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Display Name: brittneylynn
Member Since: 10/11/11

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I definitely believe in to each their own, but to some extent if I am being honest, I find some of the excuses weak. Sleeping next to someone is extremely intimate, and if you both work or are apart all day, especially if you have kids, that is the only alone time you have.

My husband snores. We got those snoring nose strips and it fixed it. If it didnt he was prepared to go to the doctor about it. He is a human furnace, so I have a seperate blanket and it keeps his body heat off me. I started sprawling and so we saved for a bigger mattress. I hope everyone at least tries to fix issues before jumping to other bedrooms. With the divorce rate at half of all marriages, I feel like many of those couples probably stopped sleeping in the same bed or room before divorcing and make up a part of that one in four couples.


Couples Sleeping in Separate Bedrooms
8/27/12 11:09 PM

I have to say, this wasn't as helpful as the faking a clean house. I loved that post. We live across the street from our family business in the old business office, and so people are constantly wanting to pop in to see our renovation progress. Renovating makes it difficult enough to stay tidy looking, and busy days can put off cleaning. My rush cleaning is to immediately light a candle or oil burner, put any couple of dirty dishes in the sink into the oven or microwave (thanks to a commenters recommendation for that one!) clean the back of the toilet and quickly scrub it, wipe down the sink, then spray every room plus drapes and couches with homemade linen spray. What i took away from the last post was to make sure the things people have to touch like the bathroom look exquisitly sparkling clean and it does make a lot of sense. When I had messy roommates in college i was a huge fan of a big storge ottoman to stuff with clutter.


Fake a Clean Home Office in 15 Minutes
5/8/12 8:17 PM

It all starts with the buggy ( cart, whatever) for me. I go into a Walmart and it never fails, loud, dragging cart or a wheel going THUMP THUMP THUMP, mocking me.

I go into Publix and never have this problem. I went the day before Thanksgiving and they had every checkout open, each with a cashier in addition to two baggers, one of which would help you to your car as always and return the cart so there werent any taking up parking spots. I waited in no line despite it being crowded.

Just last week at a different Publix and overheard a woman complaining that her bag had been overfilled by a bagger and it caused a bottle of tomato juice to fall out and bust when she got home, spilling on her white carpet. They paid for her carpet to be cleaned! This sparked a conversation with my cashier in which he told me some crazy customer service stories. If someone calls and says there's an item on their receipt that someone didn't make it into one of their bags, they offer to deliver it to the person!

I don't hate Winn Dixie but their veggie selection is random.


The Best and Worst Supermarkets Consumer Reports
4/6/12 3:19 AM

I'm not meaning this in a snobbish or elitist manner, but has anyone else noticed the fire Pinterest has started with the frequent use and misuse of the term "curate" attached to it? Without trying, I've read three articles in the past few months I've simply stumbled upon (one written by an actual curator) in which they cite bloggers as misusing the term. Anyway, I found it really interesting because I thought it was a word with a very broad and loose definition, like "organize" but apparently it is much more narrow, and actual curators can take offense to others assigning that word to people simply pinning cool crafts and ideas. I can certainly see why, but another part of me wonders if they are fighting the growth of a word. I can say that I "doctored" something without meaning disrespect to actual MDs, so I just wonder. Highly interesting, slightly relevant topic haha sorry...


Pinboard Mania
3/23/12 1:36 PM

In my home there were no chore charts and rewards for doing things because we were a family and therefor a team and everyone pitched in. I didn't whine about doing the dishes because I eat off of the plates, why wouldn't I clean it off after? That was the attitude my parents gave me, that I wasn't a princess who got to eat and not clean up or help make the meal. So we each washed our own dish. We sorted our own laundry (how I learned colors) and the whys and hows we're explained to us for every chore.

It does make me sad to see my little cousins having no clue how to sew, scramble eggs, Clean the lint trap on a dryer, or fold towels. I think you have to ask yourself if you are raising your child to be knowledgable and well rounded, or to have a maid?


A "Dependency Dilemma": Will More Chores Help Kids Develop Independence?
3/19/12 4:45 PM

It was funny how my internal debate over Canon vs. Nikon continued all the way up until I handled one of each and quickly realized button use and placement on Canons gelled with me but Nikons felt really strange. It was as simple as that to me.

I bought a used Canon Rebel XTi from a photo classmate who decided to upgrade and go pro (he was very talented!) for $300 with a kit lens and though I've expanded with a 1.8 50mm, a telephoto and 15-75mm ( I think) I have no plans to upgrade until it dies. I see friends shell out for a 7D and they leave it stuck on Auto and only use it on vacation and at family gatherings. Spend less and use the money you saved on a photo class where you'll meet amazing people and have a great time learning a new hobby!


On Purchasing a New Camera Super Photo Magic School
2/24/12 6:49 PM

I realized my response might sound a little holier than thou and preachy so I wanted to mention that our balance came after years of tearful discussions about me feeling unappreciated and undervalued. Screaming matches over him coming home to a clean home and not even noticing before promptly dumping his dirty socks and clothes onto the floor in the living room, and how much it embarrassed me when people came over and there was just more home chores to take care of than I could on my own because he wasn't help prevent the messes. Helping to prevent messes was a great turning point in our home chore discussion because just adhering to simple house rules like putting change in a dish instead of on the counter, or putting clothes in a hamper lessened the chore load ten fold and made us both feel like we were being heard and not scolded. But gosh there were some wicked disagreements and it took so long to get to a happy place in our home in terms of work. The comforting thing is I hear it isn't unusual in the least!


Home Ec., Pt. 2: A Balancing Act for Us All
1/31/12 2:59 PM

I think the most important thing to remember with coming up with a balance for your home and relationship is that it needs to feel like a balance for each of you, not just look like one on paper or to other people if you were to write out your individual chores and workload.

