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Display Name: Trig
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The flag: framing it could make it look more like art and less like a dorm room, or if you're crafty (and he'll let you), make it into a big pillow or blanket to throw on the couch! Then maybe take those colours for your other accent pieces in the room so it's not so starkly different.

Decorating together: Ugh, it's hard. I like to look at all the options in all the stores, but boyfriend is satisfied with going to one store and find the thing that works best there, even if there's nothing I like. He's usually in the "Meh, what we have works fine" camp, though he can see why I want to improve things.

If your boyfriend is like mine and doesn't really care too much about the decor, ask him if there's anything he really wants and anything he's really against in a particular room so you can keep his taste in mind.
Then do a bunch of online shopping/research, so you know what stores to go to, and can identify why you do or don't like a particular item or style ("I think it's ugly" is apparently not good enough). Maybe make a 'mood board' type thing with a few different options or styles to show him ahead of time so he can identify what he does and doesn't like.

I have yet to have the problem of me liking something and him hating it. It's usually the opposite, I don't like anything and he just wants to get something and be done shopping. I should probably try to be less picky. ;)


How Can We Compromise on Decorating (While Incorporating a Norwegian Flag)? Good Questions
3/26/13 10:18 AM

Love the teepee, and the window-pane closet-shelf!


Brooke's Campout Bedroom My Bedroom Retreat Contest
3/26/13 9:24 AM

For items of sentimental value: consider giving them to your friends/family with a "I've really enjoyed this item and thought it fit your style too, I'd like you to have it." That way you can pass on the sentimentalism of the item without just tossing it. And if the giver ever asks about it, you can say that you just couldn't bring it with you, but you know that the person you gave it to is enjoying it as much as you did.

Also, I love the mirror and desk in the picture. Mmm.


How Much is Your Stuff Worth?
3/25/13 11:22 AM

Huh. I've never had this issue. I can't cook unless my counters are clear, so I keep them clear.
The only things permanently on them are the things we use daily: coffee grinder, jar of coffee beans, toaster, cat food (in a plastic container), and the dish drying rack. Everything else is put away, and I try to clear the drying rack out every morning while waiting for the kettle to boil.

If you don't have a lot of cupboard space to store things and want empty counters, I recommend *creating* some horizontal surfaces!
In my kitchen, a butcher block against one wall is home to the (stacked) toaster oven and microwave, and baskets on its shelves contain the food processor, hand mixer, and various other small appliances. We put up a wall shelf for big bowls/pitchers/teapots, the miscellany (beer empties, bread, fruit, whatever needs a home RIGHT NOW) goes on the sink-hookup washing machine next to the butcher block, and the top of the fridge stores liquor bottles, bigger tupperware, and the kettle.

As for keys and purses/backpacks, those don't belong in the kitchen. A little shelf right inside the door keeps keys, phones, and wallets, and backpacks or purses go in (or on the floor in front of) the wardrobe with the jackets.

I think it works because, like another commenter said, we have a non-counter home for everything, and non-kitchen things don't go in the kitchen.

And maybe it's being a renter/getting bills online, but we never have so much mail that it takes more than a minute to sort through and deal with.


5 Habits For Keeping Clear Countertops
3/25/13 11:06 AM

We inherited one from our old neighbours. It's the most rickety thing but it DOES get the beer empties back to the Beer Store. Just has to THUDclink-THUDclink-THUDclink down our front steps first.


Easy Does It: Folding Shopping Carts
3/19/13 1:42 PM

DC, it says right in the post why wood: it is beautiful. The poster didn't want to have to stash it away in a closet, she wanted to be able to display it. I think wooden toys are really nice; they are durable and beautiful, and a nice change from the bajillion plastic toys you normally see.

That said, some of those prices are a bit ridiculous. Handcrafted stuff is nice and all, but I think I'd just try to make friends with someone with a few power tools instead. ;)


For Every Budget: 20 Wooden Baby Gyms
3/19/13 10:17 AM

Wow, way to take advantage of a space most people would just use for storage! Great idea! I know when I lived in a bachelor it was always a bit awkward having people over, using my bed as a couch. This way you probably have lots of room for entertaining!


Ellen's Walk-In Closet Bedroom My Bedroom Retreat Contest
3/19/13 10:10 AM

My mind was blown when I discovered that my thesis advisor used the "Hunt and Peck" typing method. HOW DID HE WRITE PAPERS LIKE THAT?!

I understand that you can 'touch-type', or use the 'home row' without hunting and pecking but needing to glance at the keys every now and again... but yeah, I thought everyone learned to touch-type. We had to do ten minutes of 'All the Right Type', a learn-to-type program, at the beginning of every computer class starting probably in grade two, though it was really the advent of chat in middle school that got my typing properly.


Can You Learn to Type Faster Without Looking At The Keys? SXSW Interactive
3/19/13 9:50 AM

I think we had more of an unspoken rule of respecting other people's space. Maybe when we were very young there was some kind of actual rule/invite-only policy, but I can't remember one.
Even now thinking of going in to my grandparents' room seems like a violation of privacy, though I was never told NOT to go in.

