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Agree with @katie.currid ! I hate when diy instructions assume you just have a random set of hairpin legs lying around.

That being said this is a pretty rad console.


How To Make a Media Console For $40 HomeMade Modern
4/29/13 12:00 PM

Ugh, STORY OF MY LIFE. I would argue that it's almost *easier* to make friends when you move to a new city because you're in that honeymoon period and you have an excuse for not having friends already. Try making friends after living somewhere for ten years!

My husband and I spend most of our Saturday nights alone and I'm beginning to just resign myself to the fact that we have social leprosy. I work for a company with lots of young cool social people, so it's a great opportunity to make friends, but I just can't seem to seal the deal with anyone. I do get together for weeknight drinks with people once in a while, but it tends to be me doing the inviting, and despite feeling like I'm hitting it off with people, the invite never seems to be reciprocated later. I tend to be socially insecure, so I'm always teetering between "just suck it up and ask them" and the idea that I do have SOME self respect so if they're not inviting me to hang out then ef'em. But unfortunately we've grown distant from some of our good friends because we got tired of being the ones to call them.

I think it's time to just give up and have a baby.


10 Tried & True Tips: How to Make New Friends in a New City
4/4/13 1:38 PM

I completely agree with opening up the drop ceiling, but I gotta say I miss the knotty pine. If this were my house I'd try to find a way to stick with it in a fun way. And to be fair, the updated decor is simply not my style and that's a personal thing, but I kind of agree that although the house is now "beautiful" it's not interesting anymore.


Before & After: A 100-Year-Old Farmhouse Freshens Up The Sweeten
2/27/13 1:51 PM

One thing to note about #5, it's kind of on the small side. I think I thought I'd put a lamp on it or something but honestly it's so tiny I haven't even done anything with it yet, it's just been sitting in the corner all neglected.


On Display: Modern Magazine Racks
1/15/13 4:38 PM

It's like 90% me, and I'm just gonna go ahead and say that it's because I have better taste. If it were up to him everything would be steel, gray and navy blue. In all seriousness though, he doesn't look at blogs or magazines or books, he's just not that into it and doesn't have the reference point to imagine what my ideas will look like when executed (not that I always do either!). But luckily I've made enough good decisions over the years that he trusts me. And of course anything he hates can be undone.


Who Makes Decorating Decisions in Your Home?
11/8/12 12:25 PM

This thing is a pretty great solution to the "which sponge is for the dishes and which for the counter?" dilemma.

http://www.uncommongoods.com/product/spongester?source=blog


5 Low Tech Items for Everyday Problems
9/28/12 5:12 PM

Ugh, this is the story of my life and the reason why after 5 years my house still isn't anywhere near where I want it to be.

One thing that I always try to remind myself is that most things are not permanent, and your home is constantly evolving. Don't assume that rug will have to be in your living room for the next fifteen years, even if you LOVE it you might want to switch it out. I forget that there probably will never be that moment where you're straightening a framed picture and then step back and declare, "Done. FOREVER."


Analysis Paralysis: How To Go From Thinking to Doing
8/22/12 12:17 PM

It looks beautiful, but let's face it, most rooms are easy to lay out without a TV. The damn TV is the death of me, decoratingly speaking.


Living Room Layout Challenge, Revisted: A Before & After Based On Your Advice
8/15/12 12:14 PM

Love this topic, I struggle with it all the time. I think the issues of music and home design are two totally different circumstances with different causes behind the "ick" factor of popularity. I think with design it's more a factor of getting sick of looking at it, whereas with music I think the feeling is a little more intangible.

One thing I will say is that having grown up in an era where if you wanted to know about cool music, you had to know cool people or go to the record store and actually purchase things (that many times turned out to be crappy), I feel slightly cheated at the fact that the presence of the internet means it takes so little effort to be "cool" anymore. Music and design trends blow through like wildfire, and I sometimes feel like by the time I've heard of it, it's over already. It makes me feel so overwhelmed that I wind up just sticking with my old standbys because I'm too afraid to dip my toe into the culture.

I work at a company saturated with hipsters (although I hate the negative connotation of that term, probably because I remember when that was kind of a compliment). I do find that in my younger days, people who looked cool tended to BE cool (similar interests in music, books, movies, etc), whereas nowadays I constantly come across people who look the part, but if you actually talk to them you find that they're all fashion, no substance. I guess I just feel that if you're going to wear dark rimmed glasses and skinny jeans, you should at LEAST own a couple of Sonic Youth or Velvet Underground albums.