My husband and I work two entirely different jobs at our family business. I work in the office, shorter hours, doing clerical and odd work, getting bills out, talking to subcontractors, etc. My husband works out in the field, often doing intense labor for longer hours. However, he knows I deal with a lot of other stresses with my father being ill etc. Our balance with household chores is one that feels right to us. I do more chores, but he does all the chores I despise. It sounds petty but it works for us and if he doesn't mind doing the chores I hate like loading the dishwasher, cleaning the litter box, taking out the trash and making the bed, I'd rather him do those few things andthen me do twice as many things I don't mind doing. With my fewer work hours but longer chore hours, we both feel like we work an equal amount. I make half as much as he does but I also bring things to the table that make up for that other half. He does not resent me in the least and I do not resent him. He considers us to be making the same amount of money because my house work saves us the expense of eating out more or hiring someone to clean. Plus I coupon the shit out of our groceries and never pay full price for anything, something he wouldn't care to take the time to do.

There is no right answer about sharing chores, or money, but there is one thing that should be completely true in all good relationships. The amount of money you make should never be connected with your worth to the other person and you should never evaluate your love for someone based on it either. Many would say that isn't true, and money can certainly cause detrimental problems in relationships, but behind every money issue are greater ones, issues of insecurity, power struggles, lying, greed, and selfishness. Money isn't a deal breaker, people are.


Home Ec., Pt. 2: A Balancing Act for Us All
1/31/12 2:52 PM

I tend to keep all of my seasonal cooking and serving items stored in the cabinets in the breakfast nook instead of in the kitchen in the way of everyday items. Things like nice serving spoons, cheese spreaders, the cookie press, icing tips and bag, etc.

If you can stand Walmart, they have great plastic kitchen storage and organization pieces for so cheap. I buy the packs of plastic baskets and have them in my drawers secured on the bottom with a dab of museum putty or the Velcro 3M strips and they work wonders for organizing and paring down the gadget drawers.


Why January Is the Time to Purge Your Kitchen of Unused Tools & Gadgets
1/20/12 2:19 PM

Not all nonstick is teflon though, and with any nonstick just use plastic utensils and be weary of e surface chipping. For hard anodized that means no dishwasher and no extreme heat as it needs to heat gradually.

With the milk, have you ever tried the microwave? I'm sure it isn't "the same" but in all honesty I don't have the time to care in the morning.

You can also make a big batch of eggs every few days and reheat to save yourself time and trouble.


Two Tricks for Fast Breakfast Clean Up
1/20/12 1:10 PM

Also, I think a light to medium gray would look gorgeous, or keep the walls a stark, clean white and throw in lots of cobalt in the accessories, and maybe a bit of red, or orange, or canary yellow to add interest. Turquoise and olive also look lovely with navy.


Striped Walls with West Elm's Trellis Shower Curtain?
Good Questions

12/6/11 10:53 AM

My general rule is three times the width of the design. The stripes either need to be three times bigger than the lines making the lovely floral pattern, or three times thinner which obviously would be a pain to do on the walls.


Striped Walls with West Elm's Trellis Shower Curtain?
Good Questions

12/6/11 10:51 AM

Not that I'm an expert or anything, far from it, but it feels like there's just almost too much going on. In one respect I nearly said FINALLY! out loud because I love that the TV wasn't a showcase or focal point of the far wall, but merely a player in a collection of items headed up by that wonderful red print. I think the sculptural lamp just looks like a little too much right there. Maybe if the smaller print were hung above the tv and the lamp sort of slid in its place to create a series of 3 with the two prints since they all read the boldest?

I guess what I'm trying to say is, although I love the space and can value a very styled and detailed room, to a point it gets to looking like the editing has just stopped. I mean no offense.


Mark's "Bold Basics" Room
10/28/11 2:09 PM

I wanted to add that the containers on the industrial looking bakers rack in the kitchen is such a smart solution for the pantryless and is so stylish! Genius!


Christopher & Natalie's Touch of Hollywood Regency Loft
House Tour

10/27/11 12:37 AM

@noticetothepublic I would say the frame of the chalkboard as it is gilded, ornate, and large. Also the dining room rug is arguably Hollywood Regency. It is definitely a style with a true definition and not something largely open for interpretation, though you could certainly give something a Hollywood Regency "feel" without using Hollywood Regency pieces. The touches are more of a faint whisper in this loft. Though a wonderful space with so much inspiration to offer, i don't see enough to use it as a Hollywood Regency example.

Now I'm jonesing to see a HR loft! Modern lines but with lots of black lacquer and mirrored furniture. The juxtaposition is making me giddy lol


Christopher & Natalie's Touch of Hollywood Regency Loft
House Tour

10/27/11 12:35 AM

Some of the best advice I have ever received, that literally changed the state of my now organized home, is to adapt your storage to your habits. So what if most of the world uses a key hook by the door, if you are constantly tossing yours on the kitchen counter, put a cool dish there or tray to toss them in.

My husband likes to get dressed in the living room each morning so he doesn't wake me and can watch the news, as he goes to work before me. He always leaves his pajamas in the living room. We could have endless bickering matches, or I just swapped out our ottoman for a storage ottoman that serves as a hidden laundry basket.

Another example is my habit of losing scissors because I take them all over the house. Solution? A labeled pair for each room, with a hook behind the bathroom cabinet door.

We constantly would lose yogurts and cheese sticks in the back of our fridge and they would go bad. My solution was to corral them into a plastic basket within the fridge. I am a big lover of baskets in the fridge! I have one for cheeses, one for herbs I buy because I failed at growing them.


7 Tips for Staying Truly Organized
10/11/11 1:26 PM