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Must respecfully disagree with @Whitehouse design. It would be disrespectful if he had not have asked permission and just done the graffi without his parent's consent. Instead, he worked with his mother to figure out a way to get his design up on the walls of his room.

A child's room is their space. It is where they begin to make the decisions that eventually will lead them to an adult design sense and their own individual taste. As long as there are no dirty dishes or clothes spread around and the minimum level of clean is maintained, let the kid decide. However, it was understood in our house that we were only buying paint once every three or four years, so you were going to have to live with whatever color you chose.

I didn't always agree with my kid's choices, but I figure that I'd pick my battles and room decor, hairstyle and (to a certain extent) clothes weren't where I wanted the fight. Grades, social peers, responsibility, family life - those were where I drew very clear lines.


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A Non-Permanent Graffiti Solution Apartment Therapy Videos

12/4/12 9:31 AM

I've already done my placecards for this year (did them once the guestlist was final a couple of weeks ago). But I've bookmarked for next time, these are lovely.

One hint. Make a couple of 'blank' place cards so that if you have a last minute change in a 'plus one' or an invite after church of a solo friend, the new guest will still enjoy your fullest hospitality.

I know this kind of project isn't for everybody, but for a big, formal dinner, I'll often make the extra effort.


How To Make Cut Paper Place Cards Simply Paper Cutting by Anna Bondoc
11/21/12 2:56 PM

Learning to cook for one and eat alone was one of the harder things about becoming a widow. Not the hardest, obviously, but something that still bothers me eight years later.

What helps - laptop (I sometimes read my blog feed if dinner is not too messy or complex), good books, music, giving myself permission to open a bottle of wine (and I'm loving that there are smaller bottle and more decent boxed wines now - a blessing for singles).

I try to make at least some evening meals special - I set the table with the real silver and better china, and put a bit more effort into the cooking. Just because you are eating alone doesn't mean you should not eat well.


When Eating Alone is LonelyCooking for One
9/24/12 11:28 AM

A few years back, I had bats get into the house - two different ones over two days until I found where they were 'overdaying' in my dryer vent when the screen had come off. Getting them into the main room and opening the front and back doors all the way and 'easing' them towards the nearest entrance with a gentle 'ceiling puff' broom worked. Eventually their radar pointed them toward a safe exit.

The key is to figure out where they got in so you can take appropriate action to prevent another occurance.


How To Get a Bird Out of the House
8/29/12 12:55 PM

Go Juno! I, too, had hip dysplasia when I was a newborn. I only vaguely remember the therapy (it's gotten a lot shorter over the years, I was in braces until grade school) and have very little trouble as an adult. I do remember one time my Dad insisting on my doing my therapy exercises despite a huge temper tantrum that I was throwing. Hang in there, it's worth it.

CUTE party (I like the masks and the 'make a card' station best).


Best Kids Parties: Hip Hip Hooray My Party
8/21/12 8:55 AM

I have a laundry chute in my 1930s A&C bungalow. It's in the base of the linen closet (which doesn't go all the way down to the floor). It takes up the front and center third of the first 'shelf' with a fitted lid hinged along the back. And the laundry in the basement is directly under the bathroom, so the total enclosed area of the 'chute' is only about three feet down or so.

I have managed to clog it up with the entire set of queen sized sheets, four pillowcases and a mattress cover all at once. But a few 'shoves' and everthing went through.


What Secret Is This Vanity Hiding? Thrifty Decor Chick
8/3/12 2:54 PM

Hey, it's home!

If you are at all into the RenFest type thing, the Kansas City Ren Fest is one of the oldest and best ones. Weekends from Labor Day to mid October

http://www.kcrenfest.com/


A Design Lover's Guide to Kansas City Apartment Therapy's Design Destination Guide
7/25/12 9:41 AM

I love your 'yarn bomb' bench and the 'If you can't stand the heat...." art. And the lights, and your clock......

Great use of space and open shelving that makes sense. One of my favorites!


Annie's Charming, Budget Berlin Kitchen Small Cool Kitchens 2012
7/25/12 9:20 AM

(I work with pre WWII linen altar cloth at my church).

Linen is stronger wet than dry. If you iron, iron damp (not dripping though) and with tons of steam. Don't press in creases - the linen will eventually shatter along the fold line. When that happens on the hems, just cut along the shatter line and rehem. The piece will be good for years more.

