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Argh! Thank you for this! I've been struggling for a long time with my desired kitchen/laundry/bathroom "look" and I've finally narrowed it down to apothecary/stereotypical 1950s lab. I'm really really into this aesthetic and the idea of using beakers will probably make me feel more comfortable cooking.


3 Reasons Why You Should Start Using Lab Beakers In the Kitchen
5/16/13 3:15 AM

Unf. Not enough matte black kitchen goodness in my kitchen or on my pinterest. I wonder if there's any way to make shiny appliances, like Wolfgang Puck products, into matte.


Chic and (Not) Shiny: Matte Black Kitchen and Dining Products Product Roundup
5/16/13 2:58 AM

Holy crap, I thought I was the only one! My boyfriend turns up his nose at the fake cheese versions I enjoy, but after a lot of tasting, I've found I don't really like chunky & short macaroni noodles or the creamy, abundant cheese they're served with. Will definitely be trying these.


Help Me Replicate the Texture of Boxed Mac and Cheese! Good Questions
5/16/13 2:19 AM

DovieAnn: BDSM does not teach a degradation of women and neither does it exhibit an unhealthy view of sex. If you'd done any BDSM research you'd know that both partners enter into the activity consensually. If you'd done your homework you'd know that female submissives feel empowered by the activities they engage in during BDSM sex, not degraded. They feel this way because even if the fantasy and activity exhibits degredation, it is a result of the consent and desire of the submissive. Something else to note, BDSM can also describe female Dominant and male submissive sex, so portraying it as a degredation of women is not only ignorant, it is inaccurately ignorant. BDSM is not unhealthy to the people who practice it because it makes them feel sexually fulfilled and nourished. And if a person does have a BDSM fetish, newsflash, no soft core inundation is going to rid them of it. BDSM is not evil.

Spacekat: Porn is healthy for some people and for some people, sex is exactly like it is in those videos. Saying it should be avoided is like saying cooking shows should be avoided because all they make is great food.


What Do You Think of This Mom's iPhone Contract For Her 13 Year Old Son?
4/30/13 10:05 PM

I'd like to see products like this in different shapes and sizes. More leaning toward castle shapes, etc.


Fantastic Anti-Plastic Beach Toys by Zoe b Family Find
4/30/13 9:27 PM

Categorizer & consumer


What Kind of Pinner Are You? 6 Types of Pinterest Users
4/24/13 2:38 PM

I know this doesn't count as 'at home' but I'm an avid watcher of The Walking Dead, and there is a subplot about the Grimes family photographs, so when I happened upon a pin leading to this page, it made me consider that a "lookbook" would be a space efficient way to carry cherished photos if one should have to suddenly evacuate their area. It's no shadow box but two or three could easily be tossed into a bag!


How Do You Memorialize Loved Ones at Home?
4/20/13 4:53 PM

I think I might have first seen one of the colorful iMacs on Felicity or something, I wanted one so badly but was still in middle school, and was lower middle class so I couldn't expect one for myself. I much prefer those colors to the sleek but faceless current iMacs. Actually what I'd prefer is a black shell with a colorful logo. In general, though, more color would be appreciated.


Colorful Cameras, Speakers & Headphones: 5 Rainbow Hued Gadgets
4/16/13 3:57 PM

Haha, I actually had to google pita tenant. Actually, DO NOT just go ahead and do it! My sister-in-law's family painted their rental apartment and they got blacklisted. They haven't been able to rent an apt since. Do not ask me how because I don't know.


7 Ways to Rescue a Rental Kitchen Renters Solutions
3/18/13 8:07 PM

One last thing, why hasn't anyone mentioned the, "you break it, you bought it" rule? Does she seriously not have phone insurance? It's nine dollars a month for me and it's replaced many a lost phone. That's a couple mowed lawns a month to save both parent and child an often ridiculous expense.


What Do You Think of This Mom's iPhone Contract For Her 13 Year Old Son?
1/18/13 6:39 PM

I like how loving she is in the wording of this contract. I don't glorify parenting that is intimidating in its efforts to be "grown-up."

I like the no porn clause. On a phone, NOT a good idea for any age. My rules may be different for other mediums like laptops, desktops. I like the "no junk shots," good rule to be explicitly stated to minors. I don't like how shameful and body-negative puritan America can be, even if I'm relatively modest about my own. I think it's a fine line to tread, not wanting your children to be ashamed of their bodies even while you're trying to convince them not to make decisions that will ruin their professional/academic respectability.

I like the "don't take pictures of everything" rule in the cell phone context. If you want to take pictures of everything, do it properly, with the proper equipment. I think the wording of the rule though, is unfair and inaccurate. Living your experiences and recording them are not mutually exclusive, and no, they won't be stored in your memory forever.

I don't like the "download new and interesting music" rule in the cell phone context. If you want to download new and interesting music, do it properly, with the proper equipment. Or better yet, "use this phone to keep in touch with me while you and your friends attend a chaperoned trip to concerts." I think the wording of the rule though, is unfair and unhelpful. He's thirteen years old! Pretty much any music is new to him. And one of the great things about music is being able to connect with other people through music, which would be made significantly more difficult if you weren't listening to the same stuff most of your peers have on their iPods. Btw, someone shoot me a link, where's the digital music player/laptop contract?


What Do You Think of This Mom's iPhone Contract For Her 13 Year Old Son?
1/18/13 6:30 PM

I've never hosted a dinner party and would never send paper invitations for one, but I only just now realized how common this is. It might not be a generational thing, it could also be a cultural thing. I'm hosting Thanksgiving and so far I have nine confirmed (in person/over the phone), one probably confirmed, and two maybes. This is because of, surprise!, my mother. Her boyfriend's brother has no one to spend Thanksgiving with, so she says he'll be coming. She also said maybe my grandmother and her husband might be "dropping by." She can't confirm whether any of her brothers or their families will be attending. And of course, we could not turn them away, so if they do come with no notice, I will simply have to swallow it in silence.

