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Display Name: TammyE
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We're always being accused of being a tidy family, which I sometimes perceive as a veiled suggestion that my husband and I are uptight and boring. The truth is, between us and our kids and our dog and our many projects, we all make huge messes every day. I'd say that what makes other people think we're tidy is a combination of a few things:

1. We have pretty decent organization systems. Everything has a place, and everyone knows where those places are.

2. We also do regular culling, so our systems don't get overstuffed.

3. Like other commenters, we do a 10-minute tidy each night. We call ours the "10-second tidy", from that kids show, The Big Comfy Couch, because let's be honest, 10 seconds sounds way more appealing than 10 minutes. ;)

4. We tidy before guests come over. Maybe I was raised in an old-fashioned way, but I was taught that it's a sign of respect to show guests that you honour their visit by making your home attractive for them. I think that some people can get hung up on the idea that tidying for company is all about showing off. I've never actually known anybody who tidies for that reason, so I don't know where that idea comes from.

I do have to take exception to the idea that tidy people spend less time on the internet. :) My husband and I are both internet freaks, but we don't go online in the evenings till after we've restored the house to some sort of order.


Dirty Little Secrets of Tidy Families
6/18/13 1:44 PM

I generally agree with this advice, but as with most good advice, there are exceptions. The windows in my living room are definitely exceptions. When we moved into our house, these windows were already fitted with very nice custom blinds, courtesy of the previous owners. We added the same beautiful semi-sheers we had used in our previous home. It took about a month before I realized everything had to come down.

Here's why:

1. Our house is well above street level, with no houses on the other side of the street. (Our town is built in a terrace-like way up the side of a mountain.) Privacy isn't an issue, as no one can see in.

2. With the coverings removed, we can see nearby treetops, plus the lake down below and the mountains on the far side of the lake. It's a crime to block this view.

3. The windows are all in a bay, with four tall window in total. The room doesn't get direct sunlight, but the bay brings in a lot of natural light that allows us to leave the lights off during the daylight hours. Window coverings blocked too much light.

4. The windows themselves are 100 years old, and quite beautifully detailed. The window coverings masked this.

5. As soon as we removed the coverings, we realized that the bay was ripe with window seat potential. We built a deep seat, which is now my sons' (and our dog's) favourite place to hang out. Blinds and curtains would be fussy and impractical in this much-used space.

I say all this just to point out that it's okay to break the rules if you know why you're breaking them. I've never had an unadorned window before, but in this case it's the right choice.


Apartment Therapy on Covering Your Windows Renovation Diary
6/18/13 12:46 AM

In my experience, the best long-term investment pieces are chairs and tables. They're utilitarian, which means people will always want them if you ever need to sell them, and they tend to be sturdier than things like lamps and mirrors, so the chance you'll still have them intact in 30 years goes way up.

I'd also like to ask why some commenters object so strenuously to the idea that someone might want to buy furniture that maintains its value or appreciates over time. I would never buy anything that I didn't love, but at the same time I also wouldn't buy anything that I considered disposable. I'm not rich, and I hate the idea of wasting my money on an object that will rapidly depreciate and then end up in a landfill.

I say this not to judge people with other values, but to politely suggest that those people in turn not question my values.


How To Choose Furniture Now that Someone Will Want to Inherit Later
6/11/13 6:13 PM

My husband and I realized that we could either have a big house or a yard, but we can't have both. It's just way too much work to maintain both. Plus the property taxes -- oy! So we have a small house and a nice-sized yard, and we're pretty happy.


10 Bonus Benefits to Small Space Living
6/10/13 2:40 PM

I thought for sure that "Keep Calm and Carry On" posters were going to be on this list. ;)


Five Controversial Decor Items (And Why You May Want Them)
6/10/13 1:22 AM

I agree with those who've commented on how wonderful and refreshing it is to see a space decorated solely as an expression of the homeowners' creativity. I love it.


Kitchen Before & After: A 1950s Kitchen Transformed by Mosaic Tiles Reader Kitchen Remodel
6/8/13 2:08 AM

Good neighbours are the best. The child-free couple who lives on one side of us regularly throws house concerts that run late. Our kids spend all day running around the yard making a ruckus with their friends. Our neighbours invite us to their parties, we invite them to use our trampoline any time they want. It's a noise trade-off, and because we're all relaxed about things, everybody wins.

The really sweet thing is that our dogs have become best friends, so at some point almost every day, we open the gate that separates our yards so they can play.


