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Unless the job is in a childcare center, I think it's not possible to bring a child to work and maintain your professionalism. Your baby's needs will (rightly) take precedence over your work demands, and that will be on display for your boss and co-workers.

I think you're better off trying to push your start date back by a week or so to allow you to find childcare you're comfortable with. And if you're not ready for a sitter/daycare, you may want to reconsider whether you're ready to go back to work.


Does Bringing Your Baby to Work, Work?
Good Questions

12/7/11 4:19 PM

I use Biz to treat all the baby stains. And the Seventh Generation liquid for the regular baby (non-stained) laundry.


What Are Your Favorite Baby Cleaning Products?
3/9/11 1:46 PM

Lovely! Wish this had been available when I was ordering furniture... oh well.


New from DwellStudio: Furniture!
ABC Kids Expo

10/15/10 6:40 PM

Wow. Just wow.

I just want to move right in, even if not every single detail is to my taste, it just works together. It's got a perfect mix of "decorated" and "homey", great colors and whimsical touches. And the outdoor space is fantastic.


Mike's Fantasy Addition in the Sky
House Tour

10/14/10 1:39 PM

That rocks!


Vintage Amp Toybox
8/30/10 12:37 PM

I think it's a good start, but could use a bit more color (maybe just a creamier tone for the walls or more of the large-scale art?), as so much is brown, beige and neutral right now.
The white walls make it look unfinished rather than pulling it all together, IMHO.


Gernot's Berlin Flat
House Call

8/25/10 3:16 PM

Maybe people define "bones" differently, but lots of the above seem to be just "features and amenities", whereas I think of bones as things that can't be changed without some major structural work or contracting.

Things like ceiling height, window size (and placement), overall layout....

For me, good bones would be high ceilings (9'+), fireplaces (working or not), plaster walls, large windows, and hardwood floors. In an ideal world, what the french call an 'etoile' layout (don't know the name for it here): essentially a large foyer off of which most of the rooms flow.


What Constitutes "Good Bones" For You?
8/24/10 4:10 PM

Thanks for these postings! We're expecting our first and hoping to raise a bilingual (french-english) child.

Anyone have strategies/experiences on using caregivers to help facilitate fluency? Do you make it a priority to hire an (1-2x per week) babysitter who doesn't speak English, or does that not really matter?

And how much time do you think it's important to spend with non-English speaking family? For example, are twice yearly 1-2 week trips to France enough, or should we be thinking of parking the kid in France for the summer to really build fluency?

Finally, any great reading recommendations for raising bilingual kids?


Raising a Bilingual Child
8/17/10 4:25 PM

Excellent job, and doesn't look "budget" at all! Congrats!


Taryn's Nursery, All Wrapped Up
Nursery Tour

8/13/10 4:25 PM

Gorgeous! It actually reminds me a bit of the Oeuf Sparrow line in the US. Any idea of the price ranges?


What We're Loving: Laurette Furniture For Little Ones
8/12/10 12:57 PM

This is great! I had just been searching various websites for a decorative dry erase board. I have a magnetized board that is covered in a lovely fabric and framed, given it a decorative quality, but had never seen something similar in the dry erase space. Can't wait to try this out!


DIY Double Duty Dry Erase Board | Apartment Therapy Ohdeedoh
7/23/10 12:45 PM

Adorable! Now when is the swedish meatball set being released?!


Introducing Ikea Duktig Play Food | Apartment Therapy Ohdeedoh
7/20/10 1:48 PM

Super cute, and a great nursery idea!


A World to Discover Custom World Map PosterEtsy Find | Apartment Therapy Ohdeedoh
7/20/10 11:39 AM

It's a rather ridiculous "movement".

Previous commenters have it right. Most people do this stuff because they HAVE to, some do a lesser amount of this because they enjoy it (or want to master baking from scratch, etc.).

But the "radical" part of the homemaking concept, skirts the fact that these folks are making a choice, mainly to rack up some perceived cool points amongst their peers. And I think it's a loaded choice. A French author recently wrote that this cultural pressure to return to the labor intensive ways results in women being held back. Because, let's face it, you can't to all this homesteading AND hold down a job.

So one message of this type of movement is that you're less of a parent/spouse/human if you choose to have a job rather than commit yourself whole hog (no pun intended) to the type of work that modern innovations have largely freed us from. That's a message I don't support.

So I'll continue to do what I do, which is choose the things I'm passionate about commiting my time and energy to (baking, sewing, etc.), and forget the rest without an ounce of guilt.


Are You a Radical Homemaker Failure? Salon.com | Apartment Therapy Re-Nest
7/13/10 1:25 PM

As a lover of all things purple/aubergine, I'm excited about what might be on offer for fall!


Purple! Violet! Plum! Aubergine! | Apartment Therapy New York
7/12/10 5:12 PM

Add a glass of champagne to the list and I think it's good to go!


A Taste of Paris: 10 Recipes to Take You There | Apartment Therapy The Kitchn
7/9/10 4:01 PM

Assuming you already have extensive carpeting in apt and extra-thick rug pads? If not, probably too late for that.

Love the "exhaust them at the playground" suggestion above.

I don't have anything better to add, except that you may want to buy your neighbors a little wedding gift and/or send congratulatory flowers and keep your fingers crossed that the kids stay on good behavior this weekend.


Tips and Tricks for Not Annoying the NeighborsGood Questions | Apartment Therapy Ohdeedoh
7/9/10 3:03 PM

Love it! But she doesn't mention the fabric source on her site...anyone have ideas on where to get similar fabric?


Moroccan Kid's Rocker Makeover | Apartment Therapy Ohdeedoh
7/8/10 10:47 AM

One thing I didn't see in the NY Times article was the cost of childcare. I've heard anecdotally that there are big differences in the cost of daycare/nannies in city vs. suburbs.

Personally, we're expecting our first and are staying in Brooklyn. It wasn't based on any huge calculation, we just like our neighborhood and wanted to stay there...and it seems like enough parents make it work in both city and suburbs that it's more of a lifestyle decision.


The City or the Suburbs?The New York Times | Apartment Therapy Ohdeedoh
7/6/10 12:47 PM

I have to disagree with the turquoise and red suggestions. Not because they aren't lovely colors, of course, but I think they're a bit stimulating and I'm thinking that for foster kids some soothing tones might be more appropriate and conducive to rest. Maybe a green tone of some sort?

Definitely agree with previous commenters on adding a rug and curtains to warm things up. You may also want to add a small easel or kids table/chairs (space permitting) where the kids can color and create. Finally, perhaps a bedside table with a nightlight, in case they're afraid of the dark?

For those who are currently foster parents, do you think there's any merit in buying a few sets of bed sheets in different patterns and letting the child choose if he/she is, say 3 ?


Warm, Flexible Room for Foster Children Good Questions | Apartment Therapy Ohdeedoh
6/23/10 6:31 PM