PJers27's Profile

I definitely see where everyone is coming from and agree that courtesy should be the first policy. Let everyone know ahead of time about the party. Also maybe be especially courteous to the neighbor who has already expressed their feelings. Let them know that it has been a holiday tradition for many years before they even moved in but I dont think that you should apologize for the whole building, especially if your not guilty.

Why can't people entertain and party at their own place especially during the season. I'm sorry but renting out a whole place (bar, restaurant) may not be an option for some people. Especially during these times I think its important to gather around and celebrate with the people you value the most with great food, conversations and music. Sometimes even if the music is at moderate it can all still be quite loud.

Unless everyone in your building has planned a holiday party everynight, I think your neighbor should understand. The only way to know is to extend an invitation and just talk.

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