How to be a Great Neighbor to the Mom Next Door
6/4/13 12:25 AM

Ever since I discovered this recipe for skillet cornbread, I don't make it any other way:

http://verbatim.blogs.com/verbatim/2007/12/skillet-sizzled.html

It alone makes skillet ownership worthwhile.


35 Ways to Love Your Cast Iron Skillet
5/31/13 1:54 AM

Oh, and my go-to creamy dressing: equal parts buttermilk and good mayonnaise, a generous amount of finely chopped chives and parsley, and pepper and salt.


Summer Salad Mojo: The Only 5 Salad Dressings You Need
5/30/13 1:01 AM

My go-to summer dressing for green salads: three parts good olive oil, two parts white wine vinegar, one part honey, salt and pepper to taste. EVERYONE who tries this raves about it, and no one can believe it's that simple.


Summer Salad Mojo: The Only 5 Salad Dressings You Need
5/30/13 12:58 AM

I love Barn Light. When I was hunting for a pair of industrial pendants, I found they had the best combination of price and quality. Their customer service is really good, too.


Barn Light Electric: American-Made, Vintage-Style Barn & Schoolhouse Lights Store Profile
5/29/13 12:54 AM

My family of four just downsized from 1,500 square feet to just under 1,000 square feet. My husband and I also work from home, so we need to make every inch of our house work for us. I like the challenge of making our lives work in this space (our house has a fantastic layout, which really helps), and keeping things organized and clutter-free.

Living and working in a relatively small space means we do a mini version of the Cure every month instead of every spring and fall, but it's worth it. Less house to clean, smaller mortgage, lower utility bills, and we're able to afford to live in a great part of town.

I can't speak to the family togetherness angle. We were all pretty much in each others' back pockets at our old, bigger place, too. :)


Why We Chose A Small Space
5/28/13 2:38 PM

My much-beloved and recently deceased tabby, Puck, went crazy for bananas, black olives, and tomato sauce. He was also a freak for cantaloupe -- so much so that one day, when I left one in a shopping bag on the floor, he gnawed his way through the rind and ate about a quarter of it. He lived to the ripe old age of eighteen, so no harm done, I reckon.


Feeding Table Scraps to Animals: Some Dos and Don'ts
5/25/13 2:03 AM

Actually, most companies that allow teleworking specifically state in their telework policy that the working parent will not be the primary caregiver during work hours. So your suggestion, while all good in theory, wouldn't fly.

That aside, the main reason I'm commenting is to give serious thumbs up to the Laptop Lunchbox pictured above. My kids both use them, and they're amazing. My oldest son has been using the same kit for five years, and it's still holding strong. The photos don't do justice to just how rugged they are.


Summer Break: Day Camp Gear for Kids
5/24/13 2:25 AM

Gorgeous! Retro without being kitschy... beautifully done!


Myke's Spirit & Creativity Small Cool Contest
5/21/13 12:49 AM

Ha! We called quiche "eggy pie", too. We also called salmon "pink chicken". I'm still amazed we got away with that one.

My kids would eat any vegetable cut into long strips, roasted (though sometimes raw would work, too), and dubbed "fries". Same deal with anything cut into thin slices (e.g. apples, cucumbers, zucchini) and dubbed "chips".


7 Things My Toddlers Would (Almost) Always Eat
5/16/13 1:13 AM

Thanks so much for this explanation, Veronika. I've been a mid-century fan since I was a kid, and I probably would have fallen into the camp of people bemoaning the fate of this piece. Comments like yours are the reason why I like to read the comments on posts like this -- I enjoy getting deeper stories about the design provenance of pieces.


Before & After: An Art Deco Makeover Akicsihaz
5/16/13 12:51 AM

Buying a leather sofa when I was pregnant with my first child was the smartest parenting decision I've ever made. Withstands markers, not to mention juice, drool, pee, poop, mucus, and barf. I wonder if the folks at Natuzzi would like me to write up a customer testimonial for them. :)


Tips for Avoiding Drawn-On Furniture
5/15/13 12:53 AM

I love it! And I think you're so smart to forego a sofa in favour of a really nice chair. While I've liked a few of the other teeny entries, I kind of cringe when I see a sofa or love seat awkwardly shoehorned into the space.


Katie's Eccentric Charm Small Cool Contest
5/15/13 12:26 AM

This is a wonderful idea! And you made me realize that, in my house, we use the rail at the top of our dining room wainscoting in much the same way. I used to consider it clutter when all of our funny little cards and random tchotchkes gravitated there, but now I realize that it's a big reason why I love our dining room so much. :)


Dedicated Friend-Shelf: A Reminder You Are Loved
5/14/13 12:44 AM