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Display Name: Jena M
Personal URL: http://www.blossomandbeephotography.com
Member Since: 2/25/12

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@in the desert sun... Tonga baby carrier looks very cool! Do you happen to know where it can be purchased for US residents? Every link I saw online was international, wasn't able to spot a US distributor.

We use the Maya Ring Sling, not the Maya Wrap which is a different product (5 meters of fabric you wrap around your body and baby). Some people really love the wrap, but I felt it was too much fabric to contend with regularly and near impossible to use on a flight (unless you board with it already on and don't plan on removing it during flight). Whereas the ring sling folds very small (fits in my purse, but not a pocket) and also gives nursing cover or extra shade if needed. The photo I included above was taken in 100' heat with tons of biting insects... the cover it provided my 5 month old then was essential! I didn't find it too hot and he stayed cool as well, but we also have the one made out of Linen and I think that adds greatly to the breath-ability.

Thanks also for the reminder of the Aden & Annis muslin swaddle blankets (there are other muslin blankets now on the market as well, but I only have personal experience with A&A) - we still use our blankets as well and they are the best for traveling with both babies and toddlers, the blanket size and weight is perfect. Great shower gift!!


Travel with Babies & Toddlers Made Easy
12/5/12 2:13 PM

Original post author here... Just wanted to add that we do not bring every item on this recommended list on any individual trip! I select what we need with a lot of planning and questions asked per our destination and pack accordingly. For example, I almost never fly with a stroller and prefer the carrier (even for longer trips. my kid just naps on me, rather than in a stroller). All of these items above are lightweight however, and hold up well for long term (multi-child) use which for me are the two top qualifications for investing in baby gear, whether for traveling or home.

Couple more things that I have found thru trial and error for our family personally - traveling at night for us has actually worked better than daytime for fussiness, but the key for us to make this very successful was to haul his carseat on board rather than checking it. He sleeps wonderfully in it and he is used to being strapped in for travel anyway - it's been worth it now he that he has his own seat. (I have traveled 8 red-eye trips by myself and with my baby/toddler with 100% success).

I also starting bringing small items of interest (1 per 15 min of flight time. Like a matchbox car, sheet of stickers, lollypop, etc.) and taking them out one at a time during the flight and as needed. They are continuously used for the remainder of the trip and are packed away once we get back for our next trip so that keeps them fresh and interesting each time! While we don't eat candy much at home, I have no problem with gum, candy, and suckers for flights!! I bring all sorts of special food treats - it works and it's not a regular thing, so I don't sweat it nutritionally. That said, I also pack good protein rich food as well for happy and full bellies at any moment needed.

Co-sleeping in hotel rooms has worked well for us also, rather than checking travel beds on a flight, but for road trips by car the beds proved helpful and worth the extra space. FWIW, I have never been charged extra for child gear checked by flight... If it's a stroller, carseat, or pack play - no charge for "extra baggage". Who knows if this change in the future, but last 3 years it hasn't happened.

Some of the travel with kids blog links above have some genius tips and travel gems passed on. Like, making an "apology/appreciation bag" for giving to your row mates and the person in front of your child. Contains a note (like from your kid, apologizing ahead of time for any kicks or crying) and thanking them for their patience and understanding. Also contains a set of ear plugs, a pack of gum, a drink coupon, etc) Makes people smile every time!

Lastly, I have to say that being comfortable with nursing on flight has helped greatly for our baby and if you are nursing your child, go for it and don't worry about the close proximity. Take-off, landing, and for falling asleep... Works like a charm. The only time I ever felt awkward was when I had a 15 yr old boy seated next to me, but I just apologized and nursed with more cover than I normally would.

Many more tips to pass on, but hope this helps to clarify a bit!


Travel with Babies & Toddlers Made Easy
12/4/12 8:27 PM

I was recommended Grandma El's diaper ointment and it is indeed amazing and effective, plus cloth diaper friendly. One jar lasted 2.75 years (2 mos old to fully potty trained), so the higher price worked out in the long run. I also later purchased a tube of it to carry on the go and used the tube for extra skin irritations like chapped cheeks last winter after a long day in the cold dry weather. The chap was gone the next day! For diaper rash, I have used it proactively as soon as I see redness (like after a particularly acid #2) and it never gets to the point of becoming a rash. Just about to order another round for our new baby due soon.

http://grandmaels.com/grandma-el-39-s-product-line/grandma-els-diaper-rash-remedy-and-prevention/prod_2.html

Keep in mind, there is more than one type of diaper rash as well... If your child has a yeast rash (redness and bumps located in the folds of skin, versus on the surface of the skin), then you need to treat for yeast. Most will need anti-fungal ointment as well to treat this level of rash and occasionally, the over-abundance of yeast is also found in the child's mouth (called thrush) as the yeast is in their whole digestive track. If you are breast feeding during an outbreak, you will need to treat your nipple as well, since the yeast will travel between yourself and your nursling. If you have a persistent rash that won't go away, it probably needs additional treatment and your pediatrician will be able to confirm a yeast outbreak or if it's something else. Once I learned what a yeasty rash looked like versus a regular diaper rash, I was able to treat yeast outbreak early before it got too bad.

Lastly, I've heard that sometimes continuously diaper rashes can also be an indicator of your washing methods - ie. matching up the right detergent with your water type (hard vs soft) and the amount of water/detergent ratio you use (less detergent, more water is usually needed). For instance, I was using Charlie's soap but it wasn't getting completely clean enough... Switched to Allen's Naturally soap and the switch worked. It wasn't a rash issue for us, but a staining issue (residue build-up).

