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I was really impressed that so many people have written how much they love their own space , living alone.

I just came back from a date with a nice guy. ( this is the story of many days) .. And then at home, at my beautiful neat apartment, I started feeling unsafe, thinking that i can loose my space, my privacy, all the good times I have with myself, because men generally want to live with you.

I also felt afraid that since I really enjoy living alone, this means I wont get into a relationship ...

So these are things that I am thinking about:

I love my space/ I love living alone, I am the happiest person at work, among many of my friends, I am very social, attractive etc. I love to walk alone, concentrate, write, work, live alone. At the same time, I am afraid of the fact that with this tendencies I might not ever get into a relationship and have a child.

I don't really know. But at least, seeing this list of comments made me feel better. I know I am not alone. At least I questioned whether it is important to be in a relationship with someone living together?...