MK88's Profile

I don't like house guests, and I don't like being one either. Starwoods points, people. However, when I have been hosted, I make myself as invisible as possible. I also help clean up, not just my mess but just generally speaking. I bring gifts (pancake mix and other breakfast items are fun because you all can make it together one morning). I also never stay more than 2 nights- I usually only stay one night (and that's at my host's invite, I actually never ask to stay with anyone, my preference is to stay at a hotel).

When I host: Obviously the guest linens and towels are freshly laundered, there is a carafe of water and a glass at the bedside, I plan a few activities, and I make at least one dinner for everyone.

It would be so helpful if guests were to consider the following as a guideline:

1. When you ask to stay with someone, give them your dates. I have no idea if by "weekend" you mean Friday night through Sunday night, or Saturday through Sunday or Friday to Monday. My retired mother in law thinks that "weekend" means Wednesday night through Tuesday... I'm not joking.

2. Take off your shoes if it's a no shoe house. I have a baby. He doesn't need to be eating whatever you're tracking from the bottom of your shoe.

3. Keep your space clean. I'm giving you the baby's nursery for your stay. His clothes and blankets, etc. are in that room. Please don't make me wade through your dirty laundry, toiletries, and strewn clothes to get to his things.

4. Don't treat your host like she's the hotel maid. Help when you see she needs it, or take it upon yourself to do things without being asked.