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Long before Skype or even email, when even making a long-distance phone call was prohibitively expensive, my dad was stationed overseas for months at a time with three little kids at home who couldn't even remember him sometimes. He taped himself reading bedtime stories, he wrote actual letters, and he sent little gifts back for us. It was still hard for all of us, but we managed. The tangible things are also far more memorable for small children than a phone call - though I'm sure I talked to my dad occasionally, I have no memory of it, while the letters and treasures he sent are still loaded with memories and among my most cherished possessions.

These days I always pack an envelope filled with photos and postcards to display once I move in to my new place. It's so easy to feel immediately disconnected from everything in your life before you international move. Having some sentimental items, especially small, lightweight ones, always makes me feel at home and comfortable right from the beginning.

As far as practical items, I bring a duvet cover and a pillow case whenever I move abroad. They don't take up much space, and you can use them for anything - blanket, tablecloth, towel, sleep sack, pillow. Then when you are a little more settled, you have another little something from home (or in my case, homes) to make the new stuff feel less new.