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Display Name: cécile-t
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Kirikou is definitely a must-see for kids (and parents).
I'm not so sure about Le Roi et l'oiseau, though. I saw it when I was really young, probably not older than 6 and I have only vague memories of it but I do remember it left me with a weird feeling. The king was scary (at least for me) but most of all there was this really strange melancholy atmosphere. I don't know, it's really hard to describe it but it's such a strange movie, very poetic and beautiful but also very cruel in a way. I don't think it's for everyone.


Movie Night Selection: Foreign Movies for Children
5/21/13 5:07 PM

I don’t like the house at all. I think it’s tacky and bling bling. I would feel oppressed and depressed living here. There are too many different styles that clash with each other and with the bland contemporary architecture. Trying to add architectural interest to that kind of home (all those accent walls and bright and busy wallpapers, for example) only accentuates the fact that there is none to begin with. I see nothing bohemian, sexy or glamorous here, only a bunch of mismatched elements put there at random to try and create “a look” and failing miserably.

I’m not qualified to argue over the squaw discussion since I’m not a specialist of the topic or a Native American but I want to answer GlamourSquaw about her love of “places that evoke “native” such as Africa, Peru, Cambodia”: if I understand correctly, you use “native” to describe people and culture that were in place long before colonizers or migrants arrived. For you the word probably means some kind of authenticity that the modern world has lost but that can still be found in some preserved foreign land. But those places aren’t any more “native” than, say, Italy, England, Sweden, France, Greece or Russia. You’re trying to show people that you’re not racist but you have indeed a very American-centric and even colonialist vision of things that looks racist to me.
You may not understand this since you’re American and your country has a fairly recent history, but most countries in Europe for example were already populated several thousand years B.C. Think Etruscan civilization, ancient Greece, ancient Rome, Saxons, Goths, Gauls, Celts etc. and there are still many traces of the past there. In all fairness most of Europe should also be considered “native”. But of course England and Germany aren’t as exotic as the savannah or the Cambodian jungle.
Not to mention that people in Africa or Peru might not consider their countries as “native” at all and might take offence, especially since “native” might be considered as insulting as “primitive”. Americans and Europeans don’t have the monopoly of education, culture and civilization, you know.
Of course if for you “native” has a whole different meaning, feel free to explain it to us.


Leah & Bill's Modern Love Nest House Tour
11/1/12 7:47 AM

AT, this is getting really ridiculous!

Perfectly valid comments get deleted because they’re just a little critical and their authors don’t feel the need to approve of everything that is posted on the site and yet people like patrick (the other one) are free to be as obnoxious and annoying as they want and to attack everyone who doesn’t agree with them!
Don’t tell me there isn’t a double standard.

At this point, you might as well suppress the comment function (or whatever it’s called) and decree that all the posts show perfect houses or projects that can’t be criticized at all.


Crystal's Dramatic Home in San Francisco House Tour
7/9/12 7:43 AM

I'd be shocked if people took their shoes off in my house. Even I don't always do it when I come home. It’s silly, when you host a party, even if it’s not very formal, you expect people to wear rather formal clothing (no tennis shoes, no sweatpants, etc), so why would you want to turn the thing into a casual day at the beach?

There’s a lot a disadvantages to the thing. First, floors are *never* as clean as you’d like, so your feet end up all black. Then tiled floors are cold and in winter that can be really bad for some people. Third, there can be something wrong with your socks, tights or even your feet: smelly, bad-looking, with medical condition that makes walking barefoot painful, etc. And the list goes on.

As for the question of the respect, it goes both ways: you shouldn’t force your guests to remove their shoes and wear slippers that have already been worn a thousand times or make them feel guilty if they refuse to. They’re your *guests*: you’re supposed to entertain them, not make them miserable for a whole evening.

