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Display Name: Octavia82
Member Since: 2/14/10

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I'm going to be petty here -- those see-through panels are sheers, not shears. Shears are a type of scissor, not a type of curtain.

Okay, I feel better now.

My biggest problem with store-bought curtains is that all the windows in my house are oddly sized so I would have to alter them anyway. Much easier just to make my own from scratch, though I've never found it to be as quick and simple as it seems like it should be...but I think that's just me.


5 Sources for Affordable Patterned Curtains
4/9/13 7:48 PM

We don't have a great system. I do about 90% of the laundry, and my hubby will do a load now and then. However, to him the job stops when he takes the clothes out of the dryer, and he will let a basket of clean clothes sit unfolded got weeks unless I initiate the folding process. Drives me crazy. I generally wash sheets, towels, and undies on one of the weekend days. Tee shirts and socks get washed when we have enough for a load. It squicks my hubby out to have undies and socks in the same load, and even though I never thought about it before he brought it up, now I kind of feel the same way. Pants get washed more infrequently -- we tend to re-wear them a few times so end up with a pants load once every few weeks. Delicates and sweaters get their own load and get divided into lights and darks, and very special items like cashmere get hand-washed once in a blue moon. I get annoyed when I have things that don't fit in with any of these categories -- for instance, I can't bring myself to wash household things like napkins, placemats, dishcloths, cleaning cloths, etc with a load containing either socks or underwear, and these things take a long time to accumulate in big enough quantities to justify a load. Overall, we really don't have THAT much laundry, but it still feels like it's never done...


Tell Us: The Laundry Nitty Gritty
4/8/13 1:02 PM

This is my nightmare. The worst place I ever lived was in a downtown high rise -- it was a nice enough building but I HATED knowing that there were always people above me, below me, to the sides, etc. It was like the weight of all those people just pushed down on my psyche and made me so unhappy. I have also lived in a couple low- and mid-rises that were tolerable, but when it came to buying a home there was no question that it had to be a single-family (I couldn't even bring myself to consider townhomes/duplexes). But, I grew up in the country where our closest -- and only -- neighbor was about 1/4 mile away, and while I objectively understand the need for density in cities, I just can't wrap my head around actually living in it. You could not possibly pay me enough to live in a place like what's pictured, I'd flee off the grid entirely and find a nice cave where I'd rub sticks together to create fire on which to cook foraged grubs.


Michael Wolf's Architecture Of Density:
Would You Live Here?

4/5/13 4:28 PM

Another Seattle transplant here, and my experience is that I've met a couple good friends through my husband's job (he has lots of co-workers while I have virtually none in SEA (my boss is here but my other colleagues are scattered throughout the country). Not so many through my volunteer work or activities, though. I guess i just need to be more proactive about getting together with those people outside of the organized events, but it's hard. What I'd really like is to make a friend or two in my neighborhood, but that is the hardest of all, it seems -- I was hoping to at least chat with some people on the bus, but nobody ever looks up from their smartphones and it feels so intrusive to try to start a conversation! It's a very quiet neighborhood and everyone seems to have either lived here for 60 years or is totally wrapped up in kid-stuff, but I can't shake the feeling that there must be a few people around who want to do Couch To 5k together, or have a book club, or SOMETHING. I just need to figure out how to find them...Anyway, I'm in for AT meetups, hangouts, whatever...as dearly as I love my hubby and the people he has introduced me to, I do need a bigger circle of friends here.


10 Tried & True Tips: How to Make New Friends in a New City
4/4/13 5:37 PM

In my younger and financially strapped days, I never would have seen most of my friends if we didn't host one another. Just the cost of transportation and a few activities throughout the visit was about all any of us could afford. Now, I live a 3-5 hour flight from any of them instead of a 2-3 hour drive, and even though I have the money to travel and stay in a hotel, I don't have the time. My precious few vacation days are entirely swallowed up by visits to my parents and my in-laws (also long flights away). And we finally have a guest room that goes sadly unused because nobody else has enough time to trek out here, either. I long for the days of crashing on blowup mattresses in someone's living room or having a friend use my pullout couch for a few days. It makes sense not to want to host all the guests, all the time...but sometimes avoiding the temporary inconvenience comes at a price you may not recognize until much later.