A couple years back, I hosted Thanksgiving for what I expected to be five or six people. It ended up being about 25 (none of whom brought anything!) because my mother (said she only) mentioned it to her brother who mentioned it to another brother, etc. Some people who were most looking forward to my ham, like my little brother, didn't even get to eat. What probably happened is she told them to drop by if they have a chance, probably figuring they wouldn't, and she completely neglected to tell me. I still haven't forgotten every moment of that humiliating experience, and to this day, she still feels comfortable with this method of invitation. In all fairness, after I have repeatedly reminded her of that disaster, she has been more diligent about securing confirmations. However, she grew up in Mexico and word of mouth is pretty much their culture. She was utterly appalled when I told her about the American custom of gift registries.

So I will be happy for the day I begin using paper invitations and online RSVP's.


Party Planning Vent: What's So Hard About RSVPing?
11/9/12 1:26 PM

skippany, that's a great idea! My parents used snail mail for my Quinceañera, I think. Other than that, I have never used snail mail, I've always invited in person.

That being said, I sooo want to begin using paper invitations. I don't own a house or live in the burbs or have even hosted a dinner party, so I haven't really had the need to use them. I like the idea of using hybrid websites that allow me to send paper invitations and track rsvps online. But I would probably only use them for special occasions: birthdays, Christmas, Thanksgiving, Easter, Independence Day, New Year's. My circle of friends is small enough that sending out invitations to small things like a dinner party celebrating a job promotion or a game day barbeque would be more cumbersome than cute.


Are Snail Mail Invites Dead?
11/9/12 12:59 PM

I badly want dark flooring throughout my house. I am not a fan of white flooring. However, I do plan to adopt a grey tabby Scottish Fold and a pair of Great Pyranees. Yikes. I suppose I'll have to give black cats/black dogs a second consideration.


On the Kitchen Floor: Dark vs. Light
11/8/12 12:13 PM

• Baked first cake: not yet
• Cooked first romantic meal: not yet
• Hosted first dinner party: not yet
• Made first Christmas supper for the whole family: 18ish

I can't remember which year I cooked my own Thanksgiving dinner for the family but it was either 18 or 19. I'm 24 and still perfecting Thanksgiving, I've been hosting it ever since. All the others I've yet to do! Eep! In all fairness I'm an introvert who is trying to make an out of state relocation, so the top three are low on my priority list. My mother, though she can cook, hardly took the time to teach me when I was in my teens and ready to learn. So all the things I do know how to cook I've found on websites. I'm still experimenting. I'm still gathering together recipes from my childhood; my mother is the type of person who doesn't use recipes or measurements. I'd be thrilled to be able to prepare 15 recipes from memory.

Thank goodness for Pinterest, I have all the recipes I'm still wanting to try pinned, and I can add notes to the ones I have cooked.

This definitely does make me feel a little better about how behind I am, but I'm still anxious to catch up.


Aged to Perfection? Survey Says Women Master Cooking at Age 55
11/8/12 12:07 PM

Meh. I think it would have been interesting to see how a person could obsessively (and attractively) incorporate Jordan into their home. I think I can intellectually understand growing out of something and not needing to surround yourself in it anymore, but I haven't personally gone that route. As an adult I still parcipate in the same cheesy activities I enjoyed as a kid, I just have different mediums and appointed times/places to express myself.


Design Confessions of a Jordan-aholic
10/10/12 5:45 PM

Oppose. I've lived in apartments since the age of two and white walls are in every childhood picture. Not even nice, Pride & Prejudice style paneled walls. Those gross, weirdly textured walls you find in cookie cutter apartments. My mother has two brown couches in her living room and a gold/beigeish one she got from my grandmother. They are so different and clashing I avoid looking at them. She loves green and burgundy and gold accents. She was also really into light woods while I was growing up.

I hate green and brown and burgundy and gold and still can't afford my own home but when I do probably only the trim will be white, and a clean, crisp white, not off-white. Though I do love wood pieces, Magnussen Joplin collection ftw, I prefer a deep dark Pottery Barn almost-black brown.

However, a lot of her accents are/were very traditional in style (my preference) such as rococo art/picture frames or late baroque table legs. Unfortunately, I never got to decorate my room and when I tried to organize my multitude of books in an interesting style, was chided for it, so I wouldn't say my mother has stylistically influenced me.


How Did Your Parents' Color Choices Influence Your Own?
10/10/12 5:30 PM

I think you only need to compare the results from Baby Einstein videos and the Doman program to see that successful childhood learning comes from human interaction. That being said, I absolutely agree that pc devices are a wonderful classroom aid for college and high school age students. Of course middle school students are adept with computers, and I think that's a perfect age to begin transitioning to more efficient learning, but I feel like elementary and pre-elementary students would be best helped by physical resources such as a pencil, paper, and their teacher. However, I hold no reverence for "traditional" anything unless it's constantly proven to be the highest quality method or resource available.


Is Your Home Tablet Your Child's Next School Teacher?
10/10/12 4:54 PM

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Best of Etsy: Vintage Alarm Clocks
8/10/12 4:31 AM

I wouldn't go with the target one. I bought one of those under ten dollar ones from target and it drained my bats & stopped working within the week. I still have it because it looks really cute and might be convinced into trying another one but I'll probably look for other, more reliable sources. Anyone got experience with a more study double bell?


Best of Etsy: Vintage Alarm Clocks
8/10/12 4:30 AM