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i work at a residential lodge for youth recovering from drug & alcohol addictions. We practice a consistent set of manners at our dining table, and its amazing how quickly the youth grasp that this gives them respect and a safe place for enjoyable and intellectual conversation.
Last week we ran a session on formal manners & etiquette as a means of simply having more skills to interact with the world - more skills equal more opportunity. We went to a thrift shop for ties, used new bedsheets as white linen on the tables, and served a 5-course meal. They RAVED about it all week, and are clamouring for the next 'formal night'! They responded that they felt special, empowered, and confident with taking on 'classier' aspects of society.
Just goes to show that graciousness, hospitality, manners, and etiquette will never get old.


Weekend Meditation: Minding Our Manners | Apartment Therapy The Kitchn
6/15/10 5:39 AM

@ littlestfinch: i get that. Every space in my last apartment was combined with some sort of 'studio' space:

http://www.flickr.com/photos/jessica_anne/3555033521/in/set-72157604057776314/


4 Double-Use Bedrooms | Apartment Therapy Chicago
2/2/10 2:33 AM

i could never decide whether it was an terrible adulteration of a classic or heaven on earth, but the coffeeshop i worked in through college stocked Nanaimo bars in Irish Cream, Mocha, Mint, Lemon, White Choc, and Raspberry versions.
While i still think my grandmother's are the best, it was hard not to sample the different flavours at the shop on a regular basis.


Recipe: Nanaimo Bars — The Canadian Treat | Apartment Therapy The Kitchn
11/17/09 11:43 AM

This is how i make my paneer (with lemon juice, like Kaete).


Apartment Therapy The Kitchn | Make Queso Fresco! The Cheesemonger
10/21/09 3:38 PM

Single sinks may save space, but they make efficient dishwashing so much harder, particularly if you're ditching the dishwasher too, or don't have one to start with. After years of single-sinks, i'm so grateful to have a double again. One sink for soap, one for rinse: washup is quick, easy, and doesn't waste water.
Besides, particularly in an apartment with little storage, where else other than under the sink are you going to store recycling?


Apartment Therapy Los Angeles | How to Have a Gorgeous and Organized Kitchen! Austin
10/21/09 10:57 AM

Funny....i don't really think i have synaethesia, although perhaps it helps explain why i perceive some conversations in shapes and spatial arrangement.
A lot of my sketchbook is filled with these conversations drawn out in these arrangements/mappings, and a few have made their way into some of my favourite paintings: http://jessicamatthies.com/section/119160_scripted.html

i also see months in narrow planes, as if they are stretching out into the distance on ribbons.


Apartment Therapy San Francisco | Synesthesia and Color
10/19/09 3:09 AM

Canadian.
Shoes off in bad weather. ....or, if it's really cold, and the shoes are clean, then wear them!
Couldn't care less in good weather....in fact, dust from shoes is easier to clean off of my hardwood than footprints from sweaty feet sans shoes/sandals. And shoes look better than most peoples feet. ..just sayin..


Apartment Therapy Re-Nest | 37 Reasons to Take Your Shoes Off Most Popular Posts
8/6/09 1:17 AM

From BC:
In July/August, fresh caught chinook salmon.
In August, tomatoes, peaches, and apricots.
In September, raspberries and blackberries.
Then i freeze, smoke, and can everything above into meal-size portions for the rest of the year.

All year round? Wines from the Okanagan Valley and the Fort Winery in Langley, BC.


Apartment Therapy The Kitchn | What Foods Do You Bring Back From "Home?"
7/22/09 3:27 PM

i've been freezing, canning, and drying fruit my whole life, and i've never frozen any fruit with sugar.
Berries get frozen on a cookie sheet, in flat, single-layer rows, then tossed into freezer ziplocs. While they might not have the same body as a fresh-picked berry, they aren't necessarily limp or mushy. They are delicious, and if the air is expelled from the freezer bag well enough, they should never develop any off-flavours.
i usually can sweet cherries, but i've ALWAYS frozen sour cherries - they are perfectly tart, juicy, and delicious in pies all winter long that way!
Since most of my berries/fruit that i freeze goes into smoothies, pies, other baking, or sauces in the winter, i'm not sure why there would be any other advantage to adding extra sugar.


Apartment Therapy The Kitchn | How to Freeze Summer Fruit Cook's Illustrated
7/20/09 8:09 PM

errrr.....72 FOOT long peninsula?


Apartment Therapy The Kitchn | Kitchen Tour: Jay's Chelsea Renovation
7/6/09 4:29 PM

i work long (5 day) shifts out-of-town all summer long. My garden is on a friend's property, and she waters it while i am away.
The deal? Whatever is ripe, minus the root crops, when i'm not there is hers. It keeps us both happy :)


Apartment Therapy Chicago | Tending Vegetable Gardens for Vacationers
7/6/09 4:25 PM

i use a french butter keep (butter bell) that i've made.

Changing the water every few days definitely helps keep things fresh, and i think that leaving much of the ceramic unglazed also helps with the evaporation/cooling/keeping the butter at the right temp to not fall out.