And finally, if you don’t want your floors to be ruined by the high heels of your guests, then don’t invite anyone anymore. My guess is, people who are so uptight don’t make very good hosts anyway…


The Barefoot Hostess: Kick Off Your Dancing Shoes
11/28/11 5:33 PM

In "high" society it is considered rude to bring something to the hostess, especially if it's the dessert or a bottle of wine or anything you can eat or drink: it implies that you think her incapable of cooking a decent meal. Flowers are OK if the hostess is your mother or another member of your family.
Like chickchick noted, propriety requires that you send a thank you note the soonest possible after the event.

As for rules at the table, it all depends on the company, the occasion and the country. I'm French and I've always been taught that elbows on the table are an absolute no, that you don't cut your salad with your knife and that you use your knife with your right hand and your fork with your left. You should also shut off your phone, eat with your mouth shut, say thank you and please and always pretend you enjoy the meal, the people and the conversation, even if you're bored to death or your sworn enemy is sitting right in front of you. And the list goes on.


Which Table Manners Do You Think are "The Essentials"?
11/7/11 2:37 PM

Wow, I didn’t think this was a serious issue. In France nobody asks their guests to take their shoes off. That would be strange and even rude.
As vain as it may sound, shoes are indeed a part of your outfit and an important part at that. Do you ask your guests to take off their pants, jewellery or make-up? I don’t think so.
Plus, you never know if the floor is going to be as clean as the hosts are making it.
If it’s tiles or concrete, it’s cold and it hurts; if it’s hard wood there may be splinters, etc.
People do have feet problems and it’s disrespectful to ask them to comply to the host’s wish that his super beautiful house remain pristine. Even when it’s just a small party with friends, asking them to remove their shoes means that you care about your house more than you care about them.
As for the germs, well, all the doctors in the world will tell you that you need to accumulate germs to develop a resistance to them and have strong antibodies and stuff.
And if your floor is a little bit dirty after the party, then so be it! Stop being so obsessed with cleanness, there’s nothing wrong with a few stains or some dirt that will take about 5 minutes to vacuum or wipe off…


Etiquette at Home: Solutions to The Great Shoe Debate
10/20/11 6:14 PM

Nice post, I didn't know the history of the enfilade. I love it, it gives a bigger perspective of the place, makes it feel grand.

It's actually very common in French haussmannian apartments like in the last picture (BTW, it's absolutely not contemporary).
Nowadays, the rooms in enfilade with a view of the street are the living room, the dining room, the study, or even the kitchen. People usually prefer the smaller and more private rooms that have a view of the courtyard and with no enfilade for the bedrooms and bathrooms.


Design Glossary: Enfilade
Retrospect

10/13/11 3:06 PM

In France furnished apartments are mostly for tourists or people on business trips because the rent is usually higher than unfurnished apartments. But except for some luxury apartments in Paris rented to rich tourists, the apartments aren’t “fully” furnished, there’s no real décor, just the basics.

In unfurnished apartments, you usually have to bring your own oven, stove, fridge, washing machine and appliances. You take them with you when you leave. The cupboards stay, unless you've redone the kitchen (with the owner's agreement) and brought them with you in the first place. Even then, you can usually make a deal with the owner so he keeps them in exchange for a reduction of the rent or some cash.

The rent is more expensive when the kitchen is completely furnished, but even then, it usually means no washing machine and certainly no dryer (there’s no “dryer culture” in Europe).

As for the eggs, in France, you can find them in the baking aisle, or near the water bottles section, or near the fruit and vegetables as they don’t need to be refrigerated. It all depends on the store.


Customs of Another Country: Fully Furnished Apartments
10/1/11 11:52 AM

Finally some beautiful not that old furniture that people have decided to salvage and restore to their original beauty instead of just drowning them under a few dozens coats of pastel blue paint.

And the result looks great!


How to Quickly & Easily Spruce Up Wood Furniture
8/24/11 3:01 PM

I don't see why people react so negatively. For my part, I think this condo has no architectural interest at all, it's not an old building full of charm or anything. And the decor isn't my style, I think it's pretty much everything I hate, from generic to already seen a million times before, etc. But I've seen things on AT that are worse than this and nobody was ever that mean.

