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Display Name: Stephanie_M
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I have read that dental issues are only a concern if it continues past 6 years. My son never sucked his thumb but was very dependent on my presence when he would wake up at night. Whereas my daughter started at 4 months and is now 6 months. I have made a conscious decision to pay close attention when she is awake and distract her from sucking her thumb. If you observe your child you will notice that he/she will resort to the sucking when: FRUSTRATED, BORED, SAD, HUNGRY OR OVERWHELMED. It is a self soothing mechanism which is wonderful for their independance and completely natural. However If we are not attentive to their emotions it becomes a clutch just like moms shoving pacifiers in their toddlers mouth to shut them up. No child responds to negative reinforcement. hot sauce and metal devices are TERRIBLE and a form of abuse! respect your baby and pay attention. The sucking should go away by year 1 or 2 when they become more independent and vocal about their emotions.


Breaking the Thumb Sucking Habit
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1/23/12 12:25 AM

oh also, I would not trust the durability of this bed. Acrylic is not strong enough to hold a mattress and a baby in it makes me nervous. There is so much risk of the bolts on the sides cracking and breaking off. If it were made out of polycarbonate thats another story. But again not my taste.


2012 Trends: Lucite Furniture in the Nursery?
1/23/12 12:10 AM

I run an acrylic fabrication company that makes acrylic furniture. However we never had a request for a crib. That being said seeing this and knowing what I know about plastics...this is not a healthy option for a baby. Acrylic is not food grade so I would not have my baby chewing on the rails. Secondly, Acrylic furniture is tricky. Less is more. A waterfall shelving unit, a coffee table,....but a bed or crib? its tacky 80s if you ask me.


2012 Trends: Lucite Furniture in the Nursery?
1/23/12 12:06 AM

To give you an example of my day. My daughter is 5 months and she eats every 4 hours. her routine is eat, play, sleep. She naps for 2 hours at a time. those two hours are my most efficient times. However when I finish feeding her I put her in her playpen and she is contently playing on her own for an hour and a half. As long as your in the same room they should have no problem playing on their own. the second they seem sleepy around the 2 hour mark you put them to bed and they sleep for two hours and it starts all over again. so really the only times you are tending to your baby is during feeds and if they need to be changed or glancing to see if they are safe while playing. it is very doable.


Does Bringing Your Baby to Work, Work?
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12/12/11 11:56 PM

Hi Jacqueline, YES it is possible. However I help run a successful 30 year old company with my parents. I started going back to work when my first born son was 4 months (because I am a partner in the company I dont qualify for maternity leave so I had no choice). I started going 3 times a week and 2 days i would stay home. This helps the baby get used to the new environment. then after a month I would go full time. The trick is you need to have a solid routine. Your baby needs to have a predictable schedule so that you can work around it. My son stayed with me until he was 2 years. Then I put him in daycare. I recently gave birth to a baby girl and am back at work with her too. I follow a strict routine and i follow a book called "the baby whisperer" it is tremendously helpful and i highly recommend it even if you plan to not bring your baby to work. good luck!


Does Bringing Your Baby to Work, Work?
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12/12/11 11:51 PM

wow! 109 comments in one day! well I'm glad I went through all these comments because they reassured my decision in having a second shower. My mom is planning it and she was pushing me to have it and i was worried what others would think. Shame on me! there is nothing wrong with having a shower for your 2nd 3rd 4th etc. every child is a miracle and should be celebrated. Love your comment "mamashafe" couldnt have said it better.


Gift Etiquette and Moral Dilemmas
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2/1/11 8:59 PM