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Display Name: katethegreat
Member Since: 12/1/09

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So silly. I use a stack of white washcloths.

We have a roll of paper towels, but it is reserved for bacon grease (we don't get the newspaper), and anything that comes out of either end of the dog.


CLEANCut: A Touchless Paper Towel Dispenser?
3/28/11 9:04 PM

"floor bed" isn't a commodified name. It's a pretty old one, actually, as old as montessori.

Also, when you're purchasing LESS instead of more stuff for your child, I'm not sure your comment works.

Our daughter has a floor bed. She's four months old and we cosleep, but when she's ready to be out of our bed, she has a safe and gated room to be in.


Consider A Floor Bed
3/26/11 12:22 PM

If both of us are home, one of us takes a nice hot bath (without bubbles). The other plays with our baby until the water cools down enough for her to get in. She's eight weeks old, and she loves it when I support her neck and head so she can kick her legs and swim with her arms.

When we're done playing and washing, the person in the tub hands her off to the person outside the tub.

If I"m the only one home we just shower together. I take her in with me with cooler water, and when I'm done washing her I set her on a towel outside the shower and wrap her up quickly. I leave her there while I finish my shower. She entertains herself by kicking out of the towel.

Works for us.


Alternatives To Bath Mats
Good Questions

1/17/11 10:10 PM

I use a stepcan from Target.

Sounds like you're going to use disposables, so I think it's funny that you're concerned about that ONE piece of plastic in a landfill rather than the 6600 diapers you'll be contributing before your child turns 2.

And before I get jumped on, no, it's not a big deal to cloth diaper a baby in a small apartment with no in-building laundry facilities.


Do I Need a Diaper Pail?
Good Questions

12/26/10 2:28 PM

Sure, it's a great science experiment to do with good supervision, but not so great to make an "ornament" that stays in the house as decoration.

Why? Because Borax is poisonous and should be kept away from kids and pets.


Grow Your Own Snowflake Ornament with Borax
Martha Stewart

12/10/10 1:55 PM

Oh no! Please don't spread misinformation about breastfeeding. Babies are not allergic to breastmilk.

Babies can be allergic to cow's milk proteins and other foods that pass through breastmilk,
Most of the time, if not all the time, the problem can be solved by eliminating the food(s) the baby is sensitive to.

Choosing between doing an elimination diet and quitting nursing is just another thing that moms judge each other on, but it's important that false information about breastfeeding isn't spread to women who need to know that there are choices.


Is Green Parenting Bad For Moms?
11/10/10 8:02 PM

I wouldn't roast a wild turkey whole. The flavor can be quite strong to the uninitiated. I'd do a braise or a turkey and dumplings type dish to keep the moisture in, and then roast a small regular turkey or a chicken to serve alongside.

We generally only eat the breast in my family--the legs/thighs/wings aren't the same consistency as a store bought turkey. Wild turkeys actually run around. :) Not that it's not edible or it's bad--it's just different. Those pieces, I've found, are great for stock with the carcass.

Also, you can put the breast in the crockpot with a package of knorr leek soup mix and a can of cranberry sauce and some water.


How Do I Cook a Wild Turkey?
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11/10/10 4:30 PM

No, nellymom, it's not a niche slice of parenting "in this world". It's what's done IN THE REST OF THE WORLD daily, naturally.

She wants absolution, that's the problem. She feels guilty for travelling the world on tour while leaving her daughter with a nanny and a houseboy.

Waaaaaaaaaaah.

Carrying or wearing your child, making baby food (srsly, how hard is it to smash an avocado?), and cloth diapering are not new ideas.

In fact, parenting has gotten easier, not harder. I'm certainly not mucking out the stalls, keeping a fire going all day, harvesting the squash crop, and rubbing my clothes on rocks down by the river while I'm SAHMing.

Parenting is what you make it. If you want to whine and complain, go right ahead. Or, do the best you can and own your decisions. Don't let other people make you feel bad if you're totally okay with opening up a jar for dinner and putting plastic diapers on your kid. It doesn't necessarily indicate laziness--it could indicate a need to make some things simpler so that you can spend more time with your kids.


Is Green Parenting Bad For Moms?
11/10/10 3:27 PM

Actually, you don't need any of that at all. Kids don't need purees. What they need is for their parents to wait until they are developmentally ready to eat food. As in, they can sit up by themselves, have lost the tongue-thrust reflex, have developed a pincer grasp to pick up food, etc.

Using gadgets to hurry your child's development just isn't a good idea. Spoonfeeding cereals and purees are one example, the Bumbo seat is another.


Mush by Boon: Manual Baby Food Processor
11/9/10 2:02 PM

Actually, Sturgis, it's that kind of rule-making and negativity that often makes reluctant readers even more reluctant.


