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Display Name: teakfreak
Member Since: 11/2/11

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It can happen faster than you think. My ex and I, married for 10 years, decided to separate over the issue of kids (after years of marriage he changed his mind to wanting them more than wanting to be with me). Within 6 months of our separation, he'd found the new gal, and within another 4 months, they were expecting their first child together (her 2nd child).

I've long since moved, and have purged many momentos of our time together. I haven't erased all the memories, but I've gotten rid of most of the momentos and photos, and the cards we wrote to give each other on the eve of our wedding. Suddenly "I will love you forever" from him didn't mean anything to me.


Moving In Together: What Do You Do With The Ex-Boyfriend/Girlfriend Box?
5/21/13 3:18 PM

Beautiful - rich, textured, warm, organized, efficient. Yes, just like a boat should be. Love it (but then, I want to live on a boat). Beautiful space - warm and inviting.


Alana's Gut Renovation Small Cool Contest
5/17/13 4:52 PM

Wow, compact, elegant, rich, warm, and efficient. Wonderful features...such a compact space with luxurious features. Love it!


Jason's Luxe Factor Small Cool Contest
5/17/13 11:41 AM

Ugh. "We had unprotected sex with consequences!" Do I need to make a card for NOT getting pregnant then?


Clever Photo Pregnancy Announcements
5/16/13 4:05 PM

Wow, I've seen some great under-stair storage, but I think this version is my favourite. Great place!


Daniel's Square Footage Challenged Small Cool Contest
5/16/13 1:42 PM

Wonderful! I love your colour scheme and the contrast with the wood, and the size is perfect. Love, love, love.


Sharon's Sunshine From Both Sides Small Cool Contest
5/15/13 5:38 PM

This place looks cozy and well-lived in. Love your addition of plants and a *piano*. Well done. It's like a whole bunch of mini-rooms all in one - office, conservatory, dining room, living room...and what a decadent colour on the walls!


Elaine & Adam's Cheerful & Cozy Small Cool Contest
5/15/13 2:39 PM

Wonderful place! Your colour scheme is relaxing and masculine. The natural light must be great!

CallDoctorBison: For my wood cutting board, I mostly use it for veggies. On the rare occasion I forget and chop meat, I spray it with bleach, then give it a good wash with soap and hot water. Otherwise, mostly just wiping it down is fine. Every couple weeks I rub it down with coconut oil to prevent the wood from drying out. I used to use mineral oil but I ran out, and since found out that coconut oil works as well and, that oil doesn't turn rancid unlike olive oil or walnut oil (so I'm told).


Greg's Every Square Foot Counts Small Cool Contest
5/15/13 2:17 PM

Uncluttered, great use of space, feels lived-in and healthy with all the plants. And the plants are an integral part of the colour scheme! Looks great, would love to live here. I like the uniformity of the plant pots (normally I don't care for matchy-matchy) to keep the space looking uncluttered.


Harvey's Adaptable Space Small Cool Contest
5/10/13 1:32 PM

I like the idea, but in reality I doubt I'd do it. The thought of having many strangers in my home doesn't appeal to me. It's very modest and small, I have only what I need and nothing more (and love it that way), and I don't want to have to take on all the "stuff" required to host many folks. I suppose if I had a family home it's something I'd consider (more room, more dishes, etc).


Would You Host Salons In Your Home?
5/9/13 4:31 PM

Great place, and what a beautiful balcony. Does your doggie have access to the grass behind the railing, or is that a common area for viewing only?


Genevieve's Small Space in Montreal Small Cool Contest
5/9/13 12:15 PM

Nice use of space. You've put a lot in here but it doesn't seem cluttered.


Alexander's Small Space, Big Challenges Small Cool Contest
5/8/13 5:15 PM

@bird&seed (or anyone else who knows):
- I was recently introduced to coconut oil. What ratio of oil:baking soda do you use?
- Does it leave white marks on your clothes (similar to regular deodarant)?

This sounds too good to be true. The original recipe above sounds lovely, too, but by default I am lazy but I have tons of baking soda and coconut oil (dream ingredients!).