I love linen - VintageJenta is correct - tow linens are lower quality. Look for 'line spun' pieces.


Why Are French Linen Towels So Expensive? Good Questions
7/23/12 11:24 AM

Our local brewhouse pub introduced me to the 'summer beer' (the version with a small shot of vodka). The Blind Tiger was just down the street from my old office and on a hot Friday afternoon after work, the whole tart, sparkling, just enough alchol - perfect.


Low-Alcohol Refreshment: The Shandy
7/23/12 11:05 AM

Potato rolls and potato pancakes are both childhood favorites.

Dzed - I hadn't heard of Pepperoni Rolls, but they seem to go into the Koloche/Bireock family of breads - which I love. And they sound yummy.


Four Reasons Why Potato Buns Rule
7/23/12 10:45 AM

I do set the table with both salad and dinner forks if there's a green salad (or any salad served on a seperate serving plate/bowl). My set doesn't have desert forks - but does have shrimp forks - WHY??? And I ordered a double dose of teaspoons, AND a set of long iced tea spoons. The soup spoons in my set are huge - use them for serving ware only.

BTW, my set had as an option, a set of children's silver - the spoon was about the size of a teaspoon, and the fork a bit smaller than a salad fork, but both had much shorter handles. I thought that was a great idea.


Are Salad Forks & Teaspoons Outmoded?
7/23/12 10:11 AM

I have several large pieces that are on display year round and 'anchor' the look in my living and dining room. My family photos are out all the time as well.

But the framed needlework pieces are rotated along with the soft goods (pillows, throws, table linens). It's better for them to 'rest' out of the light and stored flat for a while. There are a few photos and smalls framed pieces that are more or less seasonal/holiday and those are swaped out, too.


Simply Seasonal: Swapping Out Your Art?
7/9/12 10:31 AM

The ones that I like the best have some underlying element that unifies them - like the subject matter of florals in #4 or the strong shimp pink color in #5.

I have so many pieces of framed needlework, but there is no unifying element. Maybe that's why I'm so dissatisfied in the way that area looks. Time to re-think. Maybe if I use a single frame color?


9 Gallery Walls Done Right
6/26/12 10:37 AM

@EnglishDaffodil - please put your paint chip information into both binders (at least the current colors when you move). I'm so glad that I was able to match the ceiling color after a repair, but having the actual paint type and number would have been even better.


Organizing Tasks for a New Home
6/25/12 1:55 PM

@ABCORNWELL - I'm so glad that I'm not the only one that loves 'dark and cool' in the summer. My living room fits the bill perfectly, as does the rock basement.

I love my screen porch, too, especially at night or during a light rainstorm when everything cools off.


What Do You Love About Your Home in the Summer?
6/25/12 1:24 PM

My son had a twin up till age 16. When he hit 5'11" the summer before his sophmore year in HS, he wrangled himself a double bed (my folks provided a spare bed frame, second hand box spring and an inexpensive mattress (not IKEA, but similar). I came home from work to his old bed sitting in the dining room and he and his girl friend and buddies painting. (I'd agreed to the paint, the bed was a surprise LOL).


After the Crib: 15 Twin Beds for Big Kids
6/25/12 1:15 PM

@Duane - exactly what I meant, no personal pictures or books. I didn't mean 'bland'. As a 'showhouse' or 'model' apartment, it's fantastic. I would have liked to see the kitchen and bath, too,


Kevin's Cool, Collected Studio Cocktail House Tour
6/25/12 12:26 PM

Dramatic color. Love the entry and the bed nook, love the bed for that matter.

Of course, since this is a 'showcase' and not somebody's actual things, it's a bit depersonalized. But I could see myself living there, if I was that 20 something urban professional.


Kevin's Cool, Collected Studio Cocktail House Tour
6/25/12 12:10 PM

I have two standard rectangular Rubbermaid baskets that live in my (narrow) walk in closet. I'm lucky to have a walk in closet in a Craftsman house, but I REALLY need to reconfigure it and install a proper closet system. Right now I have just a one level hanging bar, so my laundry baskets (one for lights, one for darks) live under my shirts. Plenty of space.


Where Does Your Laundry Basket Live? Reader Survey
6/4/12 10:02 AM