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There is a really good recipe on Homesick Texan for fish tacos. It calls for tilapia, but when my husband brought back 10+ lbs of trout filets from a fishing trip, I realized that trout was a perfect substitute.

It involves making a marinade (chiles, cilantro, spices) and letting the fish marinate for a couple of hours before cooking in a skillet. There is a delicious serrano pepper/red cabbage slaw that you use to top it off too.

We are from Texas and eat a lot of tacos - my husband claims these are the best fish tacos he's ever had!


What Can I Do With a Pound of Frozen Trout? Good Questions
5/2/13 9:33 AM

I also like to ask people what their first concert was - my favorite response has been one of my husband's friends whose first concert was Bobby Brown (in his My Prerogative Days) in Hong Kong. What an interesting story THAT was.

I have lived in my city for 6 years, and it's very international, so I like asking if someone is from here originally, or where was their favorite place to live. You can learn a lot about someone by their geography.


What's Your Very Best Ice Breaker? Reader Discussion
4/24/13 10:05 AM

I try to make one new crockpot recipe each month and try at least 3 new recipes each month. It averages to one new recipe per week in the average month and has worked like a charm so far.

My motivators are: 1) if a new ingredient is on sale at the grocery store that I've been wanting to try; 2) job stress (cooking is therapeutic for me); 3) rainy weekends - I will cook up a storm (pun intended) all Saturday and Sunday if we're crammed in the house watching movies.

We also spend a lot of time outdoors, so I'm always seeking new camping recipes which are fun to try, and everything tastes so amazing cooked over an open fire.


Trying a New Dinner Recipe: What Inspires You to Take the Leap?
3/22/13 1:02 PM

@Rebekkap, we had the same issue when we lived in an apartment. The neighbors below us would smoke on their back balcony, basically rendering our back windows and balcony useless as the smoke would rise. We compensated by opening the windows on the opposite side of the apartment to get airflow, but those windows were only for our bedroom and didn't open to the living space/kitchen. We never found a solution...it wasn't a very friendly apartment complex/kinda shady and I didn't feel comfortable 'confronting' or bringing it up. Otherwise they were quiet, and the balcony faced a short-term storage facility so it's not like we were trying to get out and enjoy the view.


Communication Solutions: Smart Ways to Kindly Make Neighbor Requests Renters Solutions
3/20/13 11:36 AM

We have had nothing but positive responses since tearing out our old, outdated tub and installing a large shower similar to that pictured. Ours is door-less and has a small ledge/step to keep the water in. A bathmat on the part right when you step out catches any spray.

We also added some seating in the shower stall which gives it more of a spa-like feel. I had a glass of wine in there the other day. Heaven!

I'm not a tub person, but we kept a tub in the guest bathroom in the event one is needed someday. I just know that I've lived in my house for 5 years and had used the tub 4 times and the space was able to be used in a much more useful way (for us).


Before & After: Bringing a 1990s Bathroom Into 2013
2/26/13 4:18 PM

Maybe a similar piece would look cool if you grouped the drawers and did an ombre-like effect on the drawer faces? Or is ombre "out" ? I don't know, but I think the severity of the colors is a little off-putting for something like a jewelry cabinet.

I love the cabinet as a piece though!


Before & After: Michelle's Industrial Jewelry Chest
2/26/13 4:13 PM

everyone knows the best way to get up some speed while sliding down the stairs is in a slick sleeping bag! aaaaand maybe with your little sister acting as the "weight" at the bottom of the sleeping bag to make it go faster.

I was Little Sister in this scenario. We all survived.


A DIY Stairway Slide The Contemplative Creative
2/26/13 4:03 PM

My trick is: make a meal that can turn into 3-4 meals and you're golden. An example: yesterday morning before work, I marinated some chicken for kabobs. Husband gets home about an hour before me, so he added vegetables to the marinade. I cooked rice, he grilled the 'bobs.

We sat down to watch a TV show and I popped a head of garlic in the oven to roast. After the TV show was over, husband did the dishes. I took the garlic and combined it with some white beans, diced the leftover veggies from the kabobs and threw together a white bean salad, which we both had for lunch today.