Apartment Therapy The Kitchn | Buttter Tub from Mosser Glass
6/20/09 11:36 PM

At home - traffic, the occasional sirens, and people talking on the sidewalks below.

At work - wind rushing through huge pine trees, birds, crickets, loons, coyotes, mosquitoes, and the faint din of a diesel generator.


Apartment Therapy San Francisco | What Sounds Do You Fall Asleep To?
6/8/09 9:05 PM

Might not be the right kind of groundcover for a porch or patio, but some friends of mine have a little lawn grown entirely of a low, creeping mint. It's AMAZING....it stays green even in really bad drought conditions, and has the most heavenly fresh smell when you walk on it. Makes me wonder why people even plant grass at all.


Apartment Therapy Los Angeles | 5 Fragrant Plants for a Small Space
6/8/09 9:02 PM

Slowdown has it nailed. Zarazame, many of us absolutely do not need bread, milk, and eggs every week.
In university, i kept my food budget to between $50 and $75 a month consistently, for all 4 years. My food philosophy? Eat like most other people in the world:
- Basic grains, pulses, and legumes, cooked from dry. Once a week, i cooked up a big pot each of rice, beans, and lentils, and froze half of each in small portions. They were extremely versatile, and the base for at least one meal a day: added salsa for mexi night, cooked into curry, added home-canned tomatoes to make a delicious soup, mixed with frozen peas & corn for grain salads at lunch, etc.
- Learn to eat the same food, or similar food, multiple days in a row (freeze into small portions if concerned about bacteria/going off). i would often work through a pot of soup for 3 or 4 days in a row.
- Packaging=added price. Buy bulk, buy dry. Eat oatmeal for breakfast, not packaged cereal.
- Explore ethnic foods! Often a source of inexpensive spices and intense flavors.
- Learn to can and dry your own foods, in season. The jars are a bit of an initial $$ output, but are 100% reusable! AND, these cheap, home-canned vegetables are a very inexpensive and welcome source of veggie nutrition in winter months when fruit/veggies are out of season.
- If you eat meat, buy meat with bones (like whole chickens) to cook down into soup. Like others have said, easily 2-3 meals, sometimes 4.
- Eat with other people, and share resources.

These foods are not fatty or filled with preservatives - on the contrary, they are vitamin, mineral, and nutrient rich... can't say i was worse for it after 4 years of eating this way.


Apartment Therapy Chicago | Living With Less: Survival Strategies New York Times
6/4/09 1:57 AM

When my family built our house 20 years ago, my mom designed what we all call our 'bake center' - a recessed 2.5' x 4' space with a slightly lowered counter (we're all short!) to work on baking projects.
There are two levels of shelves around the inside. Both are 2-3" to store spice jars and work wonderfully!! The stand mixer, and all the other baking gear & projects are stored in there and the whole mess can be hidden behind big folding cabinet-style doors when needs be. It's the best space ever and i would think that pantry is probably just as fantastic and user-friendly.
But, oh, the grief that builders gave us when we first built those tiny 3" shelves in the first place!!! Ha!


Apartment Therapy The Kitchn | A Pantry Where Everything Is In Plain Sight House Beautiful
6/3/09 9:32 AM

i totally get the proudest warm-fuzzies when friends come over for the first time and (almost always) exclaim either "Cutest.Place.Ever!" or "It's SO like you!"

...mmmmm....success!


Apartment Therapy San Francisco | What Friends Say About Your Home
5/23/09 10:39 PM

Love it!

i really don't think that Coupland is referencing things that would ACTUALLY be in the house (jerry cans, etc) but i do find myself identifying with those objects and the certain level of livability/familiarity they hold.
...this conjures the frozen whiteness i still see outside my window today (yes, i watched it snow all day yesterday, argh)....the days i've had to run with the jerry cans in hand to a generator just to keep the power running for showers in a treeplanting camp....the driftwood piling underfoot by the shore on hornby island....being chased by evil geese between classes in university.

...Canada House indeed.


Apartment Therapy San Francisco | Canada House by Douglas Coupland
5/16/09 1:04 AM

Calgary, AB:

50/50 tie between Kawa and Deville, both coffeshops

Fairs Fair, second-hand bookstore

Community Natural Foods, grocery/household goods


Apartment Therapy New York | Shop Local: The 3 / 50 Project What Are Your 3 Favorite Independent Businesses?
5/4/09 11:44 PM

i'm back in Vancouver, in all it's grey misty coziness. Sleep in, then hand-knit wool socks, cozy sweater, and a cup of hot espresso on the patio (which is full of green and growing things) while i wake up.
Walk down to a cafe for brunch with a friend, read the globe&mail together and debate politics. Window shop and go home to listen to the Vinyl Cafe on CBC.

mmmm....Sunday morning reality is as close as i can get to this, every week.


Apartment Therapy Los Angeles | The Sunday Morning Fantasy: No, Not THAT Kind...
5/2/09 4:31 AM