Design Hipsterism?
Why Do We Stop Liking What's Popular?

7/19/12 12:06 PM

I can corroborate two points: 1) The photos definitely don't do the house justice and 2) Jen and Mark are definitely fun neighbors to have :)

I was bummed there wasn't more photos of the kitchen, which is probably my favorite ever. Although I love the lime green, I couldn't bring myself to make that choice, which makes it the perfect hand-me-down from the previous owner.


Jen & Mark's Artfully Eclectic Rowhome
House Tour

2/22/12 1:37 PM

We caved and bought one when my mother-in-law gave us an Acer tablet for Christmas, so we decided to trade up in favor of the gold standard in tablets. In all honesty I don't use it for much, but it's amazing for blog surfing, so I think if I only ever use it for that it will still be worth it.

That being said, the biggest shortcoming is that it's not easy to share with people - my husband barely uses it because every time he tries to use any apps I'm already logged in.


Reader Survey: How Often Do You Use Your iPad?
2/13/12 10:06 PM

This is constantly an issue for me. I find it helps to break projects down into minuscule tasks. Instead of thinking of painting the room in terms of 1) prime 2) paint, it's more like 1) dust the walls 2) wash the walls 3) patch holes 4) sand patches etc. etc. This way I can set myself up to feel good after each step.


Wise Ways: Tips for Maintaining Patience During DIY Home Projects
2/2/12 6:31 PM

Wow, this is so exciting!! I can't wait to really dive in. And as someone who works on the technical side of an ecommerce brand, I fully empathize with a huge change like this one. Kudos!!


Welcome to Apartment Therapy 3.0!
1/9/12 2:21 PM

Wowwwww!! So beautiful. Although I would imagine that place must be splinter city for the little one.


Nancy, Ethan, & Ohle's 1903 Cabin in the Country
House Tour

11/3/11 12:29 PM

I tend to agree that with 3000sf, there MUST be another place to put the litter box. That having been said, I love that they're keeping it real by leaving the litter box in the bathroom for the photo. Sometimes when I look at some of these house tours, I feel like there must be something wrong with me that I need my big tube TV to be the focal point of the living room, and that my cat needs a utilitarian plastic box in which to do her business.


Apartment Therapy New York | House Tour: Martha Jeff's Period Piece New York
9/16/09 1:15 PM

P.S. What's with all the hipster-bashing? It's ok to like things that might have been done before, people. I at least think this style is much more homey and attainable than some of the other $$$ and impersonal high designs featured on AT. I love that they acknowledge that their Eames rocker was a huge splurge.


Apartment Therapy DC | Shauna Stephen's Lively Loft House Tour
8/14/09 2:50 PM

I've seen their place on a bunch of other blogs, and it's still one of my favorite things ever. They actually work at my company but I've never spoken to them, and every time I see them around I feel like I'm celebrity-spotting.


Apartment Therapy DC | Shauna Stephen's Lively Loft House Tour
8/14/09 2:45 PM

We have a map mural in our guest room, but we totally picked the wrong yellow for the rest of the room - we wound up with a super bright sunflower-y yellow, but I can see now that we should have gone for the more muted tone.

FantasticMrFaux, I feel like blue on the other walls might be a little too much, since the majority of the map is blue. I like the idea of pulling out the smaller yellow highlights and using it for the other walls.


Apartment Therapy Los Angeles | Inspiration: Avocado Papaya's Map Room
5/6/09 5:04 PM

We have a few of those white square-ish plastic flip-top bins from Ikea, I think they're actually more for laundry, but we have 2 big ones (for trash and recycling) and one smaller one for dog food. They look very nice and neat all lined up in the kitchen, and were only about $15 each. I wish I could find the link, but they don't seem to be on the website.


Apartment Therapy San Francisco | Pet Food Storage Out in the Open
3/16/09 5:00 PM

Oh my goodness jmorey! I can't believe someone else in the world remembers "Santa Claus". I used to LOVE that movie and I haven't seen it in so long that I was beginning to think that I'd imagined it. My favorite was (I think it was theirs) Santa & Mrs. Claus' little sleeping cubby.

Home Alone is also a great one that still holds up. And I totally agree with Elf as having fabulous set design. I don't know how they managed to capture the set from Rudolph so well in a live-action movie, but it was pretty amazing.


Apartment Therapy Los Angeles | What's Your Favorite Holiday Movie Set?
12/8/08 12:45 PM