Overnight Guests: Can You Just Say No? Reading My Tea Leaves
4/3/13 4:32 PM

Where was this post a couple years ago when I was moving here? That said, I'm not sure I agree with the way you've grouped the neighborhoods. I'd put Lower Queen Anne, Belltown, and Downtown in one group (historic buildings and newer mid-rises with mid-to-upper range prices), Upper Queen Anne and Magnolia together (more single-family homes, townhomes, duplexes, and more necessary to have a car), Capitol Hill and First Hill ("Pill Hill") in a separate category from Madison Park/Madison Valley and Madrona (your descriptions were accurate, IMO, but it doesn't make sense to me to group these areas together unless you're going purely by geographical proximity), and I guess Pioneer Square, the ID/SODO, and the Central District in another group (although the vibes of those areas are all quite different).

I would also add South Lake Union (Amazon Country -- sleek and expensive new condos and rentals, some great new restaurants, ongoing development), Eastlake (along the east side of Lake Union between downtown and the University District, mainly newish midrise apartments and condos and some houseboats, some nice views but right along I-5), and South Seattle, particularly Columbia City ("up-and-coming" and therefore less expensive, lots of townhomes, access to the light rail line into downtown).

Seattle is really more of a collection of neighborhoods all strung together than a cohesive city, so picking the right neighborhood is crucial. It's not super easy to get from one neighborhood to another thanks to traffic, drawbridges, lakes, the Mercer Mess... If you don't like your neighborhood you probably won't be very happy here. I had no choice but to find an apartment long-distance and move sight unseen and I spent the next year wishing I had just spent the money to get a hotel or short-term rental for a couple weeks and done my apartment-hunting when I was actually here.


A Renter's Life in Seattle: The Inside Scoop Apartment Therapy's Renters Guide
3/19/13 3:09 PM

My family makes maple syrup, so I grew up eating the stuff that was less sellable. Consequently, the stronger the flavor, the better in my opinion! Interestingly, my family has been making a lot more syrup that grades as fancy in the past few years, apparently because they switched from old-fashioned collection buckets on the taps to lines that feed into a centralized collection tank. The old way allowed a lot of debris and bacteria to get into the sap (it's harmless because it all gets filtered out or killed in the boiling process) while the lines keep the sap very clean. Cleaner sap = lighter colored syrup. Even the stuff that has Grade B flavor is nowhere near as dark as it was when I was a kid. So you can't necessarily judge a syrup by it's color...


Maple Syrup Grades: When Does It Matter?
3/11/13 6:03 PM

I'm in Seattle, another "kid-sparse" city, but I live in a neighborhood known for being family-friendly. It's actually very suburban, despite being in the city. But on the whole, I really don't notice kids being around much -- you'd think there would at least be some in the grocery store or places like that, but it's rare. Maybe one parent takes care of the kids while the other runs errands? Who knows. I don't have kids yet, though, and I'm wondering if I might just have blinders on and will start noticing kids out and about once I have my own.


San Francisco: Most Restaurants, Most Hills, But Least Kids
1/30/13 4:17 PM

I've got the Shark pictured here, and it works great. My only complaint is that it's really loud. If anyone decides to get this vac, be aware that they have a 15 volt model and an 18 volt model that look almost identical, so make sure you double-check which one you're getting -- I highly recommend going for the 18v.


5 Handheld Vacuums for Mini Messes
1/25/13 1:11 PM

There are CFLs that are meant for use with dimmer switches, but they are expensive. I have one lamp with this type of bulb and I think the single bulb was about $10 at Lowe's. Fortunately, it does seem to work just fine. I have about six other fixtures in my house with dimmer switches and am planning to wait until the current incandescents die before putting in dimmable CFLs.


4 Practical Places in Every Home That Need Great Lighting
1/17/13 3:39 PM

I'm another Seattleite and I'd say it depends. It can be a hard town to get around in without a car -- did that for 8 months while living in a "walkable" neighborhood and still thought it was kind of a pain. I now live in a neighborhood that is really nice but sort of out of the way, so there isn't a lot of bus service there. Commuting to work is great, I live 2 blocks from the bus stop and work downtown so it is a straight shot and takes 20-30 minutes depending on traffic. However, getting to pretty much any other part of town by bus takes forever and requires multiple transfers, so I just drive. It works out, but I do miss living in a truly walkable city -- that is my preference over both driving and transit!


