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Kimberly,

Not at all over-the-top.

Firstly, you make my point exactly. The party decor was for the adults, in the same way a nursery is decorated primarily for the mother who will spend the first year using it, much to the oblivious disinterest of her infant. So the need for commenting on the "bored" look on the baby's face serves no purpose outside of snark.

Secondly, I thought very carefully about what I wanted to say. I wish others would do the same. This is an ongoing torrent on AT, and many of us are fed up. It makes this a hostile community for sharing ideas.

If you disagree, I can completely respect that. But I find myself becoming less and less inclined to even look at the comments on these posts...something I used to do because readers were asking for sources or providing constructive suggestions I felt added to the article or post.

The irony here is that you believe I should settle down, but those making nasty comments about a baby's birthday party are cool. And therein lies the problem, I suppose.


Best Kids' Parties: Lucha Libre My Party
5/2/12 1:39 PM

The snarky comments best kept to one's self never fail to gross me out. "Bored look on birthday boy's face" and "lost on your son"??? REALLY??? What exactly do you believe that adds to the dialogue? It's a one-year-old birthday party. Should he be totally into ANY theme??? This is a decorating website. So the intention is to take a look at the DECOR. With your mean-spirited comments you are...helping? Suggesting? Asking? No, you're just being a-holes because you can do it on the internet in a way you would never do it if this were one of your friends' parties.

Someone...a real person, not an editor at Martha Stewart Living...labored over this party for their real-life, actual son. So if you don't like it, do what you would do in real life. Offer a constructive suggestion, or keep it to yourself and keep it moving. Grow up and get a life.

So, so gross. This pervades AT and really ruins the site. I remember when the AT community REAMED a woman for her laundry room turned nursery. Every post on here seems to provide an opportunity for attack. "It's unsafe!" "It's not environmentally responsible!" "It's ugly!"

If you wouldn't voice it in person, don't voice it on here, please!


Best Kids' Parties: Lucha Libre My Party
5/2/12 1:19 PM

Seriously???? I have been an environmentalist for almost twenty years, and I am mother to a sixteen year old boy, and both of the previous posts are jaw-droppingly silly.

Great job on the party!!!


Best Kids Parties: Balloons
My Party

2/7/12 3:14 PM

I take my shoes off at the door, and harass my son and husband to do the same, but I find it gauche to ask guests to do so. Not wearing shoes in the house on a regular basis does keep the floors cleaner longer...but asking my guests to feel uncomfortable in order to limit my housekeeping duties just seems rude. If I throw a party, I expect clean-up afterwards that includes a sweep and mop. I like to have my fabulous friends over for a fabulous time, and that is worth more to me than the extra hour of housework.


Etiquette at Home: Solutions to The Great Shoe Debate
10/20/11 11:54 PM

I love this bathroom. I would just add whatever masculine touches or color and pattern with your bathroom accessories. I would be sad to see this gem of a vintage bathroom go...


Paint Color for Bathroom in the Meantime?
Good Questions

10/12/11 10:41 AM

Tampa Bay but not Miami???? Very odd.


The Daily Scavenger: Southern Edition
10/11/11 12:51 PM

I balked at the prices, too...but the poibt stands. Homegoods actually had some great wire framed ones...similar to photo #1 though not as nice. Check it out!


Laundry Day Helpers: Stylish Hampers & Carts
10/7/11 12:52 AM

Love all four. Absolutely gorgeous, and they all illustrate your point well in their own way. Thanks for sharing!


Merging Various Styles in One Space
9/20/11 11:13 AM

Is it some type of special fun that I'm just missing to trade rude barbs over the internet in a way that I doubt (hope) you wouldn't in person with strangers about asinine things?Does anyone care that much about the practicality of soaking old markers? It's just a cool fun little idea...skip it if you think it isn't cool, do it if you do, or like most of us, take a look, have a smile, and keep it moving.


What To Do With Your Old, Dried Out Markers
Artopotamus

6/27/11 12:15 AM

I prefer hard copies. I read the online shelter magazines because of the aforementioned void left by Domino. In addition, I buy House Beautiful or House and Home or whatever has a spread I am liking at the news stand. The second something as awesome as Domino comes back on the market, I will subscribe happily. There is nothing like being able to really scrutinize a photo, hold it in your hand. It's tactile...


