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Display Name: Svetlana Lauren
Member Since: 1/5/12

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WOW. Not was I was at all expecting from my interior design website rss feed. Not only is it totally a non sequitur and what ridiculously bad advice. My partner is objectifying and depersonalizing the most intimate of expressions between two people. Many experts agree that pornography is a more dangerous and destructive than alcoholism. But go with it, girl, what could go wrong!


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5/12/12 8:35 PM

Well, re-reading the post... they do make a brace that makes thumbsucking difficult. It goes on her arm and covers the thumb.

Also, from our old dentist:

Sucking is a natural reflex and infants and young children may use thumbs, fingers, pacifiers and other objects on which to suck. It may make them feel secure and happy, or provide a sense of security at difficult periods. Since thumb sucking is relaxing, it may induce sleep.
Thumb sucking that persists beyond the eruption of the permanent teeth can cause problems with the proper growth of the mouth and tooth alignment. How intensely a child sucks on fingers or thumbs will determine whether or not dental problems may result. Children who rest their thumbs passively in their mouths are less likely to have difficulty than those who vigorously suck their thumbs.
Children should cease thumb sucking by the time their permanent front teeth are ready to erupt. Usually, children stop between the ages of two and four. Peer pressure causes many school-aged children to stop.
Pacifiers are no substitute for thumb sucking. They can affect the teeth essentially the same way as sucking fingers and thumbs. However, use of the pacifier can be controlled and modified more easily than the thumb or finger habit. If you have concerns about thumb sucking or use of a pacifier, consult your pediatric dentist.
A few suggestions to help your child get through thumb sucking:
Children often suck their thumbs when feeling insecure. Focus on correcting the cause of anxiety, instead of the thumb sucking.
Children who are sucking for comfort will feel less of a need when their parents provide comfort.
Reward children when they refrain from sucking during difficult periods, such as when being separated from their parents.
Your pediatric dentist can encourage children to stop sucking and explain what could happen if they continue.
If these approaches don’t work, remind the children of their habit by bandaging the thumb or putting a sock on the hand at night. Your pediatric dentist may recommend the use of a mouth appliance.


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1/5/12 11:41 PM

FWIW, self-soothing is a good thing. The WHO says that average breastfeeding around the world on average is between 2-8 years. So thumb sucking, by proxy, at age 3 1/2 is fairly normal. Of my 7 children, my 3 thumb suckers have not had any ill effects other than the fact that they put more germs in their mouths than my children who do not. It has absolutely not change any of their teeth and WON'T. It's an old wives tale.
I would recognize that this is age appropriate behavior, encourage her to not put her fingers in her mouth because of germs, but otherwise not really worry about it. Also, maybe get a different dentist.


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1/5/12 11:34 PM