Tomorrow if there is any left over, I'll puree it into a spread for some toasts or serve it over spinach with some feta. Or add some baked fish.


5 Ways To Make Eating at Home Easier
2/26/13 3:50 PM

We used the same tiles in our master bathroom reno! They're beautiful.


Before & After: Aya's 70s to Serene
Guest Bathroom Renovation

2/14/13 12:39 PM

I love love luuuuurve cooking and trying new things, recipes, etc. in the kitchen. My engineer husband does not see what all the fuss is about - food goes in, food goes out. Eat leftovers without reinventing them into something else. It drives me nuts.

I do appreciate that he is a very happy and complementary eater, and I'm always very happy when I hear him telling someone else about the wonderful thing I made the other night, or that my XYZ is his favorite.

The farmers markets and brunching and chichi places to try - I have food-loving girlfriends and a mom for that. My best friend's "happy place" is a(ny) grocery store.


What Do You Do When the One You Love Doesn't Love Food?
2/14/13 12:36 PM

My mother taught me how to do my laundry when I was 5 (I'm the younger sibling of two). I remember her telling me that since I was starting to go to big kid school, that I had to be ready to plan out what I was going to wear for the week and make sure those things were clean.

She made sure to put a smaller container of the laundry detergent we used at my level and show me the lines for measuring (also an important skill). Mom also told me she remembered more than once seeing me upside down, little legs kicking trying to reach the bottom of the washer for a sock or something that had stuck to the side.

Before I learned how to do laundry, I remember helping folding and then bringing my fisher-price shopping cart into the living room to "shop" for my clothes to take back and put away in my room. Mom was a genius!

Contrast this with my HS best friend whose mother did her laundry all the way through HS and into college. She was at a total loss for how to do laundry in the dorms freshman year.


Putting Aside Perfection: Letting Your Younger Kids Help
2/7/13 12:08 PM

I'm surprised by how divisive this 'issue' seems to be for some people.

We do not have kids, but do send a photo card to relatives who all seem to like it...and I always write a short note on the back of each card to personalize it a bit. People that we are not as close with (extended friends) end up getting a non-photo card after the photo cards run out. Usually the photo card has one or two nice pictures of us taken at some point during the year (on vacation, at a birthday or anniversary dinner, etc.) and a picture of our (beautiful) dog.

I enjoy seeing my friends' kids (and their dogs...mostly their dogs :) growing up each year. It's especially great from friends/family we don't see as often since our families are spread across the US.


Burning Question for Parents: Do You Put Yourself in Your Holiday Photo Card?
12/6/12 10:03 AM

I'm with everyone else - it's terribly rude and annoying to not RSVP, or to not update your RSVP if your situation changes somehow (things happen). Anyone who's planned a wedding or other event outside their home with vendors, etc. automatically understands the importance of the RSVP.

On the flip side, I have a sister-in-law who was hosting a 1st birthday for my niece (I know this isn't a baby birthday discussion, but bear with me). She didn't send out invitations, but sent out a mass text invite the week of the party (which drove me crazy). I had several people call me and say "was this a pity invite?" to which I had to reply, "No, that's just how she does invitations." They ended up having OVER 50 PEOPLE show up. No clue how many were intended. The whole ordeal almost gave me hives.


Party Planning Vent: What's So Hard About RSVPing?
11/9/12 10:52 AM

I loved in 'The Curious Case of Benjamin Button' when Cate Blanchett and a tasty Brad Pitt move into their little bungalow. They sleep on a mattress in the living room and there is a montage that shows them painting the house, watching the Beatles on TV, etc. They're both so blissed out and in love that they don't actually "move in" but just lie together on that mattress. Swoon.


Movie Moves: Film Scenes About Moving Out (And Moving In)
9/27/12 10:58 AM

Our current neighbors are pretty fantastic. In 2008 when Hurricane Ike came through Galveston/Houston on a Saturday, we were set to be married in Dallas the following Saturday. The night before the storm blew through, our neighbors hosted an "empty your freezer" party. We laid out a huge buffet, two of the neighbors fired up their grills/smokers and went to town cooking a bunch of food so it could be saved in coolers.

