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This is hilarious. I actually decided I wanted to start dating my partner when I went to his apartment for the first time, and I thought, "If I were a guy, this would be how my apartment would look." I just think that a person's sense of style is an expression of what they value, and I knew immediately that we had shared values, which is the most important thing to me in a relationship.

I couldn't date someone who differed from me in religious or political views, unless they were generally open-minded. It's not out of me being judgmental of people who differ from me (quite the contrary), but out of wanting to be able to relate to someone on a deep level. And I think one's spirituality is manifest in how they dress or decorate their home.

Some people, especially in America, seem to think that a focus on aesthetics is somehow superficial or a sign of low moral standing or materialism or something, whereas I just think it's a celebration of the world and of creativity.


Would You Date Someone if You Really Dislike Their Style?
7/23/12 1:23 PM

I love this beautiful tiny house! It's so much cleaner (in terms of the design style) and cozier than many tiny house projects.

Also, it looks like right now they carry their water in in those refillable 5 gallon jugs, and set it by the sink. I do the same thing for my art studio.

Maybe there is a nearby river they can bathe in or something.

I also like that they insulated it. Great job, guys.


Christopher & Merete's Truly Tiny
Home on the Range House Tour

7/16/12 3:47 PM

I'll mention that open shelving at below the counter level is a bad idea if you have pets. Their hair gets everywhere.


How To Know if You're Ready for Open Kitchen Shelving
1/19/12 12:35 PM

Help. I am in love with your house.


Kathryn & David's Mix of Modern & Craftsman Apartment
House Tour

8/26/11 12:36 AM

WOW!!! magic magic fun fun magic magic fun fun.


Heidi & Lauren's Brilliant Austin Bungalow
House Tour

12/27/10 2:26 AM

Your space is beautiful. I really like the muffler bed and that many of the objects in your space are not even necessarily functional as their main purpose, or at all functional.

It reminds me of Salvador Dali's house.

Also, in regards to the black dog in a white space issue, the rug is dark. Only the bed cover is made of white fabric. Black lab hair doesn't stick to white painted furniture.

I have two black dogs. Their hair does, however, stick to anything plastic, like a ghost chair.

P.S. I have had evil personal attack-type comments posted about me in the comments section of a blog that was covering something I do creatively, for a living, and it really hurt my feelings.

But then I realized the evil comment attack happens to a lot of people who are self-confident about being willing to go out on a limb and do something original.


125 Square Feet! Kristen's Minimalist Studio in Seattle
House Call

11/10/10 12:08 AM

Wow, the use of color in this house is amaaaazing. And how sumptuous and fun at the same time can a house get?

Why can't I get my boyfriend to dress like these guys? It's not fair.


Three Men & a Home Filled with Photography
House Tour

9/28/10 5:57 PM

Wow. I grew up in the South - in Raleigh, NC, and I am actually shocked at how many of the commenters seem to think it is obvious that a person should remove their shoes inside the house!

Growing up, I had a lot of friends and family, whose houses I would visit frequently, and only encountered *one* person until I was in my late *twenties* who ever asked me to take my shoes off at the door, and actually, taking off one's shoes at the door, or at all, was often considered very rude. No one wanted to see or smell your feet, and I don't remember anyone ever taking off their shoes at parties, unless it was a slumber party. That way you can run in and out of the house at will, without having to keep removing your shoes.

The only person whose home was shoe-free was my friend whose parents were born in Korea. *Everyone else* wore their shoes in the house. And it was not gross. People in the South realize they will be wearing their shoes inside, so they keep their shoes more clean, and there are usually at least two doormats at a person's house, and also often a boot scraper outside the door, for you to scrub off the bottoms of your shoes when you come in the door.

I also lived in London, UK, and in Sevilla, Spain, and shoes inside were normal for the most part. I started making a lot of friends from the Midwest, when they all started moving down to Raleigh, a few years ago, and they all have the shoes off rule, which really got on my nerves at first, for the same reasons mentioned above by the other few people who dislike this rule.

I was also invited to a party where I was asked to remove my shoes, but my feet were stinky inside my heels that I had worn to walk to the party, and I had to run to the bathroom to wash my feet in the sink, and there was only a hand towel to dry my feet with, so I used toilet paper. Also, my shoes are usually a main part of my outfits, and they alter the fit of my clothes, if they are heels or not, and being from a place where people don't take off their shoes, I feel suddenly undressed and un-festive with them off.