Driving VS Public Transit: What's Your Preference?
1/15/13 8:14 PM

I really like Ellie Krieger's energy bars for a quick breakfast or snack. The recipe is at http://www.foodnetwork.com/recipes/ellie-krieger/energy-bars-recipe/index.html. There are a lot of ingredients, but they're really easy to whip up and they freeze well. They're much better than the prepackaged ones you can buy in stores!


Quick, Healthy Recipes to Fuel Studying for College Finals?
Good Questions

12/7/11 3:14 PM

We tried to keep the cat out of the bedroom, but he had other ideas. After many nights of no sleep, we gave in. Now, he usually sleeps at the foot of the bed and then crawls up for an early morning snuggle before I get up, but sometimes he decides not to come in at all. But heaven forbid we shut him out...


Furry Bedfellows: Do You Sleep with Your Pet?
NY Times

2/19/11 9:10 PM

I think of a casserole as a combination of a starch (pasta, rice, bread, etc) and vegetables with a thickened liquid as a binder, all mixed up and baked in the oven. For breakfast casseroles, leave out the veggies (or sub in fruits) but it's pretty much the same definition.


What Is a Casserole Anyway? How Do You Define It?
1/26/11 6:25 PM

I love my cookbooks, but recipes that merit "make-again" status get transferred into my Mealboard app. It's so much more convenient to have the recipe handy if I decide at the last minute to make something, and my iPhone also takes up a lot less space in my tiny kitchen. I'd never give up the actual books, especially the really beautiful and/or informative ones (and I do add to the collection from time to time), but I go for practicality on a day-to-day basis.


What To Do With a Big, Pretty, Expensive Cookbook
1/26/11 1:08 PM

1) Meatless lasagne with spinach, tomato sauce, and a ricotta-bechamel mixture.

2) Upscale chicken divan (my parents make it with goopy canned cream soups and mayo, but I prefer homemade sauces).

3) Brown rice with lots of veggies and sometimes chicken chunks in a mornay sauce.

I'm so happy about the revival of the casserole...I'm not fond of the ones with lots of processed junk in them, but there's something so wonderfully comforting about a really good, homemade casserole.


Best Served Hot: What is Your Favorite Casserole?
1/24/11 9:00 PM

Another freezer bag fan here...although I've taken to using regular zip-top sandwich bags and just making sure the air is really well squeezed out. It's much cheaper, and since I tend to eat my soups and chilis for lunch within a couple weeks, they almost never get freezer-burned even in the thinner bags.


The Best Way to Freeze Single Servings of Soup
1/6/11 4:30 PM

I'm incapable of using one of these without sending waves of hot soup everywhere. No matter how hard I try, the only thing an immersion blender is good for in my hands is creating a giant mess. My parents own one but I have no desire to get one for my place (and my hubby would flip if I came home with one more kitchen appliance). Maybe I'll re-think when we have more space, but it's low on my priority list.


Immersion Blenders: Should You Buy One?
1/6/11 9:25 AM

If you intend to mix a lot of bread dough in your stand mixer, DO NOT get the tilt-head kind (i.e. the KA Artisan). Because the dough is heavy and not evenly distributed in the bowl, the mixer head will bump up and down when the bread kneads, causing the screw in the head to come loose. While the screw is easy to tighten again, it entails constantly flipping the machine over, and the screw will eventually get stripped. Bread bakers should choose the fixed-head type, where the bowl lifts up.

Even so, I do love my KA...I just might have to trade up to a better model someday.


5 Questions To Ask Yourself Before Buying a KitchenAid (Or Any Stand Mixer)
12/14/10 2:19 PM

My husband and I just bought a memory foam mattress from Essentia. The company claims that it's free of the chemicals that offgas from most mattresses (especially synthetic foams), and it's actually manufactured in North America! I've been sleeping amazingly well since it arrived. It's expensive, but totally worth it.


Review: Embody Memory Foam by Sealy
A Year in Bed Project

12/13/10 6:02 PM