The kid next door had his 9th birthday that exact day, so we all sang happy birthday to him around a mix of different ice creams and a frozen pie that had been baked.

The next day, after the storm had passed and everyone was stuck cleaning up the debris, one guy walked up and down the street with his chainsaw, cutting up limbs. My husband helped our elderly neighbors rake and sweep. People ran cords across the street to each other, since some houses on the street had power and others didn't. At the end of the second day, we were all exhausted from working outside all day, so we staged a rebellion and 6 houses worth of people snuck into the neighborhood pool for a refreshing swim (it was closed for the season).

We made it to our wedding with blisters all over our hands and about 3 trashbags full of "stink" clothes from all the cleanup. When we came back from our honeymoon, our neighbors who were watching our house had collected our mail, wedding gifts that had been delivered, made sure all our heavy "hurricane" trash had been thrown out when the crews finally came through to pick things up, given us a gift themselves, and plugged our refrigerator back in so it was cold by the time we got back. Great neighbors, I tell ya!


My Best Neighbor Ever
9/26/12 12:53 PM

Anything Meg Ryan/Tom Hanks (or anything Nora Ephron/Rob Reiner, I suppose)
Mean Girls
Memoirs of a Geisha
The Parent Trap (Hayley Mills version)
Love Actually


Get Well Soon: What's Your Go To Movie
When You are Feeling Sick?

9/26/12 12:18 PM

To each their own. The only weird thing I ever saw was a woman at a place where I briefly worked. She had a framed 8x10 photo of herself on her desk. Right next to her computer screen facing her chair (where most people would put a tasteful 3x5 of their family vacay or something similar). It was just her in the photo, from the waist up, sitting in a garden all dressed to the nines. I never understood having such a large picture of oneself but never cared enough to ask her the meaning behind it (and thought it might be perceived as rude or envious if I did ask her).


Displaying Personal Photos:
Awesome or Awkward?

9/25/12 5:03 PM

As a child: PB&J, grape jelly, creamy peanut butter.of course.

As an adult: post-Thanksgiving turkey with dressing and gravy. Is there really anything better than this? I submit that there is not.

My dad still makes the BEST loaded sub sandwiches in the world. Pretty much everything but the kitchen sink.

Thank you to all the posters reminding me that I am in need of a meatloaf sandwich, stat.


Just Like Mom's: What Sandwiches Did You Grow Up With?
9/24/12 5:49 PM

LRC, Scattergories, The Game of Things, Catchphrase and SceneIt! movie trivia for Xbox. Pretty much anything where you can play with close friends or people you're just getting to know. Anything that players won't take too seriously. My husband's family loves playing poker, but I find it gets too competitive and they always want to keep the game going even after it loses its "fun" to me.

If it's just my husband and I, it's usually Scrabble. We are a bit competitive, and have kept a running Wins/Losses score since we moved in together. I'm up in the series overall, but only by one game.


Games After Dinner: What Do You Play?
9/24/12 5:28 PM

I have friends in DC who are facing this exact predicament: how long do we stay here with our jobs and postpone the things that we want (home, kids, etc.) but cannot afford due to the cost of real estate in this area. I've always understood it but *not* understood how they could be so torn. Apparently it's a much bigger deal that I ever thought.

My husband and I live comfortably in Houston (not downtown, but not in the 'burbs either), and like others have already said - we enjoy the things the city has to offer and enjoy our ability to have more of our income available for traveling or future planning. We have a great neighborhood, great neighbors and we both have ~10-15 minute commutes (if you've ever been to Houston, you know this is pretty rare). My company's headquarters are in New Jersey, so we are able to extend some business trips and get around the northeast; my husband's current project is outside Sao Paulo so we are able to extend his business trips as well. Houston is a very international city and has a great economy and job market. And low rent. And delicious food. Really, really delicious food.


Living In The Most Expensive Cities:
How Long Can We Keep This Up?

9/24/12 5:22 PM