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My boyfriend and I have been living together for about 3 years now. We've lived in a variety of places: cabin in the middle of Alaska, 1 Bedroom apartment Portland, and now moved into a 2 bedroom apartment in Denver. We have also done a couple cross country trips, sleeping in tents, cars, friends floors, etc.

Amazingly we have made it work and enjoyed it immensely. My advice with moving in with a guy, is it has to all happen very naturally. It's not a lot of discussion and debates. It's just co-existing together in a way that flows. It just feels like home. We don't split chores, we do things that we seem to gravitate too. he loves to cook, so he does most of the cooking. I'm kind of a neat freak, so I do most of the hard cleaning. It all just balances out. And I am not afraid to ask for help if I need it. And he has enough respect to help out. Anyways remember it shouldn't be tons of discussion, it just is, and hopefully it feels like home.