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YES, YES, YES! to all of this. I grew up in NE and we had a huge cedar closet in the attic where we packed all of our woolens and winter cothes for the summer, and put our summer dresses for the winter. When I was in my 20's, I moved a lot and never really settled in to a "home", so I got out of the habit. This also happened to be the time when my wardrobe was the most disorganized and least useful to me. Now that I have settled in to a home, I have started packing away seasonal clothing again, and it delights me to no end. I love the ritual of it. I love that I get to clear out the closet a few times a year and give it a deep cleaning. I love that I get to reassess often and therefore my wardrobe is the smallest and the most useful it's ever been. And I love that every time I open up the trunks of seasonal clothing, everything old feels new and exciting again.


Unexpected Benefits of Packing Away Clothes Seasonally
3/11/13 5:23 PM

I think this is true for me. Not that I know exactly how long it takes for me to make a place a home (much less a good home), but whenever I look at AT house tours where people have only been in their homes for 6 months, 2 years, even 3 years, and the place looks so "done", I am a little baffled. I have been in my home nearly 6 years and it is just now starting to feel close to what I want it to be. The "to-do" list is still long and big projects are looming (hello, ugly bathroom!) but certain things have become clearer the longer I live here - colors, furniture placement, and how the spaces are used to best advantage, for example. I have always thought that I was a slow decision maker and had finally made peace with that, but I see that that may be more of the norm than the "DECORATE-THIS-HOUSE-IN-THREE-DAYS!!!" method that seems increasingly common (probably due to HGTV's influence).


Does It Really Take Seven Years to Make a Good Home? Good Questions
2/22/13 3:22 PM

@milo.delara - Hear! Hear! I am still wanting to know what that countertop material is. Materials and source lists should be a given, IMO.


Before & After: World's Ugliest Condo Bathroom
2/21/13 5:50 PM

@urbandcricket - I have had this issue, too. I think to really fall in love with a piece of art, I need to actually be in it's presence. Of the several piece I have purchased online, only one has turned out to be a real keeper and deeply satisfying, and that one I bought directly from the artist's site. I have since decided that I will only buy in person, which means several of my walls will be blank for a while until I encounter "The One".


13 Online Sources for Affordable Art
2/21/13 5:48 PM

Much nicer! Can you tell me about the countertop on the vanity? Is it marble or some marble look-a-like solid surface?


Before & After: World's Ugliest Condo Bathroom
2/18/13 4:09 PM

I painted my living room a luscious peacock hue this past summer and it looks fantastic. It elevated all my furniture and accoutrements to a whole new level of "stylish" without being stuffy. It's such a fun color!


Color Trend: Peacock Makes a Comeback
1/23/13 8:16 PM

@Griffin - Yup! Go for it! I make pestos all the time with whatever greens looks best in the garden at any given time of the year. Mustards, parsley, kale, arugula, cilantro...and then whatever nuts I have on hand - arugula-hazelnut is a favorite. I've made one with mustard greens and cashews using sesame oil (omitting the cheese) which was awesome.

Thanks for this post! I think I will be making a winter greens pesto for my Friday night pizza tomorrow - topped with shrimp and maybe ricotta.


Recipe: Winter Greens Pesto Recipes from The Kitchn
1/17/13 3:37 PM

Sweet. I've pretty much done this already! When I moved in to my house in 2007, I purged books like mad. I had amassed quite a collection, and hauling them around for several moves, really helped me look at them with a cold eye. Then, when I discovered that the library was now two blocks away, it was an easy choice to get rid of the vast majority of them. I brought the there (though I sold some of the really nice ones) and now I check out books regularly. What's left in my house are two small shelves of books (novels, memoirs, poetry) that I kept for grab-n-read needs. I do still have a barrister bookcase full of plant/garden design books for my business and I will be weeding that out today. But no CDs or DVDs, and few magazines.


Day 12: Declutter Books & Media Apartment Therapy January Cure
1/17/13 1:39 PM

Ugh. I LOATHE dishracks. Awful, ugly, hulking, clutter-gathering space hogs. For years, I just put a cloth down to set any drying dishes on, but that was not so good on my butcher block counters. So, I finally settled on a cookie sheet topped with a dish cloth and then a cooling rack that fits perfectly in the sheet. I change out the cloth regularly so it never ooks grungy. This solution is nice and low-profile.

I do think I need to get a boot try...


Thoughtful Shopping: Small Ticket Items Worth Splurging On
1/17/13 1:09 PM

Oh, I see that they are custom made...still, I wonder if you could list the fabric name?


Irene's Bright and Happy Home Office Workspace Tour
1/16/13 10:26 PM

Can anyone tell me where to find those curtains? Or the fabric to make them?


Irene's Bright and Happy Home Office Workspace Tour
1/16/13 10:25 PM

I cannot be the only one who is completely "over" gallery walls...


Re-Thinking the Gallery Wall:
10 Funky New Ideas

1/15/13 12:55 PM

Thank you! I am OB-sessed with leafy greens. I cannot eat enough and I am always looking for ways to incorporate them into every meal. This morning's breakfast was a kale and parsnip fritatta with a radicchio, orange and golden beet side salad. Breakfast salads have been on heavy rotation around here.