There wasn't really much draw to my parents' room anyway. They were always up earlier than us, so there weren't any morning snuggles. They didn't have a TV or toys or anything fun, so why would I want to play in there, unless they were in there folding laundry or something? If the door was shut, we knocked.

Being siblings, we strictly enforced privacy in our own rooms: I wasn't allowed in my sister's room without permission. Pretty sure she raided mine from time to time, but it was usually an active attempt to annoy me.


Is Your Bedroom Off-Limits to Kids?
3/18/13 11:51 AM

If possible, put up shelves! I just put one up on a big empty wall in our kitchen, and I love it. I couldn't do all open shelving, but a single shelf to display/make accessible some of my nicer kitchen things (Mason Cash mixing bowls, pitchers and jugs) is great.
Granted, it took five trips to the hardware store and a bunch of holes in the wall, but it's awesome. (The kitchen walls consist of many layers of paint, a 3/4" thick layer of horse-hair plaster, 1/2" thick plywood lathes, then some kind of sheet metal. No wonder we had a hard time finding studs, which are spaced 32" apart...)

We've spackled the holes and are going to put on a fresh coat of paint, so the landlord should be appeased.

My list of "would like to do" includes replacing the ceiling lamp and the cupboard hardware, but that will probably have to wait. We're currently focusing on the bathroom, the kitchen shelf was just a side project.


7 Ways to Rescue a Rental Kitchen Renters Solutions
3/18/13 9:44 AM

Ooh, I like the idea of upholstering it! I would definitely cover up the brick somehow; I really don't like internal brick. Then I'd maybe do one of those entryway-things (the ones everyone seems to do with a bench and putting crown moulding/panels on the wall with hangers and cubbies), but just for one instead of the entire bench. You could maybe fit two coat hooks, or wrap the wall treatment/hooks around the corner a bit.

The way the stair extends out there might make it a tough space to access though. Like Pi said, it looks so busy with the rail, but I imagine improving that is part of the planned reno.
You could just do a shelf with baskets to store things (toques and mitts, dog leashes, extra shoes, grocery bags, whatever your climate and lifestyle dictates). Maybe put a hinged lid on the box for extension cords/Christmas lights, like denisegk!


What To Do with Built-In Indoor
Brick Planter? Good Questions

3/18/13 9:26 AM

My current landlord is pretty good. Not ideal, but pretty good. Our house (we live on one floor of a three-story-plus-basement place that's probably over 100 years old) is his only property, so he's never too busy to look after it. The only problem is he puts as little money into it as possible. He'd DIY everything if he could. Like the time he wanted to replace a major pipe in the basement when it burst and was backwashing used toilet water into the basement apartment shower. UGH!). Luckily, his wife and the basement tenant talked sense into him and he got a professional plumber to do it.

He does mean well though. He mows the lawn/shovels the driveway punctually. He applies a fresh coat of paint to the porch every year (though he really should replace it). He let us dig up chunks of the front yard and put in gardens, was ok with us getting a cat (having hardwood and linoleum probably helped), didn't complain when we bought a counter-top dishwasher and (used) sink-hookup laundry machine, and I imagine he'll be fine with us painting (we've been living there three years now... I think it's time.)

Plus if something goes wrong, he's there as soon as possible. Last fall when a big leak sprung in the ceiling in our bedroom after he'd already patched the leak once, he came over the next morning, offered to replace anything that had been water damaged, and got the roof replaced that weekend. As an apology for us camping out in the living room for a few rainy nights, he gave us a bunch of krona for our then-upcoming vacation in Iceland.

So, pretty good guy. For the amount of rent we and our fellow tenants pay (which isn't a ton, but we live in a pretty desirable neighbourhood, so the same house elsewhere would fetch a lot less), he could afford to be less cheap about keeping the place in good repair.

Prospective landlords, just make sure you respond quickly to your tenant's needs, don't blame them for things that are pre-existing issues in your 100-year-old house, and try not to be too cheap about upkeep (seriously, replace rotting/cracking wood porches rather than just putting another coat of paint on them. The paint is not actually structural...)


Landlords: The Good, Bad, and the Bizarre
3/14/13 4:49 PM

@MCross:
"Others have to occasionally shower, use the toilet, or answer the phone, and 90 seconds later the damage is done..."

My thoughts exactly. Thanks for the words of not judging of parents.
I don't have kids, but I can totally see them doing things like picking at the already-existing hole in the wall while mom thinks they're quietly playing in their room. It's a curiosity- usually there aren't holes in the wall- and it's there to be picked at! When I was a kid, if there was loose yarn or a hole in an afghan, I was constantly pulling on it or sticking my fingers and toes through it. It's just what kids do, without thinking, so saying 'No' isn't going to help much.
It's why the AT post suggests fixing small things ASAP, before kids get preoccupied with them!


Top 5 Kinds of Rental Damage Left By Kids, and How To Prevent Them Renters Solutions
3/11/13 2:38 PM

@herzprung, and others complaining about "why is it just the women?", some direct quotes from the post:

"Obviously, moms don’t have a monopoly on good planning."
"Here are 6 smart ideas for anyone — with kids or no..."
"Many reported sharing duties with their partners..."

