happens is that people who stop buy will give $5, $10, $20 or more for a cookie or a brownie, sometimes not even taking anything. So the bakers are able to turn some time and a little money into even more money, which is then sent to relief organizations.

Reports are that this weekend almost $22,000 was raised from Bay Area bake sales for Haiti. I really doubt that the people who end up getting food, water, or medicine because of that money will care that it came from a bake sale.


Weekend Meditation: The Bake Sale Response | Apartment Therapy The Kitchn
1/25/10 12:06 AM

I love turnips! My favorite way to prepare them is to cut them into wedges and sauté them until they've browned a bit. Then add some bread crumbs, lemon juice, salt and pepper. Meanwhile, cook some penne and add the turnip greens to the pasta water in the last couple minutes of cooking so that they wilt. Toss the pasta and greens with the turnip mixture and top with parmesan. Delicious!

I also like to eat them raw - they're nice and spicy.


Seasonal Spotlight: Turnips! | Apartment Therapy The Kitchn
1/4/10 1:35 PM

I love Paxton Gate, especially the plants and the loose-leaf tea selection (and they usually have a pot of something delicious brewing for you to sip while browsing). Granted, the taxidermy can be a bit creepy; I could never imagine displaying a stuffed horse in my home. But I'm not sure why it has to necessarily be painful...unless the animal was killed for the explicit purpose of being stuffed, which is not always the case (for instance, people sometimes have their deceased pets stuffed - creepy, yes, but not cruel).


Natural Curiosities, Oddities and More at Paxton Gate | Apartment Therapy San Francisco
12/17/09 4:11 PM

Wow, I do not understand all the negative comments about Rebecca's boyfriend. I hardly think sleeping in until 9am constitutes "giving up" or being lazy. Maybe he does all his job searching/resume writing late at night, or is just more productive after 9; we really don't know, so who are we to judge? All good relationships involve compromise, and even more so in a live/work space like theirs. I can't imagine being in a relationship where losing my job also meant losing my place as an equal partner in the relationship.

Great tips Rebecca - good luck to your boyfriend on finding a job and to the two of you on continuing to make it work!


Sharing a Studio Apartment and Working From Home | Apartment Therapy Los Angeles
12/11/09 3:48 PM

wow, I'm amazed at how accurate this is! I definitely identify more with my results than the other ones listed so far.

Global Modern

You keep up with culture, style, and trends but have a classical appreciation for beautiful forms, good design, and quality craftsmanship. You prefer the streamlined and a bit of breathing room to the overly embellished or cluttered. But your style is far from cold, because your aesthetic interests are wide-ranging and far-flung. You appreciate other cultures and like mixing the old or the unusual with the new and modern. Objects in your home tend to reflect your personality, your passions, your travels, and your eclectic interests–uniting to form a well-edited collection.

You value comfort. Your home is a warm and open friendly place, and you feel happiest when everyone is cared for and relaxed in your space. Elements like pillows, throws, overstuffed furniture, and good lighting set the mood. You may also enjoy layering different fabrics or mixing patterns to create a cozy effect.


Apartment Therapy San Francisco | Need Help Defining Your Personal Style? HomeGoods StyleScope Quiz
11/6/09 10:17 PM

Apparently there is some debate in the blogosphere about whether marketing this product as "recycled" is greenwashing or not - a writer for US News and World Report argues that it isn't, because Reynolds' original foil is made out of virgin aluminum (this is according to Reynolds). They also claim that "recycling aluminum foil uses 5 only percent of the energy needed to make the original," and that the packaging also comes from recycled sources.

I am generally suspicious of any of the environmental claims made by corporations, and share the same concerns that focusing on recycling let's people feel ok about not reducing. But if people are buying foil anyway, it does seem like this is at least more of an environmentally conscious option than the original.


Apartment Therapy The Kitchn | Have You Tried This Recycled Aluminum Foil?
10/16/09 12:44 PM

One of my favorite drinks is Hong Kong milk tea, which is black tea with either evaporated milk and sugar, or condensed milk. So delicious!


Apartment Therapy The Kitchn | Tip: Try Condensed Milk In Your Hot Tea
10/9/09 3:06 PM

I use a mini plunger, purchased just for the sink. Works every time, although you do have to deal with some gunk that comes up. But sometimes the vinegar/baking soda is not strong enough, and I feel better about using the plunger than dumping other stuff down.


Apartment Therapy Re-Nest | How To: Fix a Slow Draining Sink Most Popular Posts
9/8/09 11:49 PM