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Yes, as some one on a tight budget (in my 20's) and moves pretty frequently, used is the best compromise of quality and price. You obviously lose on convenience, though!

I have divorced grandparents, both remarried, so I've watched my own parents navigate this minefield for years.

The grandparents divorced when my father was a teenager, and it took the early death of my aunt from cancer four years ago to get them to start inviting one other to their respective holiday gatherings. In this light, I don't think your dad's new wife has a right to say "I'd rather not" if your parents themselves don't mind. It's petty, especially if you don't get to visit with them often. If the new wife wants to host then she should extend the invitation to your mom and be gracious, and your mom should do the same.