Yes, the book referenced was written based on feedback from women, but they make it clear that this stuff isn't just for women, or even for people with kids.


Eat Breakfast Like a Mom:
6 Smart Breakfast Tips for Everyone Guest Post from Debbie Koenig of Parents Need to Eat Too

3/11/13 9:05 AM

Ha! I had almost that exact headboard as a kid (but mine was 'natural' rather than this awesome red). I was constantly sproinging the curly things, and broke quite a few of them. Nice to see it fit in to an adult room too! I really like the matching red blanket on the bed.


Vera's Casual Luxe Bedroom My Bedroom Retreat Contest
3/8/13 3:16 PM

Agree with Surfjack, though the cushion might look 'out of proportion', it also looks a heck of a lot more comfortable than the original 80's pattern thing. I can just picture the
particleboard with a bit of padding stapled to it, totally unsitable for more than ten minutes.
If anyone wants to do some actual sitting, I think the thicker cushion was a good idea.

Also, though I'm not a huge fan of parquet, I LOVE the border on the floor!


Before & After: A Wooden Bench Goes Bright
3/8/13 10:28 AM

Aw, you all make me really want to move! I love settling in to a new place, and the thought of packing and moving everything is always the impetus I need to purge my clutter. My current apartment is perfect for me right now, so I don't think I'll be going anywhere soon, but I can dream fondly of it, forgetting the bad parts...

In university I moved every year, and it was always a mad rush, since my exams always seemed to be scheduled for the last possible day, and I had to be out of the apartment by the next day. Luckily, living on low income, with roommates, in small apartments meant I never really had a lot of furniture or decor, so essentially it came down to clothes, dresser, bed, desk, kitchen stuff, and books. Oh the books. My friends earned their 2-4 well. (Beer, and returning the favour, is cheaper than movers.)

My most recent big move was three years ago, into a tiny bachelor basement apartment. One year later, I moved upstairs into the one-bedroom (the living/dining room of which was the size of my entire bachelor), and my boyfriend joined me, bringing couches, a bigger bed, a dresser, and bookshelves; I had a dining room table and chairs, a dresser, a bedside table, and a coffee table. Where there was overlap, it was fun to choose the better item and toss the worse.

I think the only real thing I hate about moving is cleaning the empty place before finally closing the door. I know it's got to be done, but it's so depressing! And the thought that I'd lived there all year with some of that filth is pretty gross too.


A Box A Day:
Ridiculously Optimistic Moving Goals

3/8/13 10:13 AM

I don't mind hand-washing, but my boyfriend hates it, and hand drying doubly so. It was hard for me to want to wash up after dinner when I could be relaxing on the couch with him, so a big chunk of counter space was constantly full of un-washed dishes.

So, roughly two years ago, we got a Danby model on sale. I can't remember what we payed, but it was worth every penny. The counter space it takes up is what was previously taken up by gross dishes, so that's no loss. It's energy and water-efficient, though our rent is inclusive, so while I haven't seen the bill, our landlord hasn't complained.

Pots, pans, and other awkward items (wood, tupperware) don't go in, but it gets our plates, cups, bowls, and silverware clean with minimal effort. We run it probably every other day. My sister was inspired by mine, and as she lives alone, she has room for her pots in it.

One warning: if you ever see one with a window, avoid it. It's cool to see the water swooshing around, but ours started leaking about a year in. We removed the gasket and used silicone caulking to seal it. The next year's model ditched the window too, so I imagine this was a common problem.

I'd totally recommend it to anyone who hates washing dishes but doesn't have the space or commitment to a full-sized one. All of our dishwasherless friends are jealous.

The only thing that has had a greater effect on our chore-doing is the sink-hookup apartment-sized laundry machine, but that's another post entirely.


Countertop Dishwashers Renters Solutions
3/6/13 5:51 PM

Thorndale, it may not have a full budget breakdown, but as the original AT post says, "[f]or more photos and details, check out Cassity's blog, Remodelaholic."

One click after the initial link got me here:
http://www.remodelaholic.com/2013/02/budget-stair-remodel-wood-to-carpet-tread-makeover/

where there are lots of pictures from different angles. Looks like it was part of a bigger remodel process of the living room too, so they probably had materials around, and the blogger's husband is pretty handy, so the labour was 'free'.


Before & After: Cassity Steps Up Her Staircase
3/5/13 2:04 PM

Reminds me of this blog I read a while back about how the concept of ubiquitous flat touch-screen surfaces being the future is uninspiring.
http://worrydream.com/#!/ABriefRantOnTheFutureOfInteractionDesign

I like the idea of interconnected, instantly synched devices, but of course that'll only work if everything you have is from Apple or Microsoft or an Android.

Also, I spend all day at work staring at a screen. I try to avoid doing so too much at home.


The Home of the Next Decade: Interconnected Displays Everywhere Microsoft Envisioning Center
3/5/13 10:43 AM