Tess of Myrna May's Profile

Display Name: Tess of Myrna May
Member Since: 8/13/10

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@betweenbars & @shiverness- yes, I meant organize them by the actual size of the clothing, not the numeric size. The numeric sizes (as well as the S/M/L designation) of the clothes that fit me vary wildly. Mr. Gaiman might not have this problem because I think men's sizes tend to be a bit more true- but it's still an imperfect system!


Would You Organize Your Closet By Size?
6/11/13 10:51 AM

@Leigh_7, what a brilliant idea!


A Crazy-Sounding Trick for Surviving a Move
6/6/13 3:04 PM

A caftan is always the answer!!!


A Sudden Lack Of Privacy: How Do You Handle It?
5/31/13 9:41 AM

EXACTLY. And Rory was only referred to as Lorelai on her first day at Chilton, first day at Yale, and maybe one other time. Though it would be quite fun to write a piece about the whole family and refer to the three of them indiscriminately as "Lorelai". Did Alexis Bledel shoplift on the occasion of her first kiss, or did Mrs. Cunningham?

And in response to everyone- thank you for your thoughtful contributions!


Moving In Together: What Do You Do With The Ex-Boyfriend/Girlfriend Box?
5/21/13 5:46 PM

Thanks for clarifying, Kelly! I was able to attend this particular event because Kelly had contacted my friend/boss about us hosting an evening at CPS in the near future. So though neither of us had met out hosts, there was a connection. It was so fun to hear how all of the guests were connected to the hosts & each other. Some had been attending for years, while others had heard their friends talk about CPS for years and finally had a chance to attend. Thanks again!


Would You Host Salons In Your Home?
5/10/13 11:21 AM

Oops! I forgot to mention that I'm considering moving all of my stuff via Amtrak: you can ship boxes or pallets, at a flat rate of 49ยข/lb. It would be soooooooo much cheaper than renting a truck, but I'm still weighing all my options.


Stocking Up Before Moving: Perverse or Perfectly Sensible?
5/8/13 12:14 PM

Thanks for the well-wishes! I have spent some serious time in rural Illinois (where I'm headed) antique malls, and they are AMAZING, with crazy-low prices. On visits I've hit two small-town/country thrift stores, and while I did score the fixings for a 6-year old's Frankenstein costume and a $1 80's bikini for myself, there wasn't anything actually wearable. But there's a college town 45 minutes away and I'm super-excited to check out the Goodwill!


Stocking Up Before Moving: Perverse or Perfectly Sensible?
5/7/13 8:53 PM

Hi everyone! Please note: I didn't say anything against comfy, cotton, or cheap undies. I am in favor of all of those things- and conveniently, comfy, cotton, cheap undies are often the cutest things ever. I wrote about getting rid of things that are worn-out, saggy, raggedy, stained, old, or generally ratty. Thanks!
-Tess


Moving In Together Means Getting Rid of All the Ratty Old Granny Panties
5/6/13 12:06 PM

Here's what work-wife means to me: a coworker (of either gender, mine have just all been women) who gets you, completes you, finishes your thoughts and sentences, someone who knows your strengths and weaknesses and triggers and quirks. Someone who, when you work together, allows the two of you to be as efficient & effective as 3 or more people. Someone who makes going to work as exciting and inviting as going home, and makes the work that you do feel even more important and satisfying than it already is. I have been lucky enough to have had a few wonderful work-wives over the years (Emily & Mary, Cheri, Crystal, Leah..), and I hope I've been a decent work-wife in return.


Spending Every Minute Together?
Lean Into It

4/25/13 1:14 PM

Such a sweet story! I have had similar situations with friends pre- and post-move, and I loved that saturated together-time.


Spending Every Minute Together?
Lean Into It

4/25/13 12:23 PM

For real?! I think I've only heard it said, like, twice- Aziz Ansari said it on Parks & Recreation the other night...and I can't think of the other time. Ah, well.


Spending Every Minute Together?
Lean Into It

4/25/13 11:00 AM

@Parnassus- Outlets every two feet IS excessive, but I must admit I'm still impressed whenever a room has more than one set of outlets (our house had one set per room). I can plug things in here OR there?!?


Old House Habits Die Hard
4/22/13 10:54 AM

@missdashwood- right nearby! My partner is a great admirer of Nachusa! I can't wait to see it.


Moving Into A New Home, Sight-Unseen:
Have You? Would You?

4/20/13 10:39 AM

Ha! About 2 hours after I wrote this I was on a bike ride and thought to myself, "I've read a lot of children's books, and I don't think any of them contained the word 'clitoral'- huh!".


Love In The Wild: Gwenn Semeel's Crimes Against Nature
4/17/13 12:27 AM

Nope, I'm headed to 2,000 acres of honest-to-goodness original & restored prairie land...surrounded by infinite cornfields, of course. But more on that soon! xo


Where-To-Live Quizzes: Have You Taken One? Did You Follow Its Advice?
4/9/13 3:13 PM

I'm giving it up because I'm moving across the country- forgot to mention that! And I live in the Mission.


The Heartbreak of Giving Up a Rent-Controlled Apartment
3/25/13 11:33 AM

Thanks for the information, @jenn | riotise- I actually think that Fishnet paper functions best as wallpaper out of all of them!


Erotic Wallpaper: Would You?
2/4/13 9:52 PM

@marfa, you are correct about Manhattan (I read that article, too) but New York's other boroughs raise the city's average to above San Francisco's. Thanks!


San Francisco: Most Restaurants, Most Hills, But Least Kids
1/30/13 5:45 PM

@trissi & @LaureltQ- so sweet and touching!!


Styles Of Giving: The Practical Gift
12/19/12 1:18 PM

The endless stream of mail that can result from a charitable donation is a real issue. I get about one packed envelope per day from various organizations I've given to in the past- I guess in my eagerness to help, I failed to uncheck a box? It's annoying to think of all the labor & paper that is being wasted, but it would be especially annoying if that waste occurred as the result of a gift. If anyone has any great tips for avoiding getting donation solicitations for the rest of our lives, please share!!


Styles Of Giving: The Charitable Donation
12/19/12 1:17 PM