Is it because these people hired an interior designer? Do you think it's "cheating"? If they have the money to, why not? After all they're the people living there, not us. That they should or shouldn't be featured on AT is another issue that is not the point of this post. Maybe the editors could offer the readers a chance to discuss this subject (are DIYed flats and houses the only ones allowed here?).

And frankly, I don't see what's wrong in wanting to have a nice home, where you feel comfortable, even if for just a short time (which apparently for them won't be so short). Just because it won't last doesn't mean you can't enjoy it.


Nancy & Alan’s Colorful Playa Vista Condo
House Tour

8/24/11 2:47 PM

I think #1 & #2 work best because they used a pastel palette so the contrast isn't too striking. #3 looks really unfinished and frankly too unnatural, like they tried too hard to do something different... and failed. #5 is too flashy for me.


Quirky "Unfinished" Paint Jobs
7/27/11 2:42 PM

@ motheroffive : There is no need to be so rude. People are entitled to their opinions, whether positive or negative. And they didn't just say the rooms were ugly, at least most of them tried to give a valid explanation to why they didn't like the design. Anyway, what's the use of commenting if you're only saying you love everything? We're not sheep.

Personally I agree with the floor tile and wall corkboard comments, they look cheap.
As for the rest, I don't know how much they charge their clients (apparently they're very expensive) but frankly I'm sure at least half the readers at AT could put together the same kind of thing for a ridiculously small portion of that budget (and many do, just look at the house tours...).


Home by Novogratz: Episode 2 and a Q&A with Cortney
Would she paint a teak Danish modern chair?

7/26/11 5:43 PM

I live in a city near Paris where it’s very crowded (we don’t have as much space as in American suburbia). We are lucky to have a front garden even though it’s small and we are even luckier to have a lot of trees (cherry tree, apple tree, magnolia tree, lilac trees etc), flowers, hedges, etc. From April to September it’s a beauty, with so many colours and smells and birds in the trees. It’s really a most agreeable place to be on a late summer evening.
In my opinion, there is no real interest in having a bare lawn with nothing to see but your neighbours (who can also see you, BTW).

I think that there is more to the American front lawn than the Puritans’ want of equality. The thing is, in Europe we tend to like our privacy and we don’t care what our neighbours do as long as they’re not murderers (and even then…). So we have no objection to having a lot of plant life surrounding us because precisely it hides us from the others and allows us to relax far from the hectic city life.
But in America, I’ve always had the feeling that people wanted to know what was happening in their neighbours’ homes, that they wanted to check that everybody was following the rules and behaving as they should. It’s like the front lawn is the sign that there’s nothing separating you from your neighbours and the cleaner, the neater it is, the better neighbour you appear to be.


The Case Against the American Front Lawn
7/5/11 5:26 PM

I agree, it looked way better before. It was a beautiful mid-century modern piece of furniture and now it looks like every other IKEA dresser. Glueing wallpaper to furniture has become so common now, people really should think twice before doing it.
Plus, I think parents should give their kids some credit. I bet most kids can appreciate the real value of a beautiful, valuable piece of furniture without it being painted or wallpapered to excess. They're no idiots.


Before & After: A Colorful Refinished Vintage Dresser
5/30/11 5:36 PM

I like the renovation but I kinda prefer the "midway" stuff. It looked a bit dated and retro, sure, but it also had a lot of charm that matched the rest of the house, since it's an old house. But I do agree the yellow ceiling is great though personally I would have chosen cabinets that go all the way up to the ceiling. But on the whole it's really a nice kitchen.


Before & After(s): Ashley's Two Stage Kitchen Reno
5/25/11 5:48 PM

I usually hate all kinds of wood panelling, it makes me claustrophobic but this house is amazing! So simple and cozy, warm and inviting. The little attic bedroom must be a great place to enjoy a good book and a cup of coffee. You really feel at home.


