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Having a routine helps because then you don't have to ride herd on the kids. They know what they're supposed to do at bedtime, when they walk in the door, etc.

Teaching them how to do stuff themselves, whenever the "teachable moment' arrives. How to change CDs in the computer or on the stereo, how to switch between tabs of a web browser, how to help yourself to water/milk/cereal/fruit, how to organize, and how to plan ahead.

I recently moved across country from a large 3 bedroom to an extremely "efficient" 2 bedroom. Here's what I learned -

- you will regret the loss of some of the things you relinquish
- you will always get more stuff. I plan for it! I have extra space on my bookshelves and in my storage areas because I expect more contributions
- make your storage decorative. If you have the same equipment out every day, or if it's awkwardly shaped, incorporate it into your "design" - for the sweaty pads, I'd try to think of a way to use a balcony, patio, garage or bathroom so they dry more or less out of sight
- a regular purge is good for your mental well-being. Too much stuff is just a burden.

I insisted on storage options for my current rental. I turned down lots of cute places because there was nowhere for the bikes, ski stuff, woodworking or crafts to be stored when not in use. I've recently lost value as an employee, so most of the stuff I'm hanging onto I bought when I was more well-off. That makes it hard to let it go because I have to consider *replacement value*.

I also found out that Ikea is your friend. Unfortunately, most of their vertical options rightly require wall-bolting, but at least one system attached to the ceiling - maybe that could be a workaround for those who aren't allowed to mark up their rental's walls? I think it's the Stolmen line. IkeaHackers is also your friend - not every space is meant for the stuff as it's designed. Sometimes you have to redesign it.

Finally, Sauveteur provided wise perspective. Thank you!