How the Online Shelter Mag Industry Exploded
The New York Times

6/2/11 2:29 PM

Hurray! Though I love high-end stainless as much as the next girl (restaurant quality), I am not a huge fan of the stainless with black appliances that were everywhere...a nice fridge was possible without black, but the stove and microwaves had a LOT of black, and my white cabinets, wood counters and travertine floors weren't loving it.

I just bought a house and chose white with chrome accents, much like those shown here, but less expensive...to the HORROR of my friends and family, who were sure it was a bad move for resale. But I don't want to redo a dated kitchen in 5 years, so I went classic...

So happy with it. Thanks for the photos...


Beyond Stainless Steel: White Kitchen Appliances
5/31/11 5:02 PM

Love this! I am thinking about these for my wedding...so much classier than cotton candy, and so much fresher than cake.

Has anyone taken a bite of one of these? Is it ok, or impossible?


Party Trick: Homemade Cotton Candy Without a Machine
5/31/11 3:01 PM

Tubs stay! And I LOVE a bidet...


Once Standard Bathroom Fixtures We've Left Behind
5/25/11 6:24 PM

One more thing...

STOP WITH THE SAFETY CONCERN AS EXCUSE FOR BEING NASTY.

You know what? You don't know these people, or this child. Are you really concerned? Really?

I didn't even see the post. But the constant refrain on this site is "safety"...and I'm fine with real, true concern, but often I find it's just an excuse to be critical.

Truth is, if those parents spend the night in the emergency room getting the child's stomach pumped, I doubt any of those of you who justify ugliness with "concern" will stay up all night worried about it.

So stop. Pay attention to your own families. here's an idea...spend less time criticizing people online, and more time supporting and encouraging your own kids.

Eyes on your own paper, people!


4 Questions To Ask Yourself Before Leaving a Jerky Comment
Etiquette, Manners and Just Being a Good Person

5/18/11 5:42 PM

Rebecca_South...really?????

Wow. talk about missing the point.


4 Questions To Ask Yourself Before Leaving a Jerky Comment
Etiquette, Manners and Just Being a Good Person

5/18/11 5:34 PM

The sad thing is, event to this post some can't help but be sanctimonious and snarky...

The internet doesn't create rude people...it just gives them a forum they don;t have in everyday life to let it out without repercussion. There is no way around it, so i'm learning to simply not read the comments.

Thanks for posting this, though. Keep up the good work.


4 Questions To Ask Yourself Before Leaving a Jerky Comment
Etiquette, Manners and Just Being a Good Person

5/18/11 5:33 PM

I have to say...and I'm sorry to harp on this...that I can only hope AT Readers don't represent the whole population. What is wrong with live and let live? Why is there so much emphatic judgement?

Both have their charms. I love old houses, my boyfriend needed something new and "clean" and we bought a house built in 2006.

Guess what? We've had nothing but problems due to shoddy workmanship that I have NEVER experienced in all my older places.

It's nice that it actually looks clean when I clean it instead of a little broken down, but I do miss the character. But I've had a mouse, and it's really no big deal. Ditto a spider here or there.

What really creeps me out is all the germ talk. "Oh NO...disease! Germs!" as if human beings haven't had spiders or mice to deal with for centuries. This is NYC...the Waldorf Astoria had bedbugs! No one DIED, people. No one gets SICK from a couple of black ants who take a shine to your ripe bananas!

Are we so brainwashed by hand sanitizing commercials that we've forgotten what's really important...to be happy in YOUR life, YOUR way?


Comfort or Looks?
5/13/11 2:29 PM

Thanks for that!


Modernist Muse: Eugenia Errazuriz
Retrospect

5/5/11 3:19 PM

Love, love, love, love, love.

(Nice job, BethAM!)


Subway Tile In The Bathroom
5/5/11 10:49 AM

I keep saying it, but when will I learn. I MUST STOP reading the comments on these AT posts.

People get off on being "snarky" (read : nasty) on the internet. It's just not fun anymore.

I don't even care at this point about the cookbook review. The Mean Girls tendencies are just too numerous.

Enjoy, folks. I'm out.


Why You Should Give Gwyneth Paltrow's Cookbook a Chance
5/5/11 2:11 AM