Can't wait to try some of these recipes.


15 Ways to Eat Your Greens in the Winter Recipe Collections from The Kitchn
1/14/13 7:31 PM

All this talk of "nail holes" is making me extra appreciative of the picture railing throughout my house. I can move hanging art on a whim and keep moving it until it's juuussssttt right. It has definitely helped me try combinations and locations that I might not have had the guts to select.

Now, regarding risk-taking: when I bought my house nearly 7 years ago, I was so exhausted with the process of house hunting, then the buying cycle, then remodelin my kitchen, that when it came time to select colors and details, I went very simple and safe, aka boring. But it worked and I lived with it. Then, this past summer, I made a conscious decision to make no more "safe" interior design choices in my home. I wanted to live in a space that felt authentic and unique and made people say "Huh. I never would have thought of that". It's not totally there yet, of course, but this way have thinking has really energized my interior. We remodeled the living and dining room this summer, and one of the projects was doing something about the fireplace surround. Instead of doing a traditional mantel, we carved out three arched niches. It turned out great! We also added lots more color, too. It has been so fun to have FUN with our space!


Go Ahead and Make a Mistake:
Approaching Design without Fear

1/12/13 6:58 PM

I just remembered another tip I saw recently for inexpensive art: Staples does "engineer" prints, the largest being 3' X 4' for $4.99. I saw it on Pinterest and here is the link: http://www.infarrantlycreative.net/2012/03/shaped-frame-family-photo.html


Day 6: Choose a Piece of Artwork & Get Going on Framing It Apartment Therapy January Cure
1/9/13 10:25 PM

My response: YES! and OY! I must be the most particular person ever. I want more art in my home desperately, but it take me EONS to ind something a like. Yes, EONS. Life in the tortoise lane over here...

But, I just remembered a flash of an idea I had: the original blueprints of my house! They are tattered and torn, but so cool. Maybe those mounted on a white background...they would be unique and meaningful, for sure. I also have a triptych of square silvered frames that I love and may put photos of us in them.

@PGF Maybe a gentle shot of compressed air across the surface?


Day 6: Choose a Piece of Artwork & Get Going on Framing It Apartment Therapy January Cure
1/9/13 2:34 PM

Holy moly, this was hard for me. I have been hemming and hawing all day about what to choose. There is so much that I want to do! But, at last, my gut says to re-upholster the dining room chairs. I have the roll of fabric sitting there and I think this will do a lot to spruce up the room. We did a major remodel on the living and dining rooms this summer (they are connected) and while the living room has been carefully and thoughtfully put together, the dining room still feels unfinished. The table and chairs are in place and the buffet is there, and one piece of art, but otherwise it just feels kind of...bare. It's a tiny space (8' X 12') so I really need to think long and hard about what objects go in there. So, it seems like the chair seats are a good start - right now they are an ancient brown pleather, cracked and nasty. I bought a roll of fabric with a colorful, mod-ish pattern on it with fun colors. Once those are in, I think I will have an easier time deciding on a floor covering, possible window coverings, a light fixture, artwork and a "feature wall" that I have been dreaming up. Having never upholstered anything before, I am a little dubious, but it's only the seats, which can be removed. Then it is just a matter of adding new padding, cutting the fabric and stapling it in place, right? How hard can it be? <<famous last words! ;~D


Day 5: Select One Project from Your List to Complete this Month Apartment Therapy January Cure
1/8/13 11:16 PM

I once moved into a very similar space with red walls as well. It just breaks up the space, in my opinion, so I painted the walls and ceiling Benjamin Moore's Pale Almond and the trim Linen White. It looked so much better! Lighter, brighter, airier - just a lot more cohesive. Give it a try. I doubt you will be disappointed! Those gorgeous floors will look even more gorgeous without the red competition. (Don't get me wrong - I actually like red rooms. Just not like this, where the color accents the shortness of the knee walls)


Should I Repaint the Red Walls in Loft-Style Living Room? Good Questions
1/3/13 10:59 PM

As someone who has had people look at the "before" pictures of my kitchen and say "Oh my gosh, it was so cute! Why did you change it?", I am chuckling over here. Yes, there are elements of the "before" that I actually like, namely, the copper and silver backsplash - I would have tried to recreate that in some way with new ceramic tile. Could be really cool! However, I KNOW what old, worn-out kitchens are like and how they can just be disgusting and nonfunctional when you are living with them. There are things that you cannot see in a picture: the faded spots on Formica, the dirty corners that stay dirty no matter how much you clean, terrible and torn linoleum underfoot, the dents and dings that are not charming, just sad. So, while I find the "after" terribly bland, I would never say that the "before" is better. And it has nothing to do with "pops of color" for me. (@granola suicide - I have been hating on that phrase of late, as well) I would just like something with a little more character, something unique, some texture, maybe with a smashing light fixture instead of the staid schoolhouse light. Luckily, some of these things can be added over time. I am sure it is a wonderful kitchen to work in.


Before & After: West Village Kitchen Goes from Ick to Slick
12/11/12 4:46 PM

Yeah, come to think of it, I cry in the car and shower - both feel private and safe. Interesting.


City Stress: Crying in the Car
11/2/12 4:07 PM