House Rules
Flickr Find

10/29/10 1:58 PM

I have severe food allergies, but I would NEVER expect a hostess to accommodate them, or my child's food allergies. That's just rude. You either eat what is served or you don't. I don't tell people that my child and I have all these food allergies. Instead, I bring food if I think we're going to need it, and we're careful, just like we are EVERY DAY in the big wide world. The oversharing of health issues is ridiculous. No one wants to hear about your allergies/diabetes/celiac/aversion to raw onions/IBS/Chron's/etc. Just deal with it.

I think it's really rude to exclude a child due to food allergies. What was that parent thinking?


Friends With Food Allergies
10/18/10 12:55 PM

To answer the question, no. My child will not have a filter on her phone. Because she will not have a cell phone.

If she ever does, she'll either be old enough to pay for the service herself, or it will be a phone that has one very simple function--to make calls.


News: Apple To Censor Sexting & Potty Mouths
10/13/10 7:58 PM

I should add that we've always felt that if we decide we need a crib, there's a Target five minutes away and a Babies R Us 45 minutes away. So it's useless to spend the money when we could buy one and have it set up the same day IF we need it.


Postponing a Crib Purchase
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10/13/10 7:54 PM

Meh, the whole crib thing is a pretty American idea.

We didn't get one, especially after hearing about all our friends' cribs, which are lovely and expensive laundry baskets, pretty much.

Our baby sleeps with us. She's got a twin mattress on the floor in her room for naps and will transition there for night sleeping when we're all ready.


Postponing a Crib Purchase
Good Questions

10/13/10 7:53 PM

@Sophie
Sure, you may think that some parents are overreacting, but that's the beauty of the site. You get to pick and choose what YOU think is appropriate for YOUR child, unlike the MPAA ratings, which is an inconsistent rating system that allows 12 hand-picked, politically connected board members choose what THEY think is right for your child and everyone else's children to see.

Also, Up is not a kid's movie.


Helpful Kids' Movie Ratings: Kids In Mind
9/27/10 3:32 PM

If it's a question of your child going into your fridge to self serve snacks, maybe that's something that could be amended. To me, a child should be old enough to know what's a good snack and what's not (regardless of whether it's about allergies) in order to self serve out of the fridge or the pantry.

If it's about other caregivers not really knowing, I like the sticker idea. If you only keep a few allergens, you'd only have to sticker a few items.

I appreciate that you take into consideration the needs of all your family members. The same energy that some people put into hypervigilance about what enters their home can be used to ensure that nothing is cross-contaminated. On one hand, it's nice to have a place where you are sure that everything is safe for you to eat. On the other hand, the rest of the world isn't controllable, so teaching kids to watch what they touch or put in their mouths all the time might reduce "risk" further.


Separating Food for Allergic Kids
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9/15/10 1:29 PM

To the lady who lives in NYC: Do you live on the island part of NYC? You may want to rethink, if you do. An island is particularly vulnerable to food shortage, especially when the bridges are not available (in the case of no gas or destroyed bridges). Those little markets you speak of? In a true emergency those would be emptied out by looters. And what if you can't leave? Yikes!

I'd prepare MORE if I lived in NYC than in other places, not less.

I grew up in Florida. We lost a house to a hurricane in the 90s. I now live in Maine. We have plenty of storms here that cause us to lose power for days at a time. Plus, now we have hurricanes to deal with here, too.

I don't suggest that anyone go nutso with food storage--I don't, even though I've weathered a few disasters. But it's good to have some common sense--have water on hand and enough food to eat for a couple of weeks. Don't assume that you can just run to the store if something happens. If you think that's true, you're ignorant about where food comes from and how it is produced.


Self Reliance: Do You Have A Food Storage?
9/13/10 12:56 PM

If the cost savings was significant (looks like it might be about $1k savings for 3 tickets with a quick search), I'd consider flying into Paris or Milan and making the drive or taking the train.


How to Afford Visiting Overseas Grandparents
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9/9/10 5:55 PM

I disagree with the advice about the breastpump. It's my understanding that while hospital grade pumps are made to be shared/sterilized, breastpumps that you buy retail like the Pump n Style should not be shared--not even the main unit.

Before buying or using a used breast pump, please look into this issue and decide whether the risks are okay with you or not (no judgment here--I do things that other people deem risky, such as not getting the rhogam shot and co-sleeping!).


What Should You Hand Down To Other Parents?
9/9/10 1:43 PM

Eh, kids don't need that stuff. They need real instruments and your voice singing. Save your money for the real stuff!


Musical Toy that Won't Make You Crazy?
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9/9/10 1:33 PM