A great resource link for comparing all the detergents for cloth diaper washing and water type >
http://www.diaperjungle.com/detergent-chart.html


Diaper Rash Creams: The Dirty Cloth Diaper Secret You May Not Know
11/12/12 12:39 PM

I just ordered the Gnome today (we have a special place in our hearts for Gnomes in our family)… I will report back in if any overheating issues should arise, but hopefully not since it's for a child's room!


Quirky & Sweet Lamps & Nightlights
11/9/12 9:14 PM

Post author here... I perhaps should have chosen a different title for my post! I absolutely agree with so many of the sentiments expressed above, but it was not my intent to cause a stir. My intent was to showcase some modern miniature house examples for young children, both for inspiration to make your own at home or to purchase a unique one elsewhere. A quick search online for miniature houses will show that most dollhouses or miniature houses are modeled after the classic Victorian era and are meant for older children (and adults!) due to their extreme miniature proportions and delicacies - they are delightful but often complex structures. For younger children and at big-box toy stores, your options are limited to pink overload, heavily branded, or overtly large plastic options. At smaller boutique-size toy stores, mostly I see either Plan Toys or Ryan's Room brands (both of which I feel are manufactured well and love that they are designed with neutral colors and natural wood).

I have really enjoyed seeing my son explore all types of toys that we have offered him in his play space and most definitely at this age (toddler/preschool), there is little to no distinction between "girl" or "boy" toys, just toys he enjoys and is interested in! I feel that it is only later in childhood development that children start to distinguish for themselves and even receive pressure from peers what types of toys they are interested in and should/should not play with. I'm sure that time will come someday for my children and I hope I will have the parenting skills on hand to offer guidance and support towards whatever interests them. Additional hopes as a parent to both a boy (and girl to be born next spring) include the desire to have toys and experiences of all kinds within our household that foster amazing discoveries, creations of all kinds, building things (and taking apart!) to finding out how pieces work together... as well as activities that are quiet, contemplative, imagination-stretching, and help to develop awareness and empathy towards one another within open play. Miniature house play can actually do all of the above and I think that is why I am so attracted to having some sort of set-up in our home that encourages these kinds of play and explorations within one toy.

I am planing to build a mini-house for my son this fall to give to him as a gift come December. I will be doing so in my dad's garage shop and under his tutelage (though hopefully not much is needed, since I have been building things with him my whole life!) It's been so inspiring to see all the neat DIY and handmade mini-houses via Etsy and elsewhere online. Whether you plan on purchasing or building for yourself, there are some really cool ideas out there and I hope these 10 images and links helped plant the seed for any other readers out there looking for mini-house options as well this fall.

Lincoln Logs, Legos, erector sets... fort building, blocks, wood scraps... yes on all!! I am working on a post that features some sources for these great activities and simple play items. There are so many fun, simple, and timeless activities we can introduce to our children, but it's also great to have options and ideas for more complex activities as well. I hope I succeeded in offering the former today.

-Jena M.


10 Gender-Neutral Dollhouses
11/9/12 8:51 PM

Just wanted to add a note that since my little guy started on a balance bike at 20 months old, we actually couldn't find a pedal bike small enough to fit his leg length at the time. In fact, at 2 yrs-10 mos old now he can still barely reach the floor of the smallest frame pedal bike we could find, so it still wouldn't work out, but he has been riding a balance bike for over a year now and I'm so happy he has an option to ride as he absolutely loves it. He is tall for his age, (95 percentile), so unless your child is older, removing the pedals from a 12" pedal bike isn't an option quite yet. There are lots of lesser expensive balance bike models out there in the $90 range and you can sometimes find them at children's consignment shops and on Craigslist. From my experience, they are not as durable as the Easy Riders brand, but they will certainly brings lots of fun and balance learning regardless!!


Early Rider Balance Bikes Test Lab Review
10/15/12 1:30 PM

Big fan here, too! We have used both the Duralex this year (purchased at Sur La Table) and at my child's school, they use the ones from For Small Hands... neither have had issues with chipping and boy, do they see a ton of wear! Highly recommend either.


Petite Picardie Glasses: Perfect for Tiny Hands
10/15/12 1:18 PM

We have close friends whose kitchen table had one side pushed against their backdoor stairway bannister. They had one of those table highchairs that connects to the tabletop on one end for their baby, and they made a corner bench to sit around the side that was open. She did not know her son was capable of slipping thru his lap restraint, pushing himself out of the "hanging" (no foot support) highchair, and being able to climb onto the table. When she was no more than 5 ft away doing the dishes one morning, she ran over to him as soon as she saw he had gotten on top of the table. It wasn't soon enough, and he toppled over the banister and into the stairway below. He fractured his skull and was in intensive care for 3 days, though he did recover completely thank goodness!

Ironically, there was a baby gate installed correctly at the top of the stairs and other various babyproofing mechanisms installed thru the house, so it's not that they weren't thinking of problem areas, it's just that they thought they would be able to watch him closely enough and found out the hard way that 5 ft away and in the same room still wasn't close enough.

Personally, I would move the couch forward enough so that you can walk between the couch and the railing, but not climb the couch to *reach* the railing. It's only for about a year anyway and that way you wouldn't need to make a more permanent (ie. safe) construction. Railing height is a range, so even though yours looks low it is most likely still within code. I actually like lower bannisters/railings with kids in the house because it's easier for them to reach it once they can go up/down stairs upright and need to hold onto the railing for balance. My 2.5 yr son actually loses his balance quite frequently when holding onto a higher railing.


Something Safe but Stylish for Childproofing? Good Questions
10/11/12 1:31 PM