Quick, Easy, Homemade Deodorant...that Actually Works Apartment Therapy Tutorial
5/8/13 11:14 AM

As dumb as I think this bathroom trend is, I love the idea of taking boring conference calls while soaking with a glass of bubbly in one of those tubs. Make sure the Mute button on the phone works though...


The Strangest Trend in Home Office Design: Bathroom Workspaces
4/18/13 3:43 PM

I recently went out Saturday night, 10pm, to a small restaurant where a small band was playing - rock vocals, drums, guitar, and bass - it was quite loud (you had to speak loudly to the person sitting beside you). I was really surprised to see about a dozen young mothers and their babes-in-arms. Sure, you wouldn't have been able to hear the babies crying over the noise, but I thought noises that loud were damaging to their eardrums and neurological systems? It was almost too loud for me!


Bringing Children to the Party: The New Etiquette Dilemma
4/10/13 5:14 PM

Interesting question because it makes me think about "what matters" in my living space, and whether the inconvenience of packing up everything is worthwhile. Those questions in turn force me to think about why I keep the things I do, and the role of "stuff" in my life.

Surely if I had less stuff, moving would be easy, so a "small" move would be worth it if the new space met more of my requirements.

My partner and I recently decided to shack up, and I am the one moving in. So far the merge is going well. I made it clear that I didn't want "my stuff" to be the set that automatically is sold/donated simply because it's already boxed up. He agreed, and we are taking a practical approach: the better quality item remains, or the item with sentimental value.

We've both been married before and have had to start over in life. So now I hardly place sentimental value on stuff; and I now see how irritated I get by paying full price for items that I can find easily second hand. As I unpack, I become increasingly irritated with all the mental energy I'm spending on this "stuff". I'll sell what I want to, and keep the money for my use.

I'm going to try to be ruthless as I unpack this time. Both my partner and I want clutter-free lives, free to have more experiences than things, and also so we can be nimble enough to move easily if an great opportunity arises.


Making a \"Small\" Move: Is It Worth It?
4/9/13 2:34 PM

Those are fun, especially the first two. I'd be inclined to buy enough for a couple large frames instead of covering a room. When tired of it, I could put it away for a while, then bring it back out again (great especially if you want to shock someone who would disapprove).


Erotic Wallpaper: Would You?
2/4/13 10:55 AM

I would love to do this too...what are some of the reasons that municipalities don't allow urban beekeeping? My city's web site doesn't mention it, and I can't find any good info via a web search.


Beginner Beekeeping: The Urban Beehive by Rowan Dunford
1/31/13 11:39 AM

- Full-length mirrors mounted (maybe higher-up?) to reflect as much light as possible - looks like some good light comes in through the glass over the door
- Or, something rectangular mirrors mounted on both sides of the hallway, staggered, to bounce light off each other all the way down the hallway?
- Mount some high-hanging plants (trailing ivy?), and the greenery could also be reflected in mirrors; if not plants, interesting colourful art?
- Mount bikes on the wall at different heights to create visual interest

Nice blank slate - there's potential there!


Add Interest to Long Narrow Hallway without Feeling Claustrophobic? Good Questions
1/31/13 10:38 AM

Agreeing with alpahbear that it sounds like heaven. I'm in Canada, too, and it seems that life revolves around having mostly child/family-friendly activities. My city shuts down at 6pm, the museums and cultural places have no reasonably-priced adult-centric activities on weekends (or even weekday evenings, for that matter), unless you want to pay $100 for some fundraiser each time you go out.

To avoid being around loud children I try to plan my activities accordingly, and I have no problem addressing a child who needs to be reminded about a social construct (done in a polite way, the same way I would address an adult).

Also, if I have paid $ to see an event/exhibit that is family-friendly, I hold my place in line and spend as much time is reasonable viewing and enjoying it. I'm there to learn, too. Fair is fair...


San Francisco: Most Restaurants, Most Hills, But Least Kids
1/30/13 3:17 PM