Erin's Warm & Wood-Wrapped Austin Bungalow
House Tour

5/19/11 1:43 PM

I’m curious as to how many Europeans answered this post and if they did, what did they say?

I’m French and from what I know, painting wood trim is really not an issue either in France or in the rest of Europe. I think it’s a very *pointless* American thing.

Really, it’s your house, paint it or don’t paint it. If you’re worried about the resale value, then why did you bother buying a house in the first place? I don’t know about the people who answered, but when you buy a house, it’s to *live* in it, not to resell it after a couple of years!

For what it’s worth, I live in an 1900s house in the Parisian area, and all the wood trim and doors are painted white. When my mom bought the house 15 years ago, she transformed it to suit our needs and living in a dark and gloomy house with lots of dark wood and no light, not to mention the awful carpet in the stairs and the cheap-looking though old hardwood floors was really not our idea of a home.

In the end, all you need to ask yourself is: which way do you like it best? And if you decide to paint it, do it well, like some people said. Sand it first to remove the varnish and then paint it. I’d personally go with a matte finish which will make the trim less present and overwhelming in the house. It’s also less difficult to remove (if you’re still worried about the resale). And I’d paint the doors too, though not necessarily the same colour. It really depends on your colour scheme and the light the rooms get.


Will Painting Original Trim Lower Resale Value?
Good Questions

4/11/11 2:00 PM

Like I posted before in a post about w/d in the kitchen, I don't own a dryer and I'm fine. We own a drying rack that uses like 1.5 square centimeter when it's folded and stored in the bathroom and we also use hangers. And we don't mind having the laundry drying in the living room for a night or so. The clothes are not at all scratchy or anything and I can assure you, even without the dryer, we get the "vital shrinkage" for jeans.

I did use a dryer when I was at uni in England a few years ago, because in my 9 sq. meter room I didn't have any space. But I didn't really like it, the clothes didn't smell nice like they do when they air-dry.

We don't do it primarily to save the planet but it's true that we don't like to waste energy when it's not necessary. It's a personal choice but it does save energy and money (the price of the dryer and the price of its use).


5 Tips for Living Life Without a Dryer
1/13/11 4:52 PM

I’m French and even though new houses tend to have separate laundry rooms or closets, here the norm is actually to have your washing machine either in the kitchen or in the basement (except in really big houses but unfortunately real estate is really expensive). We’ve had ours in the basement for years but it wasn’t very convenient and due to a flood a few years ago we had to move it to the bathroom upstairs. It’s not a very good solution either because, well, everyone knows what happens when water and electricity collide. But it’s a 1900 or so old house (there wasn’t even a bathroom when it was built) so we do what we can.

On another topic, I’m amazed at how many people commented about their dryers. I don’t really understand why everybody needs one. I mean, we don’t have one and we’re perfectly fine. We’re just 2, my mom and I, but even when we were 3, we never had a problem. I’m not saying that it’s wrong and you should all be hanged or whatever but on a site that advocates ecology and sustainability (how many posts here and at re-nest talk about saving energy and doing the right thing for the planet) it just seems weird. I’m in charge of the laundry and I can tell you, taking a half hour after the washing is done to hang the clothes to make them dry naturally without wasting energy, electricity, it’s really simple and easy. You don’t need that much space and who cares if one day a week you have a rack in your living room or in your bathroom? In spring and summer I hang the clothes outdoors and in 3 hours they’re dry; in winter (as it’s the case now) it takes about a day and a night but frankly, it’s no big deal. Plus, it smells really good in the house.

Lastly (and I’ll stop with this), a lot of people commented about the fact that they don’t have space for storing the laundry but I think the real problem is how many times a week do you do your laundry? I think people tend to wash things all the time, things that aren’t even dirty. I know a lot of people like that, even in my own family. If we all stopped being germ-freaks, I think that would be a progress.


Inspiration: Washers & Dryers in the Kitchen
1/13/11 1:03 PM