And at these parties, if they are cocktail parties, and we are all wearing dresses and neckties, I find it ridiculous looking to run around with no shoes on. Plus I always end up getting bits of food and hair stuck to the bottoms of my feet. I hardly ever wear socks, and my feet don't normally stink, but I don't like to run around barefoot in a lot of people's houses.

I actually am sort of in transition, because my partner is from Iowa, and so we usually take our shoes off at home, or with close friends, but we would never ask anyone to take their shoes off unless they have been tromping through mud, and then we would actually offer for them to clean the mud off with our hose, rather than having to take off their shoes - their choice.

I really think it is a cultural and climate thing, and people from Canada and the Midwest (coming from Scandanavia), and Asia seem to be the most into removing their shoes.

My mother still gets offended when my partner and I remove our shoes as soon as we get to her house for dinner with her boyfriend. And I still get irritated when I am at my partner's parents' house in Iowa, and I just have to run back into the house to grab one item I forgot, but I have to unlace my boots. If they just kept their stoop and walkway clean, and had one of those scrubby grass material mats to wipe my feet off outside the door, then I wouldn't track anything in.

Basically, I think that people have cultural differences in what they expect, and to different people, it is respectful either to take off your shoes, or to keep them on. In the South, the norm is to keep them on, and it is a sign of respect to keep them on.

All of this said, I am not a person who really cares either way, although as a Southerner who has seen her world invaded by Midwesterners with all their Strange New Rules, I sometimes feel like they are ruining my party outfits, or putting their sticky little feet all over my clean floors.

Another note: in Raleigh, people almost always travel by car, and you keep your car clean, so if you are just walking up someone's concrete driveway from your car, what dirt are you really bringing in?


Do You Leave Your Shoes at the Door? | Apartment Therapy San Francisco
7/17/10 7:46 PM

I have lived in a 120 square foot space with a boyfriend, a dog and a cat, for two years. It was too small for us, but it was fine for about six months. Both of us do a lot of projects that require hoarding salvaged materials and art supplies, musical instruments, etc. We were living there while trying to build a bigger space, which is not finished yet but will be 750 square feet with a separate 250 square foot workshop. That will be perfect. We are self employed and need that much space.

Like Kaete said, it really depends on what you do for a living or for your outside activities. If we had both been writers, we could get by with maybe 350 square feet total.

But, we did used to live in 1,500 square feet, and that was too big. Downsizing to what you really need just simplifies your life. No couple needs a dining table and another kitchen table to eat at, for example, or two living rooms/dens.

Also, I think that designing your own home, laying it out to be the most useful to your needs, automatically lets you live in a much smaller space than moving into a space designed before you got there, unless it's really well designed and happens to fit your needs.


Life in 140 Square Feet Natural Home | Apartment Therapy Re-Nest
12/27/09 4:41 PM

This place is great. I totally love the aesthetic, but I agree that I'd rather see more photos or a diagram that show the layout of the whole space, because I am having trouble conceptualizing how it all fits together.

I love the kitchen area, and the fact that almost everything seems to be reclaimed and salvaged. The people who don't understand how this space is green are just confusing me. All the materials are salvaged! There is a composting toilet, eliminating the need for the harsh chemicals that unnecessarily go into treating our waste! There aren't a bunch of toxic paints and packaged and shipped products filling the house.

I personally have lived in a similar situation, but a bit more rustic actually, for several years, and it has allowed me to save a lot of money and do what I want with my life, follow the career path (music/art) that makes me happy, and I think that adds a lot more beauty to my life than fancy design elements.

This does definitely look like a guy lives here, and it reminds me of at least four men's homes that I know (two of which I've fallen in love with), and it makes me think I would love this guy, Chris. I'm thinking this place will be like a little heaven in about 2 years, once everything is constructed. But I don't think he's going to suddenly re-upholster and paint everything.

And it's a beautiful way to live in the meantime. Thanks, AT, for putting this home on here. Very inspiring.


House Tour: Chris' Green HomePhiladelphia | Apartment Therapy DC
12/2/09 1:56 PM