Lee V's Profile

I think it is important not to take ourselves so seriously. We can choose to take issue with just about anything.
If relationships matter to you, then appreciate the people you surround yourself with. Don't criticize and pull down. Encourage and build up your friends. That means, celebrate with those who are celebrating!
I agree with imperfectmomma with other options for gift giving.

We do ourselves a disservice when we define ourselves by "the kind of person" who we are. "I AM THE KIND OF PERSON WHO DOES NOT BELIEVE IN 2nd BABY SHOWERS."
ok. Then you choose to not celebrate a happy occasion with friends because "THAT IS NOT WHO YOU ARE".
Is it worth it?

Who we are is in our character and how we treat others.
It is not how we diaper.